www.CostaRicaTicas.com

I would bet that many of the RFM's are sent by the boyfriend of the Chica.

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Everyone on this board has given a little extra or gone beyond what a simple sex/money exchange
No question about that no matter what is said
People have deeper relationships w the girls and everyone is different
If I really feel like I have a good connection w a girl I try to establish the respect thing from the start
Like we can keep in touch but i'm busy and if you start asking me for things I will take that as lack of respect and ignore it
So far thats worked pretty well
A girl brings her A game and rocks my world that elicits a desire to see her again but also establish parameters since she knows you like her
But I know for a fact there are clowns sending $300-$3000+ a month and if a girl can collect and balance a few of those it starts getting pretty lucrative so who can blame them for trying?
If these guys allow themselves to be manipulated then I think they deserve what they get.
But I don't think anyone is saying to be 100% cold hearted since ultimately we are all human.

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Most of the RFM I've received have been of the variety of "please loan me the money baby...I'll pay you back as soon as you get here on your next trip".

Is that the case most of the time? Or is it just flat out "regalame Cien"??

I have to agree that mostly there is nothing real about it. Prostitution and to a lessor degree pornography only provide the illusion of attachment. A world we want to believe in. where we possess all these women who love us, but in reality it's a cash transaction. All an illusion.

Disagree with you J...quality abundant physical sex without the attachment is what i'm looking for in this hobby. I certainly don't want to possess any of the women I have sex with; that's when it becomes routine, predictable and boring...it's called marriage. Most of us have escaped from that and are much better off for it

^ agree w that
and when the juices are flowing and she's not faking who cares?
it was real enough and if you keep it light and make them laugh?
thats the dessert w out buying the meal

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Bandon,
I think the point that I (and I think Jackal) are trying to make is the sex may be real but the vast majority of the time, it's one sided. Monger wants to bang a chica, but she doesn't want to bang monger, and only does it to feed her K*ds/family.

I don't remember who it was, but a couple of years ago a long-time CRT member pretty much said a similar thing and said he was no longer enjoying empty sex without any kind of emotion or connection, and quit the board and no longer travelling to monger. I tend to agree. And now after each trip, the feeling of emptiness starts to creep in. Maybe as I get older, I'm starting to think about it too much. Lucky for me, this is only a hobby and stress-reliever, it was never a big part of my life.

This is a very good post. But the emptiness doesn't actually come from the 'empty sex', it is brought from home, from the 'empty life'. We all want to escape the loneliness of a 'no-relationship', but for some, the only real fix is another relationship (no matter how horrible that can be). The mongering thing can only entertain for so long, and after that, it makes it worse.

I happen to 'love' the sex-without-commitment thing, but I am constantly forming these small (insignificant by any scale) connections. They are 100% fantasy, and not worth an RFM. But I keep doing it ... eyes wide open. It's like walking carefully through a cow field while purposely stepping in every pile of cowflop that I can find. It cannot be explained, but at the end of the walk I look down at my feet and wonder just what the fuk is wrong with me.

Not sure if any can relate. Dwarfs see things a tad different, I suppose.

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nah dwarf, in that sense we are all alike whether we acknowledge it or not
who doesn't want to find some sort of connection?

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I don't know who the wiseass is out there sharing my whatsapp number, but since posting this I have received 5 distinct RFMs ... including 1 chica in MDE that I have chatted to but never met, and 2 that I don't even know!!!

BANG goes that 15% ratio ... WTF!?!?!

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Newsflash: chicas read this board ! And you've been identified as the soft touch that you are by the chica network!

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Ok. So how are they getting my Whatsapp number then???

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Cmon BD! That number's been public knowledge on the chica network since you sent your first western union gift! Duhhhh!

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The NSA and the ChicaNet are sharing intel.

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This idea flys in the face of your 'bien marrano' theory, where a chica will NOT share a gringo that provides her with money. You can't have it both ways.

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