Tipicaman wrote:
I have often heard here about the chicas being embarrassed about their profession in front of their families. Some of these girls send, or bring, a substantial amount of money to their families. Just what do their families think they are doing to earn all this money?? They live here, they know the limited job opportunities for women in costa rica. I think they know full well what is going on here. They CHOOSE to live in a supposed ignorance. This way they can feel good about the money they receive. I truly empathize with the chicas, but feel little sympathy for the families. They hold the chica to a moral standard, but accept the money, and hold themselves to no moral standard.
I am not knocking anyone on this board, just something I noticed, time and time again. The double standard the families have with the girls employment status. I have known a girl for years, same thing, always worried about mom finding out, but the mother and family accept the money. They know she has no education, and I think that deep down they know good and well where the money comes from. Being poor is not an excuse for their behavior.
The chicas are screwed, both figuratively, and literally. Sad thing, that's all.
And again, my point is not directed to anyone on this board.
So, you feel the families should treat the girls like whores? Or not consider them families anymore? I fail to see what you are suggesting. Most families know what these girls do, and do not judge them, especially if her earnings support the family (which is NOT always the case).
It is similar to a US family having a stripper, paying her way through college. It is frowned upon, and just not discussed openly. It might annoy some of the high-moral elders, but does that really matter? Now, prostitution in the USA ... having a hooker in the family ... Pariah!