www.CostaRicaTicas.com

I mean....you should be really turned off at the first provocation..once the seal is broken and she thought she could get it from you, whether she does or not..it's still ugly.

A better solution is to not be rfm'able.....jus sayin.


Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

The fact that these women, or any woman for that matter yells at you or tries to work you for money should make you feel disrespected. Because any woman who really likes you or respects you would not even try some shit like this. You think Pimpmaster Flash ever got RFM'd? HELLLLLLLLL NOOOOOOOO..... Cuz the women knew better. So if a woman is RFMing you or like what happened to Roller then she should be thrown out of your harem sharpish..... If not, you are just another casualty.

I'm just sayin.......

Good luck.....

the DR

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They are just doing what we as a group taught them to do. Just firmly say no, I will see you when I am in San Jose. Most will be fine with that,any that are not avoid.

Reminder:

Here are a few memorable moments from the sweet darlings:

Also, I am not picking on Sl girls, just most of my first hand knowledge is from there

SL girl screws up and group emails all of her "Novios" the same I love you send money email. Many on the list knew each other.

SL receptionist had three guys pay her tuition one semester.

One girls poor mother died three times one year and kept coming back form the grave.

My fav, beautiful hot DR girl had two fiancees both from Fla, One had a condo and a car and big ring for her in Guanacaste and the other a car and condo and a big ring in San Jose. Finally after many delays and postponements she agrees to marry the Guanacaste guy. San Jose guy gets invited to the wedding by friend of a friend. He confronts her and the groom and the Guanacaste guy marries her anyway.

Sl girl with CRT member paying her "not to work" would show up at Sl to "see her friends" and would only go with guys who promised not to tell her boyfriend.

Moral of the story, enjoy them while you are here. If you like the Girlfriend experience pay them for the week and have at it.

Being overly nice will only make them treat you worse. Firm but Fair are good words to live by.

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I am never going home

Interesting too how guys try to figure out if they are lying or not when they RFM. Who cares? I give the chica that cuts my hair money when she cuts my hair. Ditto for any other person doing a service. Doesn't really matter if her need is legit or not. If they need money tell them to get out there and work that money maker!

Well said, what where they doing before you came along.?... working that money maker.... lol

Great advice Bktuna! I am going to tell my story for others to learn.

I think most people get smarter and wiser as they go to CR regularly. Apparently, the opposite happened to me and I got dumber. (I don't know how many times I've been there) My first trip to CR (2007) I was a prick, then I started to back-off a little and life was pretty good. All things were in equilibrium and I was treated fairly and nobody even tried to take advantage of me.

My last trip was completely different story. Maybe I got too excited about going, maybe I was too happy about being there. Who knows. In the past, I have read where people have brought gifts to the girls. In fact, if I were to look back on my previous posts, I criticized them for bringing gifts. Why do that?

For some dumbass reason, I thought I would give it a go and bring some gifts to the girls I saw regularly. These girls never RFM'ed me, treated me well and got repeat business each trip I made. They were timid around me and treated me with respect. I blame Zig Ziggler who said "acts recognized and rewarded are repeated." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8iOUDtO ... re=related (6 minute mark for those who don't want to listen to the whole thing)

Ohhh NO, I won't do that again. In Costa Rica Zig Ziggler advice DOES NOT APPLY.

I was going through Sam's Wholesale Club the weekend before my trip. I saw some nice designer shirts for women that had a tag on them that said $80, but Sam's only wanted $12. Thinking I was being smart, I thought I would buy these $12 shirts and give them to the girls who would think they were getting $80 shirts. I bought 3 for the three girls I see regularly - total cost before tax $36. It worked! They thought they were getting $80 shirts and gloated about what good taste I had and asked if I had help picking them out, etc.

These wonderful girls of the past, who treated me so well and with such respect turned into money-hungry RFM's instantly!! As others pointed out, I showed weakness by rewarding them. I was asked

1) To advance them $100 for rent
2) Could I give them $20 tip
3) Needed EXTRA taxi money because they were going across the city to their house
4) babysitter money
5) They had to tip the doorman at SL (Really!! I am not making that up)
6) and finally, the ultimate insult when I wouldn't give them more money "You aren't taking care of me!!!"

Three favorites wiped-out in one week! So, my trick of giving $12 shirts that had tags that said $80 worked in that the girls really thought I spent $80 on a gift for them. It worked to where they thought they could walk all over me.

Although, I wonder what happens if all three show-up at the same place wearing the same shirt?

Trust me, once you show weakness you can never go back. So each session ended in a fight. A fight to regain my dignity. A fight to not pay them extra. A fight to get them to leave.

There is ONLY one Tica that has earned a gift from me and my eternal gratitude. I will take her a gift, but I will not use her service. She deserves a gift, but I will not see her professionally. Here's the explanation in this thread. viewtopic.php?f=7&t=40741

Priceless
Had a chica e-mail me saying she needed money to pay the apartment rent. She tells how she hated to ask for money but had no other choice. I guess she forgot we were facebook friends so 2 days later she posts a pic of her and her Tico novio in Jaco bragging about what nice vacation she was on so I guess some gringo came through for her

Not saying none of them ever do, but good looking chicas don't NEED to beg. It is generally 6's and lower begging, because 7's and above can go to the DR any day of the week and make money.

Well said and to that end, chicas usually rfm mongers that are 7 and below too... damn, wut a dickheadish thing to say Sad, but tru...



Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

Goodfella's

CubaDave has a video on Latin Blush Talking about RFM's... It's funny as a Muthafucka... check it out if get a chance.

That's the best summary I have read on here that summarizes RFM - being the target of RFMs myself !!

How could you forget to list the (in)famous SL dayshift pro who a few years ago asked (and received!) money for her cancer operation-- not only from mongers but other SL chicas? Rumor has it she absconded with several thousand dollars.

Working girls get RFM'ed, too

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I've been to San Jose 7 times and I have never had an Rfm. Maybe the chicas don't like me.

No Maximus, it just means you passed the test and they don't consider you a sucker.

Very simple, don't give them your email address or phone number. That being said, I confess that I have contributed many times to the chica "fund" while I have been in CR.

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