[quote="Cujo'S"]
If you are susceptiple to being taken advantage of by women, there's nothing I can ever say to change that...
I would work on the perception chicas have of you. These girls have manners, they know who they can pull shit on and who they can't,
period..
Ding ding Ding...I winner... Words of wisdom here.
What is more funny, perhaps, than the "save a ho" tone, is the "save a monger" crusadors, who think that they can somehow teach guys the rules about not getting taken advantage by a these horrid "sharks." If one is so vulnerable that they need to put up big walls ( feel ANYTHING other than horniness, never give five bucks, never believe anything) so they don't get hurt, than what does that say? It says, weakness and problems setting bounderies and limits. It says a lifetime of feeling hurt by women. Big walls are for those who need them.
Did the origionally poster change the women's life? Of course not, it was a random act of kindness that may have done nothing, or may have given her time to think about what she was about to do.
What does it matter who is the recipeint of a randomly kind act? Monger, hooker, baker, bum, ect. If you give randomly to these girls and expect them to love you, you are nuts. But to just give for the sake of giving? What is so horrid about making the world a bit more human for a minute.
Why of the guys here are so locked into the Madana/Whore, Bitch/Savoior thing, its really predicible-I even guessed who was going to respond to this post with in a stearn and harsh way.
Why is it so hard for some people to believe that you can be firm, centered, and totally not open to a relationship with a hooker and be kind and human at the same time? Why is it so hard for some to believe that you just be a prick to be strong?
If that is you, and no accusations at any one person, perhaps take a look at your own fears of being engulfed and overwhemled- these girls are only powerful over you if you have not worked through your overdependence on women...
That said, what is up with the nasty, person to person attacks? Can we just present our point of view and not have it get THIS personal?