Confession time from E.C.
prepare the flames. I'm a big boy; I can handle it. Before anyone writes "You're ruining it for all of us by your largesse" or something like it, I'll pre-empt your flames by stating the following:
* Every gringo that calls a girl a "puta" to her face "ruins it for all of us."
* Every guy who is physically abusive in bed (it doesn't have to involve a punch or a slap) "ruins it for all of us."
* Every monger who goes into a session drunk, dirty, smelly, too high to function..."ruins it for all of us."
* Any monger who brags of his exploits to another monger in the presence of the chica "ruins it for all of us."
Whew. Now that I've hopefully spread some flame retardant:
1. I gave a chica nearly $500.00 to try to ease her (verified) financial crisis. She subsequently fell of the wagon, got very drunk for a week, and ended up in the hospital.
. Have paid for sessions during which I didn't even have sex, but enjoyed the company/touch/caress/affection of the girl.
3. Ansered a $250.00 RFM from a well-knowwn massage therapis...
4. Have given coins and cigarettes to beggars.
5. Have left tips/propinas that were a bit too large, simply because I likedthe waiter/waitress/bartender.
6. Hav gifted hotel empleadas with perfume and extra cash, candy and lingerie.
7. Given Christmas gifts to my Mom, brothers, their offspring, my wife and her relatives.
8. Donated to charities.
9. Spent hours of my time counseling/hand-holding/listening to my CRT pals.
Why did I do all these things? Ken Lee nailed it: I did these things (and still do), because they feel good to _me_. Do I expect that my largesse will have any lasting effect on the world at large? Nope.
Here's what I have done, still do and (I pray) wil always do with those dirty, filthy, skanky, c*m-guzzling, lying f*cking subhuman p*tas:
1. Treat them with the rspect and love I want for myself. (See "Golden Rule" - Check Wikipedia if you need a quotation)
2. Pay fair-market value for service.
3. Recognize the good in everyone I spend time with.
4. Listen with my heart but filter what I hear through reason and experience.
Guess what? Even though I don't always get back everything I've given from the original recipient, my "kindness" seems to come back around to me with amazing regularity.
Point: I got a reputation, good or bad depending on your machismo and perspective): I earned the reputation around the SL of being something less than a sexual dynamo but loving, relaxed, "normal," and generous. It's amazing how many free hours, extra love, good laughter and great times I received from the girls. Now, make of that what you will, but I know that my generosity (of spirit, not necessarily of money) earned me the reputation of being a desireable client. Yes, it also opened me to "queen-for-a-day" stories, hard-luck tales and requests for "donations," but my rep also got me a bit of "real love" from the girls.
You hardcore mongers go ahead. Think of these women as being basically undesirable fore their evil ways, useful for only their c*nts, asses and mouths. Go ahead and dehumanize, if it makes your dicks work better. It's not the way I roll. Am I a sucker? Time will tell; I may never have a novia, but I am certain I have friends among the working girls. That reputation to me is more valuable than any reputation I might earn among you all.
