SlimJohnson wrote:
... What does bother me is he referes to the fat person as a "jackass". It seems to me Jmacaula thinks it's okay to deminish someone because their fat. If he were refering to a person of color, a woman or someone with an obvious disability; that would be considered wrong. I'm not trying to be all politically correct or anything but it does point out the general attitude towards fat people. These are the same people who are often addicted to alchohol, drugs and nicotine. It's sort of like the pot caling the kettle black. Just sayin'
I think that the others effectively countered Slim's earlier objections about whether the airlines provide adequate space and such. I'll only add that we all know what is healthy and normal or even what is average (which these days tends to be a bit above what is considered healthy) and the airlines seats are perfectly adequate for that. It is only when a passenger is significantly larger than average where seat overflow becomes an issue.
HOWEVER, as to the Jackass comment, while there certainly can be unfairly negative general attitudes towards overweight people (sometimes by people who face negative attitudes themselves by others), this is NOT a case of that.
First of all, the airlines seem to be doing everything they can to make this as fair as possible for the passengers affected (both the overweight passengers themselves AND the completely innocent passengers who are forced to sit in the seat next to them). They're not bothered at all if the seat next to them is empty. If it isn't they're allowed to move to some other contiguous seats that are. If that is not possible, they're allowed to change to another flight that has the space if one is available or are given refunds EVEN IF the ticket they purchased was a non-refundable one. It is hard to imagine what more they could do to accomodate these passengers short of continuing to allow them to diminish the flight experience of the completely innocent passengers who were unfortunate to get the seat beside them.
Secondly, ALL of the above accomodations made by the airlines really go BEYOND what they "owe" the overweight passenger who only books one coach ticket. Most people have flown before and KNOW whether they can properly fit in these seats and. even if they haven't, they KNOW that they are SIGNIFICANTLY overweight and that the real possibility exists that they won't be able to fit in those seats. So, knowing all that, if such a person goes ahead and books a small coach seat figuring that if someone gets stuck beside them that will just be too bad for them and they will have to suffer then, I'm sorry, they ARE a jackass.
They're not a jackass because they're overweight. They're a jackass because of their lack of consideration for their fellow passengersA person that is severely overweight may not "choose" to be that way, just as a person of color, a woman or someone with an obvious disability does not choose their particularly status (although in the case of the morbidly obese there ARE usually some things they can do about it). But, unlike people in those other groups, they DID choose to book a space that is inadequate for their needs which also negatively physically impact those around them.
I disagree with Hunter that this is unfair to the "10% who can't do anything about their weight". I also question where he got his statistics. But, whatever those exact numbers are, EVEN IF they can't do anything about their weight, they should recognize that they are what they are and that 1 coach seat may not be adequate for them. And so they should also recognize that there may wind up being some consequences if they try to get away with just booking a small seat. Overly large people can't fit into Miatas either does that mean they should get a 2nd Miata for free or have Mazda adapt the Miata so that larger people can fit inside or does it mean that those large people should just buy a different car?
Squirrel88 wrote:
This gets at me since i am a big guy. Why don't we just charge extra for someone being black, brown or white? Seems to me its the same difference... discrimination...
Its completely different. Leaving aside the whole question of whether being grossly overweight is an elective condition or not (personally I recognize the huge difficulty for some overweight people on doing anything about their condition due to glandular, metabolic or psychological factors), unlike another person's skin color, a fat person spilling over into another seat who can't even put down the armrest PHYSICALLY AFFECTS THE PERSON NEXT TO THEM.
An interesting analogy that I heard was the case of a single person living in a studio apartment with a family of 8 living in the same size apartment right next door. In that case, you wouldn't figure that the family of 8 had the right to move into the single guy's living room just because they needed the extra space. Or would you figure the large family should just move to (and pay for) a larger apartment that could accomodate all of them?
Now if you want to talk about other "conditions" that might warrant similar restrictions, now that we've started down this slippery slope, there are some other arguments that I've heard put forward by people who think these policies are unfair that I think have SOME merit. If we're going to "discriminate" against morbidly obese people because of their negative impact on their fellow passengers then why don't the airlines institute similar policies against families with screaming Babi*s or tall people with long legs that continually knee the person sitting in front of them in the back? And where does it end? How about a surcharge on seatmates who refuse to shut up while you're trying to just get a little sleep? Or people with B.O. who like to fart a lot and people with annoyingly cloying perfume or cologne? Or people who CHOSE the window seat even though they insist on getting up 50 times during the flight forcing you to get up to let them out? Or people that carry WAAYY too much carry-on luggage (which they also have unenforced rules on and is also a "weight issue") for clonking you in the head, shoulder or knee as they try to negotiate their big load down the aisle and then take up all of the overhead space? Or how about those loud drunk obnoxious gringos 3 rows back that you hear talking about their sexploits in CR while you're sitting with your wife and Ch*ldren? Should the airlines be allowed to serve them more alcoholic drinks? You can see where this is all going.