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I can understand the guys that are way out of their league... meaning not good-looking, way overweight, no personality, no charisma, etc... they don't have many other options in CR.
I actually prefer the working girls. I've dated both workers and non workers. Within certain parameters the pro's are a relatively known commodity. They are so much better than the "polly anna" non working girls who are playing the same game.......... but pretending they're not. Over time, the non's will cost you more, both in dinero and emotional investment. The pro's acknowlege who they are and what they do. YMMV
I agree that there is an unusually high percentage of working girls with Personality Disorders. IMHO, Narcissism is at the top of the list.
The disorders often are responses to life circumstances. Poverty, incest and abuse are most probably the top producers. "But for the grace of God there go I."
It's easy for me to understand why the girls are who they are and do what they do. It's much more difficult for me to comprehend the circumstances that produce Personality Disorders that motivate some of the expressions used by some of CRT'ers in some of their posts. A couple of nonverbatim examples:
"We worked our way around SJ
destroying chicas."
"I will be in SJ soon to
punish the chicas."
"I don't see anything I'd
stick my dick in."
There are lots more but you get the idea.
IMHO, a shared intimacy with mutual enjoyment is much more gratifying than "punishing, destroying and sticking." When you think your dick is a weapon you may have an ego problem. That kind of thinking must have been produced by deep seeded psychological problems.
Maybe it's time to look in our own backyard's to see who has the bigger problem. Is it the girls who are simply trying to support themselves and their families and survive psychology with the reality of their choice...................or...........is it the gringos who somehow think they are better than their providers?
Some of the crap I hear come out of the mouths of
some of my countrymen makes me shudder and wonder: What went wrong in that pobricitos' life, that resulted in that kind of thinking?
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........HOWEVER, I would rather stick to the working girls rather than risk hurting a sweet Latina looking for a serious relationship. Many gringos play this game in Medellin and other places and many good, innocent women get hurt badly. If you are only in it for your own fun than PLEASE STICK TO THE PROs !
There are lots and lots of pretty sweet working Latinas too!
I, for one don't want to hurt anyone, pro's or nonpro's........... but admit............ I certainly am curious to know why anyone would. Perhaps their life circumstances resulted in Sadomasochistic disorder?