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PostPosted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 9:48 pm 
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Phantom – although some of your comments come across as new information is just a rewording of previous members post. Just like my previous post on this thread, I still question why you are here and why you are bothering posting. Per your own words, you are happy with your ex-working girl but you are posting to a mongering forum. Your reasoning;

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So when I see these jokers arrogantly spouting off, when they have no clue what they are talking about, I decide to chime in.


Why should you care? If arrogance annoys you so much, I will advise you to stop surfing the net. In the net everyone is full of it including you and I. Sorry, but I do not buy it.

You call us ‘dorks’ but you are the one dating/married to a working girl? Out of the millions of non-working girls in CR, you hook up with a working-girl and you calling us dorks? Now who is being played?

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A very high percentage of these women are either incest or rape victims. Nearly all have serious psychological problems. If you are involved with a Puta you should expect to deal with Multiple Personality Disorders, Depression, Manic Depression and Extreme Jealousy.


Then you muddle the waters with the statement above. I call BS on this one. Please, show me or PM some data. I do not rebut that there might be some cases but to paint most of the chicas with that is questionable.

And if you actually believe it yourself, why are you dating/married to a working-girl?

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When they know your time here is finite, they only show you what they think you want to see.


Duh, you think? I agree on the statement above but you make it sound like is a bad thing. We all know this is a fantasy or at least I hope we all do. This is the reason for the thread. When I travel to CR, I wanted to be a fantasy. Make me believe that I’m Marc Anthony or Luis Miguel with a 20” inch dick. It is my fantasy and I’m paying for it.


It is those “novios” or those that are dating or marring a working-girl that cannot discern between reality and fantasy. Some of you complain about gringas but you date or marry a working-girl instead of the most abundant and reliable non-working girls in CR. Nope, I do not buy it. It does not matter if you are in country or the USA, any reasoning behind dating a puta is without logic.

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Phantom – although some of your comments come across as new information is just a rewording of previous members post. Just like my previous post on this thread, I still question why you are here and why you are bothering posting. Per your own words, you are happy with your ex-working girl but you are posting to a mongering forum. Your reasoning;

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So when I see these jokers arrogantly spouting off, when they have no clue what they are talking about, I decide to chime in.


Why should you care? If arrogance annoys you so much, I will advise you to stop surfing the net. In the net everyone is full of it including you and I. Sorry, but I do not buy it.


I will address your question.

#1 These same jackasses bring their same arrogant attitudes with them when they come and visit this country and frankly it is an embarrassment.

#2 Being an American Ex Pat living in this country, I do not want to see these sort of arrogance attitudes and ignorance spread to others, especially when I happen to know that these guys don't have a clue what they are talking about.

#3 Why should you care what my motivations are? I am investing my time to share an INFORMED opinion, others seem to find it valuable. If you don't, so what?

#4 Finally, I could care less if you buy it or not. If it is your preference to be an ugly American when you visit a foreign country that is your choice.

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Yep, I knew it. Your non-answers answered all my questions. Thank you. :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

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As the author of one of the most successful threads on CRT of all time "Your Novia is a Prostitute... Wake Up and Smell the Coffee... there are always exception to the rules. Slim... very slim, but it is possible to have a successful relationship with an ex-hooker or even an active working chica. Phantom claims to have such a relationship so who am I to dispute that. It's his experience. Whether he posts on CRT, a board for mongers, has no bearing on the reality of his experience. If we question WHY he happens to be here we should question why the married guys are here as well. Who really cares? No one generally. He has a perspective. Take from it what you will.

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I just "had it out" with a board member on this topic who was promoting his success in dating and marrying putas. However, he has not chimed-in on this thread. What ever happened???

I also know several guys who live in the SJ area who are currently novios to working girls. When I see all the hot pu*sy walking around CR, that is not for sale, I just don't get it. Its really not that hard to pick up a non-working girl in CR. I found it to be a piece of cake.

I can understand the guys that are way out of their league... meaning not good-looking, way overweight, no personality, no charisma, etc... they don't have many other options in CR.

But, to the rest of the guys... I'll never understand it.

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I can understand the guys that are way out of their league... meaning not good-looking, way overweight, no personality, no charisma, etc... they don't have many other options in CR.

But, to the rest of the guys... I'll never understand it.


Chi, as someone who has played the non pro scene both in CR and COL I totally agree with your comments that for anyone with a little game and some Espanol that there are many options............HOWEVER, I would rather stick to the working girls rather than risk hurting a sweet Latina looking for a serious relationship. Many gringos play this game in Medellin and other places and many good, innocent women get hurt badly. If you are only in it for your own fun than PLEASE STICK TO THE PROs !

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I can understand the guys that are way out of their league... meaning not good-looking, way overweight, no personality, no charisma, etc... they don't have many other options in CR.


I actually prefer the working girls. I've dated both workers and non workers. Within certain parameters the pro's are a relatively known commodity. They are so much better than the "polly anna" non working girls who are playing the same game.......... but pretending they're not. Over time, the non's will cost you more, both in dinero and emotional investment. The pro's acknowlege who they are and what they do. YMMV

I agree that there is an unusually high percentage of working girls with Personality Disorders. IMHO, Narcissism is at the top of the list.

The disorders often are responses to life circumstances. Poverty, incest and abuse are most probably the top producers. "But for the grace of God there go I."

It's easy for me to understand why the girls are who they are and do what they do. It's much more difficult for me to comprehend the circumstances that produce Personality Disorders that motivate some of the expressions used by some of CRT'ers in some of their posts. A couple of nonverbatim examples:

"We worked our way around SJ destroying chicas."

"I will be in SJ soon to punish the chicas."

"I don't see anything I'd stick my dick in."

There are lots more but you get the idea.

IMHO, a shared intimacy with mutual enjoyment is much more gratifying than "punishing, destroying and sticking." When you think your dick is a weapon you may have an ego problem. That kind of thinking must have been produced by deep seeded psychological problems.

Maybe it's time to look in our own backyard's to see who has the bigger problem. Is it the girls who are simply trying to support themselves and their families and survive psychology with the reality of their choice...................or...........is it the gringos who somehow think they are better than their providers?

Some of the crap I hear come out of the mouths of some of my countrymen makes me shudder and wonder: What went wrong in that pobricitos' life, that resulted in that kind of thinking?

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........HOWEVER, I would rather stick to the working girls rather than risk hurting a sweet Latina looking for a serious relationship. Many gringos play this game in Medellin and other places and many good, innocent women get hurt badly. If you are only in it for your own fun than PLEASE STICK TO THE PROs !


There are lots and lots of pretty sweet working Latinas too!

I, for one don't want to hurt anyone, pro's or nonpro's........... but admit............ I certainly am curious to know why anyone would. Perhaps their life circumstances resulted in Sadomasochistic disorder?


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Chi_trekker wrote:

I can understand the guys that are way out of their league... meaning not good-looking, way overweight, no personality, no charisma, etc... they don't have many other options in CR.

But, to the rest of the guys... I'll never understand it.


Chi, as someone who has played the non pro scene both in CR and COL I totally agree with your comments that for anyone with a little game and some Espanol that there are many options............HOWEVER, I would rather stick to the working girls rather than risk hurting a sweet Latina looking for a serious relationship. Many gringos play this game in Medellin and other places and many good, innocent women get hurt badly. If you are only in it for your own fun than PLEASE STICK TO THE PROs !

Rainman3


That`s right. Take it easy on these poor girls guys! Nothing but heartbreakers I tell you, but don`t think for a second that the pros are exempt.... :lol:


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Did Oprah come into the room while I've been gone? :?


Yeah, some people came make something as simple as P4P a philosophical argument. Beats me.

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when I see these jokers arrogantly spouting off, when they have no clue what they are talking about, I decide to chime in.

Phantom, it does no use to try to reason with a brick wall.
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NONE of you really have a clue what goes on behind the screens


Now wait a minute.....there your wrong. For quite a while now I’ve been quietly living under the mango tree in the DR. Nice little place about a block away from the Caribbean. The power goes out twice a day, every day. The streets are crowded and dirty. Driving is a night-mare, and everything is either broke or broken.

Particularly the plumbing! I’ll never look at a bucket in the same manner as I use to. What a wonderful tool!
I have one bucket to sh*t in, one to wash myself out of and one I keep with a Johnny Jug in it at night because you can not open the door at night because of the hood

Phantom I see no reason to write a trip report about my exploits because it will surely get ripped apart by a select few. I have said that before when I use to post under Pooter309...

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You guys are such dorks! You all think you are so damn smart. I know several successful relationships. Myself included. I am with a former working girl and it does not involve payments and I have very little grief, at least not any more than you would have with any other woman. In fact, she treats me like a king.

The ones that are successful in relationships disappear off your radar screens. The last thing any of them want is jerks like you guys to know where they are and what they are doing when they get their lives turned around.

That said, most that get involved with "professional girlfriends" do get raked over the coals. If you are paying you are a client. If you are sending money you are a client. If she does not french kiss you with her tong down your throat then you are a client. Long distance relationships with these women are a joke. The vast majority of guys involved are getting screwed over.

That said, if you can be strong in the relationship, if you can earn their respect, then you can find happiness. But yo have to be here and you have to be the one running the show or you will most likely get screwed over.


Phantom,

I agree with some of what you are saying. Tourists are CERTAINLY NOT IN THE KNOW. They also seem to get quite a bit caught up in this novia hooker thing.

However, you are blindly calling all members of this board a bunch of dorks and dummies.

I don't know how much experience you have in living in CR. But, the fact that you still spend a lot of time in the HDR and even admit to having an ex working girl in a successful relationship, points to one thing - YOURE A ROOKIE!!!

The fact that you are a gringo (and let me guess, older and semi-retired or retired... just a huge guess)

And...

You think you got this game and these girls ALL FIGURED OUT... whereas the rest of the board doesn't.... points to another thing.... YOU ARE IN FANTASY LAND.

In Costa Rica, I know of one person who is in a succesful (if you can call it that) relationship with an ex-hooker. She lives on an allowance of $80 per week. She acts like a teenager and he is an old fart. I'm happy for him, if he remains happy and I hope he doesn't get raked over the coals. But, "success" in a relationship is a subjective term. I know of another guy who calls his relationship with an ex-hooker a "good thing" even though he knows she cheats on him and hooks behind his back.

The only guys on this board that have ANYTHING figured out concerning relationships and hookers - are the guys that strictly pay these girls for their time. They treat it as nothing more than a business transaction and some good times and a little bit of fantasy.

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And why does someone join a board such as this when he already has a girlfriend. FOS


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Thirdworld ..

I have question for you?

Why is there a select few on this board who continuously raining on someone’s else’s parade…:shock::?:shock:







I'll tell you Why!!!!!














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And why does someone join a board such as this when he already has a girlfriend. FOS



girlfriend, hell ! What about all the married gents here,

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