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Every now and then a member starts up a "gringas are all fat" post, and I have to agree, but whenever in the DR I see a lot of fat, ugly, old druken gringos sitting around drinking with their buddies, talking about how fat gringas are back in the states. I just smile. I'm not saying gringos are all like this but most of the ones I see in CR fit the above description. I see it, the chicas always comment on it.

Lately, it seems lately there's more bad advice on this board than there is good advice. And bad gringo behavior everywhere. It's obvious from the posts... so many of you have it so wrong.

No wonder chicas steal your stuff, and charge you so much.. they hate you. You're nothing but a dollar bill to them. They have no respect for you, because of how you act.

But don't presume that they're that way with everyone.. they aren't. Actually its just that way with you.

I've learned that they hate the American male "I can have anything, because I'm paying for it" routine. It lacks class and sophistication.

I couldn't believe it when I read some guys 10 questions he asks Chicas.. one was will you lick my ass. This fucktard is asking someone he's only known for a few minutes to lick his ass??!! And then thinks she'll respect him??!! What a tool.

Also, the excessive negotiating.. that's no way to court a woman.

Try being suave. Tell a woman she's beautiful and act accordingly. Be a gentleman, take her dancing, buy dinner/drinks. Look into her eyes. Kiss her. Develop a respectful friendship.. you'll be amazed at how their behavior changes.

They think all aging American men are pigs.. try proving them wrong instead of proving them right.

I've gotten tons of freebies, have pros that visit me, spend the night, etc... have even left them at my place when I needed to leave. Nothing ever stolen. In fact, they cook for me and usually clean up my place before they leave. Treat them like a woman, and they act like a woman.. they love to serve good men. And love to have fun with cool guys.

Forget ALL about the fact that they're pros, and act like you're courting any other woman. You'll get real GFE for little or nothing.

Good luck.

They are hookers, not girlfriends. In all reality, your paying for their services, not for their opinion.

Yes I always try to respect the girls, and I have a few that I call friends while Im down there. When it all comes down to it though, they know why your there, they know what you want, and they know what they have to do to earn money.

None of those girls have to be there. Its a VERY cruel business, and if you go into it thinking every guy is going to treat you with utmost respect, your wrong!

CRT members are the last group of guys you should be pointing the finger at. So what if someone has a special request. She's allowed to say no. What do you think your going to accomplish taking the girl back to your room and just doing whatever she wants.

If anything you should tell them everything you want, it will save your time and hers.

To say they hate Americans is another wrongful point. Ive had girls run up to me in the street and start talking to me, asking me where I live in the U.S ( even though I dont ), and such. They obviously didnt hate me.

Of course some of the girls in the DR arent going to like Americans. The whole world generalizes any white person into an American. Someone from Europe, or from Canada looks no different then someone from the U.S.

I could go and rip a girl off, and she'd claim all Americans are scammers etc, when in reality I was from Canada.

I think you've listened to way to much DR gossip. Those girls make up the most crazy stories anyone could imagine, and your dumb enough to listen to them

I suspect you are not being completely honest YMMV. I mean, something had to spark this post and so far you've not said what really sparked it. Your words don't come without something "deep" prompting them and it has to do less with the bad advice you read here and more to do with your personal experience while in CR.

Unless you get honest, your initial thoughts and comments are somewhat of a mystery. We have part 2 of what you are thinking, but part 1 is missing.

Living in Costa Rica.... no doubt you can operate for far less than 100 dollars. If you got game, you can operate for free less the cost of dinner and drinks.

With so many posts in so little time, you must be an expert.

The hardest part... convincing Ticas (read: putas) that I'm not like the (Many) other American men- on a quest to see how much I can get, (physically, emotionally) and how little I can give (financially, spiritualy, etc.)

Simple selfishness and a lack of class on the part of others has made my 'game' an uphill battle because the actions of others becomes common knowledge in places like the HDR and there is at least some truth behind all stereotypes.

Further, I don't buy the fact that CRT members are different than other 'visitors'. Rather, I think they're better informed, and supported than other guys, and so actually do more damage to our fragile reputation.

Well, I can't prove this.. but I swear its true. I took a close look at what I wanted from these women. The answer GFE. Not GFE-like sex, but actual GFE. And thats what I get. I have a bunch of 'girlfriends' that give me pure and rich GFE experiences.



Yeah, I can see how you'd reach that conclusion.. but again I swear. You can accept my word or not, but I pride myself on only expressing truth. I'm not in any sort of committed relationship with a puta, or otherwise. Recently divorced, and very light on my feet ever since.



Here's the real deal:

I want it all. Hot sex, loving, caring, passion, etc... and from multiple partners. And I think it's very possible.


I suppose it's possible.. but haven't seen (or read here) any evidence to support that.




No.. nothing of the sort. It's just that I live here, so I don't stay in hotels. I have a place, which is where I monger. Often, after a TLN, a chica will hang out, have breakfast, etc. That's all.



Yeah, me too. I date lots of non-pros. But I don't think the line of distinction between the 'good girls' and 'bad girls' is that clear. And I find that if I treat them identically, I get identical results.




I do think that. Sorry, but I think it's true. It's not that I know how to do it better, it's more like I've paid closer attention to what I RRReally want, and am becoming more sucessful at getting it, on a regular basis.



Yeah, probably does. But to be totally honest.. I'm not that concerned about how I'm perceived. Like I said, if anyone doesn't want me to continue posting.. even 1 person, I won't continue. Until then... enjoy, or flame, or maybe learn something.



Ok. I'll give that a shot. My next post will be called "The BFE- how and why."



Lived here in CR going on 1 year. Have probably slept with half of the HDR... or at least it feels that way. Also, been to many MPs, etc.

And I've seen many of you (CRT'ers).. you don't know who I am, but I know who lots of you are. Not anti-social or anything, it's just that I prefer the company of women to the company of men. Never a wingman, tour, poker tourney, etc. I did, however, attend the Superbowl at SL.




Check the last line of his post.. the guy called me dumb, which is fine.. but I think he's a loudmouth, with little to say. The rest of his post confirmed that we won't see eye to eye, so didn't merit my response.




I speak.. I dunno.. 70% Spanish. I can usually understand everything someone says, and can respond.. although often with minor errors. All of my friends are Tico, Columbian or Nica. I speak Spanish everyday. Visit the gulch when I don't have anything better to do, which really isn't that often.






I'm not certain that I understand your point.. but I think I do. I give more than just money and get more than just sex.

And I've seen many of you (CRT'ers).. you don't know who I am, but I know who lots of you are. Not anti-social or anything, it's just that I prefer the company of women to the company of men. Never a wingman, tour, poker tourney, etc. I did, however, attend the Superbowl at SL.

I think the difference between you and the rest of us is that you have time to hunt for P$P types that are somewhat more sincere than most others. You have time, because you live there.

Most of us can't compete or relate since we don't live there. We have to come to town, play the game without getting played ourselves and then exit.

Bottom line - you can't expect us to play the same game you play. Think in terms of a football game - your game just keeps going, you are still in the first quarter, our quarter last for 15 minutes and then we have to go home for a freakin long time before starting the next 15 minute quarter. By the time we return to the game, it is so old, we have to start over.

I think everyone would agree that "Wham bam thank you chica" sex isn't all that great. The rush (if any) quickly fades. Whereas the total GFE seems to make life worth living. I believe that GFE's aren't found.. they're made. By us. Provide a BFE, receive a true GFE. Seems simple enough... and even possible for a visitor.

And CR is a tiny country. If all 6,000 of us took this new approach, I believe the P4P experience there would drastically change for the better. We, and the chicas would benefit.. alot, and add real value and broaden the scope of these short relationships.