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Hola amigos,
Been a long time since have posted due to work constraints but I read your posts most every day from my office. I spend most of january and febuary in CR to escape these cold NC winters and also pop in a time or 2 for a few days during the rest of the year so I do not consider myself ignorant in the ways of CR women. But I do have a problem that to my knowledge has not been discussed here before in trying to find ways to distinguish between the hookers and the real girls.
In late febuary I met a girl in El Peublo that I really liked. We just hit it off very good and we even planned for her to visit here as she had a visa. She was 32, divorced and no K*ds. She worked in Curridibat for a banned word care agency and lived in Alajuela with her mom who I spoke with on the phone several times. This girl spoke very good english and said that she made anout $250 a month which is feasable. She drove her brothers new Toyota Yaris often when we went out . She, and I think all of the people in San Jose know about the Del Rey and told me on the first night we met that if I went in there not to call her and that she never has and never would go in there. By all she said one would beleive that she is completely a nice girl. But some things did not add up and they were always in the back of my head. How could she get a visa and have traveled twice to the US? On $250 a month? How did she know so much about the DR? And a few other minor things.. My problem and I am sure some of you have thought about this is how can we tell when they put on the nice girl act??? How can we test them? Especially what tests can we put to them without making them mad and making them feel untrustworthy? Some of them certainly are nice girls and some are past or present hookers acting nice sweet and innocent for us.
Many of you could get serious with a working girl and not let it bother you a bit but for me its not an option. I just could not let myself take a hooker seriously if I knew about it but could be duped by the right actress. For me working girls are fine for fun but not for a relationship.
So amigos,,, any of you have a sure fire test to distinguish between the two???
Junkyard Dog,,, grande barko pero pequeno biteo!!!

If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck................

She might have been a working girl at one point and if so she is likely to eventually show her true colors one way or another. Most of the working girls had have an unfortunate history to consider the HDR in the first place, once at the HDR it can't get any better mentally and those scares probably aren't going away without some serious help so give her a chance, keep your focus on the details, protect yourself from the unexpected and if she was ever a hooker, she'll most likely prove she was one quite quickly.

I doubt there is any "test" to reveal the "act" that she is giving.

If you have been screwing her I bet she is or was a hooker. Truly good CR women are hard to get in bed very quickly. I found normal gringas easier to bed than a good Tica from a good family. YMMV

Many common factors all add up. Does she smoke,drink have tattoos etc signs of roughness. How is her grammer or does she have bolt ons? What is funny is I have found some very polished Chicas in HDR & to talk to them & look them over from head to toe you would not have a clue.

Time will tell & that is why men should always take it slow.

Best thing to do is some recon missions especially talk to her friends & if you find a very jealous friend of hers you will learn a lot. Can't believe it all but generally where there is smoke there has been fire!

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This is a very tricky question with no right answer(s).

I’ve spoken to several gringos who have mentioned trying to meet non-working chicas while in CR. But I know lots of chicas who study all day and work at least one night of the week at DR and/or KL. These chicas usually work alone and don’t care to make amigas while working.

Chi_Trekker recently posted about a chica he met on an online-dating site and he just happened to run into her at SL. I hate to admit it but she is a working-girl, working as many angles as she can to hook gringos. Why would she be hanging out at SL? She may have a plethora of excuses, but there’s only one reason she is there.

This guy I know has been chatting with this Colombiana on the net for some time now. He has a trip planned for May to meet her in her country. Well the other day he tells me that they were chatting on MSN for a few minutes then he decided to call her. They were talking on the phone and he asked her were she was because he heard lots of noise in the background, she replied that she was now on the road and just didn’t mention that she was leaving her house. Well he tells her that her MSN account is still online, she gives him her password so he can log out for her, dumb move on her part. He doesn’t log off and after a few minutes several guys pop up on the screen and they all think they have something special with her. My friend said he was still planning on meeting her but will not be spending all his time with her like he had planned.

The following question is something I wanted to ask for a sometime but never got around to it. Has anyone hooked up with a waitress/bartender/hosts/staff member working at DR, KL, SL and The Presidente for P4P? The reason I ask is because on one of my trips I saw one of these chicas sneak away with a gringo. After talking to several working-girls about this, they said, “don’t be stupid. They are available if you want.”
I’ve had several chicas quote me the price it would cost me to take certain bartenders/waitresses out of some of these establishments. Too much for me, but it seems they are available.

I hooked up with a chica who works at a jewelry store on one of my trip, after meeting her at her place of employment. She never asked for cash but gave me her number and asked me to call her again. She might have been setting me up for the payment plan.

On several occasions I’ve picked up chicas off the street who were available for P4P. They said they don’t work at DR and KL, for many reasons. But they still are working-girls.

I’m beginning to believe that a lot more chicas than I originally thought are available or have been available at some point. Especially chicas with a bebe or two. How else would they make money to pay for their bebes milk? Let’s not forget the chicas at the University, they may not have bebes but it also cost money to attend the University.

And with the economy, the lack of jobs, the pay rate in Costa Rica. What other choices do many of these chicas have to survive?

It is a very tricky question. I wish I knew the answer.

TP,

I have a fairly good Tico cab driver I have known for 12 years or so. He doesn't like to talk about all the P4P scene but he told me 85% of the women in CR are available to Gringos if they approach them right! I find this hard to believe but this guy knows a lot & isn't full of shit from what I know. He didn't elaborate much but feel he meant their husbands all cheat on them & they feel safer with us than some Tico plus maybe some money to boot. Who knows it is all a guess but the # is very high I do believe. I have hooked up with several bartenders, card dealers & waitresses but I stopped all this because I started too really like a few & I have too keep this very disciplined or it could get out of control?

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I find it very hard to believe BM bartenders are available. They make one of the highest salaries in the country, and most of them are smoking hot. What do any of us really have to offer them?

From what I could gather, the majority of them have boyfriends, or prior committments so to speak.

As for this girl I would have to say shes a working girl, or was. Any girl that refers to the DR is giving a big clue.

When you hook up with girls back home do they say "Dont go in strip clubs or hire ******* or I wont talk to you"? Why bring up something so random, when she didnt meet you anywheres near the DR.

I guess you have a better chance of winning the lottery than finding a chica in Costa Rica who has never accepted cash for sex. They need to survive.

This chica I was talking to the other day mentioned how tired she was of putting on a smile and pretending to be happy while she working. But she said she needs to do in order to attract customers. Also said, "none of the other chicas are happy to be working there. But one can't stand around with her arms crossed waiting for money to fallout of the sky."

It's funny how some of the chicas who are hardcore pros would never talk to me because they said I was a waste of their time since I don't want to pay their rate, but always want to talk to them.. after some time they would walk up to me and asked me all kinds of questions and things changed regarding how they initially thought about me and some even offered to hang out with me outside their place of work.

I believe they all may be available, depending on the guy.

Dude, please check your headspace and timing.

Firstly, check out the best salary that a Tica earns then check out the average salary in the states.

Secondly, read some of Zippy's posts, I agree with his estimate that 85% of CR ticas are gettable, whether for money or love, whatever, it takes, if you are willing to put the time in and have the skills, you never know.

Thirdly, there are several guys on this site that have bedded bartenders from establishments in CR, so it is logical to assume that the DR girls are not riding vibrators every night and might actually be swayed by a gringo. Additionally, some of the bartenders in the DR are very friendly and just as do-able as any other women anywhere else.

Anyway, I am not going to once again dredge up "ANCIENT HISTORY" and invite rebuke from the individuals who live night & day on the board, but I can simply say in all honesty, with absolutely nothing to prove; BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!!!!

I now await the inevitable.....................................

How does US salaries have anything to do with CR salaries? With tips, they make a very good earning. At worse, theyd make what a bartender here makes, which isnt a horrible earning.

I didnt say they didnt have boyfriends did I? I said we dont have that much to offer them. They can easily snag some good looking tico, so why not? Not everyone is attracted by sheer money, maybe they could care less that you make 1 million a year or whatever.

All of the ones I talked to, had a boyfriend or was seeing someone. Sure they may be available for the right price, but so isnt every other girl in the world.

If your willing to throw around such huge amounts of money just to get with one, why not offer that to a girl back home, who would clearly take it as well? Do you have some special philosophy that only certain American girls are available? Availability is a pretty standard thing. Anyone who doesnt have a boyfriend/husband is available.

Furhter, the BM bartenders, for as much as we know, arent working girls, so they arent just as do-able as any other girl.

Actually Timbones is right and so is Zippy. Without even trying very much, just asking, showing just a little bit of interest, I had 2 bartenders interested in going out. Those girls behind the bar aren't different or anything special - just typical women so don't be intimidated.

Maybe Jmac is speaking from the visitor point of view - we have nothing to offer them as visitors? That is somewhat true if you aren't willing to move to CR or bring them to the USA.

If you live in CR - I think the bartenders would be fairly easy to get.

Now Timbones.... that wasn't so bad was it? I've been living on this board too much lately! I hate it.

Exactly. If Joe nobody starts hitting on a bartender at the BM, do you think their going to fall head over heals for him? They get that kind of stuff day in and day out.

If you lived there, and interacted with them on a daily basis then its all "fair game"

Jmac writes:



MONEY



Who, if they are Tico have NO MONEY



Do you think that New York girls would never have heard of the Waldorf Astoria even if they've never been there ?



Girlfriends, wives in the U.S. assume that men go to strip clubs to "watch". They do not expect that we get laid in strip clubs (because we don't) or hire ******* (because we can't afford them), but chicas (pro and non-pro) older than 16 know that gringo men come to Costa Rica to find readily available sex.

As for the bartenders, cocktail waitnesses being available. EVERYTHING is available if you have the right amount of money. Hand the shoe shine guy outside the Pres $1000, get him cleaned up with some new threads and he'll walk out of the HDR with ANYTHING he wants.

But for the REAL non-pro, $1000 will not get you into her bed. She wants to be wined and dined, and seduced. Many of our brothers have enjoyed sensual pleasures with female doctors, dentists, lawyers, and college professors. Sometimes it just AIN'T about the money, but with the pros, it ALWAYS about the money.

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Junkyard Dog,
Is her ex a gringo? That could explain how she's been
to the states. Or, did she come here on a business visa?
I know one working girl who is from Colombia and has
a visa. I asked her how she got it and she said from a
modeling job she did in Miami. I don't find it hard to
believe she knows about the Del Rey, hell, the name
Del Rey in San Jose is like Disneyland here, everyone
knows about it and what goes on.
Don't read to much into her, if you enjoy her company
that's what matters. Sounds like you may not have any
plans to take the relationship to the next level, so why
worry about what she may or may not be doing, just enjoy
your time with her. If you are however, serious about her,
just come straight out and ask her if she has ever had
sex for money, if this is really a big deal for you.
If she says yes, then find out if she still does.
If she has, but doesn't anymore, what's the big deal?
I bet just about any one of us would have sex for money,
if the right conditions were present, i.e. no place to live,
haven't eaten in days, baby is starving, no welfare system.
If you have doubts about her, don't get serious with her,
you will only end up hurting yourself or her.
ShyOne

First let me say I agree with timbones and zippy.

Secound let me remind you guys girls like to get screwed. All over the world girls are getting screwed. When they are young and in heat they are like any other female on this earth. They can't help but stop and let the male have it. Lion's , Tigers, Cats, Horses, Cows, dogs monkeys. They stand there and let the male have his way. And after the male has seceeded in impregnating. They turn and fight back.

Women have orgasams as a way to pull sperm into the cervis. When the muscles contract. After the first baby most women know exactly when they become pregnant. Their bodies say good that's taken care of now onto the next phase. Make milk.

Just think about how many girls in CR we have been with who are still giving milk.

Its hormones, You guys should listen to Zippy or watch the discovery and learning chanels. We are driven to hit it. And they are driven to take it.

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