Your response to my statements are so good that I have to quote them to properly reply.
First of all, I am chastised; the words I wrote weren't adequately put to express my thoughts.
Bookie wrote:
[url]It seems to me to be a much saner culture in general...[/url]
I don't think I'd agree with that. It is more relaxed, I'll go along with that, and more human in some ways--especially if you're a semi-bilingual gringo with money.
But the problem of machismo is a real problem both to ticos and their women. The problem of single-parent famlies, while a different kind of problem than it is in the US, makes for a lot of befuddled aching Ch*ldren. Many tico politician's contempt for the market culture, which it sounds like you would be sympathetic to, damages the aspirations that many Ticos have to lead materially comfortable lives (aspirations which it sounds like you would call greed).
No, I was actually talking about the North American version of greed, which involves among other things flooding Costa Rica with products they don't yet realize they "need." Costa Rica is another lousy, profitable market for the U.S., one which needs infrastructure improvements, education, better law enforcement and basic human services, most of which will continue to be ignored even with "all that money" entering C.R.'s economy.
I was also baffled by your idea that the problem with sexual culture in the US is that a lot of women want to have work lives. You see them as greedy? The career women I know want to have a chance to use their brains in productive enterprises. Saying that its greed that puts women in the workplace doesn't quite square with my sense of the collective motivation.
Nothing baffling about it really. The U.S. culture of acquisition has made women feel inferior if they don't earn. What you portray as positive motivating forces, I see as social and financial blackmail.
Why do you suppose the sexual culture is so much more "sane?" Is it perhaps that ticas still treasure the traditional role of mother and do not feel as compelled to work as their North American counterparts? Or is this sexual sanity born of dietary differences?
Or, are you daring enough to risk being labeled racist and say that it's based in ethnicity.?
Gringas work because they have to do so. The lack of northern sexuality is pretty simple to understand, even for me. She works, she's also trying to be a mom, and you want her to also have time to have sex? Well, that's the excuse I hear most often from sexless gringas.... "I have no desire/energy/time for sex. I work two jobs, have to take the K*ds to the Mall to buy the designer clothes they need (so they won't get beaten up at school for wearing the 'wrong' clothes), then I have to...." You get the idea.
You say, "Both partners need to work to make it" and I will reply, "Why?" So rotten little Billy can have a $250.00 Ipod? Maybe it's this "market unfriendliness" you ascribe to the C.R. government that has helped keep the attitudes toward sex more "sane" in Costa Rica.
Or maybe I'm completely full of mierda.
Okay, let's not call it "greed." My bad. Shall we call it "follhardy and wasteful acquisitivness" or simply, "life out of balance."