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Hoping to connect with a non working girl, I was fortunate to do it twice during my last trip, January 16 to February 15. The first was a bank teller, 39 years old, thin, attractive, divorced. We went to Machu Picchu for dinner and had a great time.

The second was an attractive, petite, never married 27 year old who works in a hotel [not one where I stayed]. I had been flirting with her off and on for the past two and a half years, whenever I would see her. Finally, this trip she was starting to respond to me. We went out for drinks at a Tico bar and had a great time.

Of course, both times, the question comes up as to what I'm doing in San Jose for a 30 day stretch. Knowing they had their suspicions, I leveled with them and told them the truth, as opposed to making something up. I tried to justify it, by telling them the gringa situation in the U.S. and that I really would like to find a nice lady in CR. They both said they understood and it was not a problem, however, they both dropped me like a hot potato. I guess I can understand how they feel. I suppose it will be very difficult to have a relationship with a non working girl when I'm going to CR for other reasons.

Zebra

Thanks for the info. I'm going to lie like a gringa if the occasion arises.

Perhaps next time you talk about the project that you need uninterupted time for, outside of your normal context, i.e. the book, the invention, the business plan, ect. ect. Nothing like being away from the rat race to get those creative juices flowing, you know

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Zebra...Well good for you for trying the truth to see what would happen...I admire your...truthfulness...for most of them it's all about the fantasy too and having a guy admit he likes pay for play kind of blows it for them...still yoiu're the better man and its a better world for you not leading them on getting some free stuff and then sidling off when you know that's what you're going to do. El que anda con lobos, a aullar se enseña...Pura Vida.

Hey Dude:

You just broke mongering rule #3... Never tell a chica about your mongering. Did you think she would congralute you for spending your time well in CR.

King

I doubt it's too hard to figure out why a single guy is in San Jose for 30 days.....you can only tap dance around it for so long.

Zebra

Zebra

You better learn to tap dance if you want to date real non working Latinas what you did will never fly with good ones. Think of the reverse roll & the 2 you got to go out with you told you they work at HDR once a week sometimes. Well I guess that would be a green light to offer them p4p but you would have been disappointed with them right?

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

In my original post, I said I can understand how they feel.

I wouldn't be comfortable misleading a nice girl.

Zebra

What is wrong with just saying "I enjoy CR, it's a great country, I love the people.. it's relaxes me.." ? Are we obligated to tell them we phuck girls for money? I would think it's in poor taste to tell them anything about mongering. If it goes somewhere with the girl, you stop seeing other girls who you p4p.

I am looking for opportunities to move to CR.........and that is the truth. I have dated 2 non pros and in all honesty they were more dishonest and aggravating than any of the working chicas.

Maybe it is better to be honest with them.. When they find out you are a monger, they may charge you a cien...

Never admit to mongering.
Ever.

Always be here for the dental work and so on. Looking for a retirement home. Considering investing in a casino ...or hotel ... or bar or something.

Doing nature photography, doing a model search for New Faces magazine. Something other than banging chicas.

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Ace: "Rent everything, do not buy in Costa Rica"

Zebra I admire you honesty but I have to agree with Ace.




The only women ( both Latinas and gringas ) who know about your hobbying should only be those within the industry, the ones you bang. Even when you think you can open up to your LF's about anything, skip the pooning part. We never know how they'd take it.

I think that never admitting to it is......easier said than done. They initially had their suspicions. The teller is aware of my bank transactions [changing dollars to colones, and how often]. They know I'm staying in the gulch area, and the girl from the hotel can often see me headed that way. I think there are too many obvious indications for them to not know. Think about it from their perspective. And besides, would dishonesty be anyway to start a relationship with a nice girl?

I assumed that after telling them the gringa situation in the U.S., they possibly would understand my plight.

Zebra

Zebra

You seem like a nice honest guy. But listen to the other members of the board who knows the real deal in CR..

You can't tell them you are monger. Why don't you just wear your CRT shirt and Hat so you can advertise your mongering activities.

If you met a chica and she told you she phucks 4 a day would you be interested?