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Glad to hear another semi-straight guy articulate this point. A GFE for me is when they bring the attitude that attracted me in the bar all the way to the room with them. The sex doesn't have to be perfect (and rarely is with me as 50% or 33% of the equation), but LET'S KEEP HAVING FUN!!

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Seems like I spend half my life drinking, gambling, and mongering. The other half... I waste.

Questions from the responses
1. OK it's the age-old question but needs to be asked. Is it OK for your Pro-novia to conyinue to work. Is it also OK for your retired or never -was working chica to do what you are doing? ( something abut a goose and a gander)
2. Is that warm fuzzy feeling that some of you are talking about,diminish during sex with your one and only,if you had your dick in some other crevices that day. How about the day before.Does that dull the memory?
3. I have to admit that I like the explanation of the Hispanic view of having a chica for sex and another for a wife. I'll never forgive my parents for being Jewish. Like all good things I believe this has come to an end. (probably the Gringa influence).
4. Would any of you have this discussion with your novia/wife? If not,why not
5. Who is the sex better with? With me in my ex-marraiges,the wives were good in bed,but as time went on the girlfriends were definitely more fun.
6. What part does the drama play in the game you are playing. Do you want to get caught in some level?
I gues what I am saying is that I understand married guys in the States coming to CR to sow some oats to survive the mundane day to day existance of being married there, but in the land of "Good and Plenty" WHY BOTHER.

I think VB should get a segment on 60 minutes for the good Qs .... or maybe the View .. nah those broads on the view would lead to a bloody war

As newly married (2nd time) I am not stupid enough to think that in time things may get "habitual" the key is at least to try to spice things up all the time. As for your Q's:

1) No ... One of the reasons I married A. Her philosophy is that men are "wired" differnet ie hormones. So the rules are BJs ok, but dont want to know about it. She also expects in life I will stray. She definately has a Clinton dont ask dont tell rule.
2) Personally I know I would feel guilty if the same day. I see the BJ Mmen rule apply (for me only) when one party is over 100 miles away.
3) Reminded me of Goodfellas. Friday nights for wives, Sat for girlfreinds. Or on Analyze this ..... "why dont you do those things with your wife rather than your girlfriens .... Are you kidding that is the mouth that kisses my K*ds goodnight"
4) About the ground rules .... yes.
5) Sex not allowed (for me) and sure I am only into in total 100 - 200 gals lifetime (unlike Wilt or VB numbers), but A is #1 for me. The total package, but Ive had better BJs ... thus the rule (but she begs to learn ...
6) N/A for me

I know things will change eventually, but it floors me the difference in mentality. A gringa only wants sex when she wants it. My experience is ... "this is YOUR body too" If you want to play with it .. of course. She loves it in the morning, and is floored why gringas dont

I like to use the "gringas like this and that" and she thinks they are spoiled and self centered"

Papichullo .. chime in

ok...i've been keeping quiet on this but here is my 2 cents (we use cents in panama not the worthless colone)

I was married previously and ended in a mutually agreeable divorce. I more or less cheated the entire time we were married. for the fact that she gave up sex when she said "I do", and my hand was getting tired.

After I relocated to panama, and the divorce was final, I hooked up with Y. Y is a nympho, and pleases me and herself on a daily basis (at least once a day...most days twice). I have more or less quit cheating (I think once, maybe twice in CR both times with the same girl).

When I walk out the door for a biz trip to CR, she always says...Te Amo & Wear a Condom! Like A, Y has a don't ask, don't tell philosophy. She knows what men do, especially in Latin America, and goes with it. Now, if she did it, that would be a different story.

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I believe it is OK for any the ladies in my life, girlfriends, wives, casual lovers etc... to have an affair or relationship or continue working if they feel the need....I would like them to be upfront with me and me with them.

Personally, I don't believe in sexual monogamy....I believe people can have relationships built on trust, affection etc...but to say any individual is only going to have sex with only one person the rest of their lives or length of relationship is, in my opinion, an nearly impossible goal.

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VB..interesting topic.....It made me think about something you said...Why do we "DECIDE" to fall in love with these working girls and cheat etc...I think for me being a somewhat NEWBIE I tend to go overboard and really try to get close and then I have to deal with all the drama...Am I searching for the drama, excitement,etc..Maybe Having two chicas/novias wanting me( or denero) is a rare experience in the states...I want that GFE experience but I can't always control the emotions after....I emailed today my favorito and told I want to be with other Chicas...That is progress for me....Truth, I think I like the idea that I have a so called novia but I'm free to do anything or choose another if she won't find out...I make this effort to convince her that I'm SPECIAL (not like the other mongers)so she really likes me but it's bullshit.....I ended up (last trip) creating hugh drama with another chica and in the end I had a empty bed...I'm going to try to be more direct of what my TRUE intentions are in the future and not K*D myself. The no 3peat rule may be the answer for me

Zapato,

I find you post interesting. We modify our game plan according to the situation at hand & our life experiences. The good thing is you can afford to change it & experiment there much easier than the USA to see what works for you & what doesn’t. It is highly unlikely not to find one next in line. I guess I have been around the block so many times that I am pretty direct which seems to work well for many of the Latinas. Many prefer meeting in private to keep it a secret & not have to be obvious about what they are doing. So many Latinas are so hard pressed for money it makes our situation easy as it opens communication with them & most are all ears & willing to play even the ones that have regular jobs are not hard to persuade I have found.

I think what happens to many men they have found love to be more of an illusion than a reality & have thrown in the towel on it. Just hasn’t been what it was cracked up to be & so guys like me find the direct way to be more solid or something we understand a little better. Easier to understand them for 2 hours than 2 years. It really is a fulfilling business transaction too me & I write it off at that.

Remember when we were little boys with NO libido & how we treated the girls in the neighborhood. We wouldn’t put up with much from them because we had little desire & they wasted our time of having fun with our buds. As we became of age we start falling all over ourselves & put up with them ruining many of us financially & emotionally. Really pretty insane isn’t it?? One really has to be disciplined to over ride all this. Doesn’t mean you can’t get deep with some just don’t sign papers that are only designed to work against you if anything should go wrong which it does most of the time.

As far as the questions VB put up.
2. Is that warm fuzzy feeling that some of you are talking about,diminish during sex with your one and only,if you had your Dick in some other crevices that day. How about the day before.Does that dull the memory?

I think most men I have talked to that were happy with there special one only come out to get a little variety & retreat back to the one they love & apprieciate her even more after seeing what working girls are all about. They use it to enhance a relationship not destroy it & of course they live a double life but as we know many times 2 is better than 1.

4. Would any of you have this discussion with your novia/wife? If not,why not.

Why would one want to dive head first into this pile of trouble. You will only dig a hole or make a big scar in most relationships?

5. Who is the sex better with? With me in my ex-marraiges,the wives were good in bed,but as time went on the girlfriends were definitely more fun.

I see this as both are good but new is always new. No substitute for something new just look at how we view cars. They both have there time & place. One you give your full attention & the other you give your full erection.

6. What part does the drama play in the game you are playing. Do you want to get caught in some level?

I have never been a big fan of drama. I like steady state situations. When they start wigging out is when I find a way out!

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Spunk glazed Chicas are the building blocks of the universe!

VB, good Questions.

Hand solo, I to thought of analize this.

We can't have sex 24/7 so we have to find something to do in between.

Marriage is for Ch*ldren. I can tell you from experince it takes a little while to getting back to thinking of it as puuusy after watching your K*D come out. For some reason the next day that feeling is not there for all the other puuusy. Analize That.

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Zapato .... come on who are you kidding You need a 12 step program. If I had a dime for everytime you wanted to change .... heck I could buy the DR. I think the secret is look internally and ask yourself if you want to change. If not .... enjoy the ride

Interesting how you and the Mrs. do not consider BJ's sexual relations, (good move) you must have Bill Clinton's book.

You know according to this definition, Latinoheat (porn addict) has never actually had sex in all his trips to CR, since all he ever does is jerk-off in womens' mouths, or on their face.

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SICK SICK SICK... You guys are really sick...!!!

Can I join? or at least watch?

Muff

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Muff

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Zapato .... come on who are you kidding You need a 12 step program

Handy, I'm in 5 now...........1. "SEX & LOVE ADDICTION 2. COLUMBIANAS & BJ'S DON'T COUNT 3. ZAPATO FETISH. 4. DEL REY & KEY LARGO OBSESSION. 5. MULTIPLE NOVIAS & DRAMA HANDY, ASSUME #2 MEETING PLACE IS IN YOUR HOUSE PLEASE ADVISE WHERE I CAN GET HELP WITH OTHERS

Like I said... can I watch?

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