www.CostaRicaTicas.com

First post Gents and first trip coming up so be gentle guys on my topic.

I first want to say that the info and tips that is on this site is awesome. A (must have) for a future monger such as myself. Second thing is I want to say thank you to all of you guys that have paved the way for us newbies. That being said brings me to my topic. I know it has discussed to death but I was still just wanting some new opions on the matter as it pertains to my situation which is somewhat uniqe.

I live in a small town in Southeastern Ky. Yes a hillbilly so don't laugh guys. I am 41 years old, semi-attractive, I am not ugly or fat or anything like that. But here in my part of the country my options are very, very, very limited as to the availability of pretty single ladies. To put some perspective on the matter imagine a county with a pop. of only 14,000
and most are to young, (I heard all the cousins jokes guys.LOL) married, old or major baggage problems.so you get an idea here, right.

So, to my point. Would it really be so bad to be married to a tica or bring her here. I actually like being married, I was once and we are still best friends butguys I have to be honest I would love to have someone here and especially some ladies as beautiful as what I have saw on here. I would love some feed back and thanks guys. Coming down on feb 17th

The debate you see here regarding getting married usually is related to marrying "working" girls.

Finding a "regular" girl have much more favor even though there is a percentage here that would veto that choice also.

If you truly want to find a mate I suggest doing some homework and looking into traveling to Latin American countries with that plan and forget the P4P, unless of course you can keep the two separate both financially and emotionally.

Also NEVER tell one group about the other.

There are many venues for searching for a potential mate on the internet.
Here are a few. They lean towards Colombia since for my money they are the best of the best.

"MyTica.com" has limited potential unless you want a women with K*ds or one less than "attractive", in my opinion.

http://www.calivip.com/
http://www.calisbest.com/
http://www.allcolombiangirls.com/
http://colombiansingles.com/foreign-affair/
http://www.colombianloveconnection.com/
http://latinadatingpersonals.com/
http://www.mycolombiana.com/
http://colombianbride.com.wwdl.net/women/profiles.htm
http://www.mytica.com/asp/Index.asp
http://www.costaricanwives.com/
http://www.latinsinglesconnection.com/
http://www.latin-internet.com/
http://www.latin-wife.com/
http://www.colombiansweethearts.com
http://www.goodwife.com/latin/ (22 links)
http://www.tlcworldwide.org/
http://www.latinencounters.com/

A couple suggestions: Check into the service before you join or go to that city. Make sure you think about what you are getting into and don't get overwhelmed by the photos (which is easy to do).

Good luck,
Wit

Good response Wit.

kyrandy I sympathize with your plight. I grew up near you. Although Huntington is the biggest city around I did a lot of work out your way and understand your lack of choices. Can I ask you when you are going to CR?


Xman

Wit pretty much summed up the situation Randy. To add another link to ones he has posted:

http://www.spanisheyescostarica.com/

I have never used this service so can not give any first hand info but they have been around awhile and I have never heard any negative comments about them.

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Thanks guys and I am looking foward to more responses and opions. I know I like what I hear about the latin ladies and the (looks) what is there not to say but they are beautiful. I also like the fact that they are sexually open.
The websites that you guys had mentioned, I have at one time or the other browsed though and I was actually wanting to get some feed back on if anyone had used any of them. But, I was a little skeptical about them sites. Would love some feedback on this topic
I will be going down on feb 17th if nothing goes wrong and i had thought about a bendricks lady for the first day then try the waters on my own the next few. Thanks a lot guys.

My response / opinion.....
Pursue your course of action very carefully, with eyes WIDE open. I'm sure that many guys would love to find that 'perfect' Latina soulmate, bring her home, and live "happily ever after". Is it possible? Hell, anything's possible. But is it realistic? Probably not.

I'm not saying it couldn't work, but (unfortunately & statistically speaking) the cards are stacked against you. Over millions of years of evolution, men have not been able figure out what goes on in the minds of women. If you can do it, you'll definitely be in the minority. I wish you luck in your pursuit.
Mikey-B

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You ALWAYS have an option ....... "NEXT" !!!

Randy,
One extra note, LEARN SOME SPANISH.
It will make it 100 times better trip for you.

Don't think you can't do it? Many of us felt the same way but we put a little time, determination and effort into it and it's really paid off.

Here's a link to get you started.
www.studyspanish.com

Wit

Randy,
If all you want is an escort for your first day,
you may want to check out costaricaggescorts.com
instead of Bendricks, it may be somewhat cheaper.
Also, if you are staying in a hotel in San Jose,
such as the Presidente, an escort really isn't needed,
unless of course you are arriving late at night and
don't want to mess around with the hunt.
ShyOne

Check out A Foreign Affair. (loveme.com) I took one of their tours to Russia and they are fantastic. They are relatively new and unkown in CR but have been up and running in Colombia for years so it's probably a better option.

There's no guarantee you won't meet scammers on romance tours but there is a guarantee you will meet scammers at BM.

Also, lots of great info at "Planet Luv" on guys marrying Latinas.

Rocco

Hell man, come to Atlanta instead of CR for a wife. Belive me, it is a lot easier to bring her back to Kentucky. Maybe not to a small town but you can try.

Great gringa selection complete with attitudes but the exceptions are worth the trip.

Especially for a middle aged guy.

In Atlanta, 1/3 of the men are gay so your chances are increased. The other 2/3rds of men are married so that leaves you alone to hit on them.

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PacoLoco: "You pay for it one way or another."
Ace: "Rent everything, do not buy in Costa Rica"

Really!?
IMHO, the sexually open are those that you rent by the hour. Don't expect BJs from your Latina wife, and they might enjoy a little bit of DATY, but don't be surprised if they're reluctant to kiss you afterwards.
Do you ever wonder why us (Latinos married to Latinas) pay to have sex with prostitutes? Well, to get what we don't get at home!
If our wives were really sexually open, we wouldn't have the need to go with the providers. Got it?

Good response Witling!

If you like asians, check out the phillipines since all of these women know english. This is if you don't want to learn Spanish and considering where you live if you want a woman to work (so she can at least buy her own clothes and make up) then having one that knows english is better.

Be careful!!! Consider the fact that you are uprooting a woman from her family and taking her to a place where she has absolutely no friends and has very little in common with anyone. She might love you, but if she feels isolated, it very likely will result in her unhappiness. I also warn you against getting a woman who is way younger than you and hence all of your friends, since it is really weird for anyone to be hanging with really old folks (another element of isolation).

Please, just put an enormous amount of thought into the mental aspects of her being in the USA.

If I were considering bringing a woman to the USA, I'd consider the professional type that is educated and can take care of herself. I wouldn't bring someone that is going to be totally dependent on me for everything. This is too much of a daughter/father situation and sort of makes me a bit sick on the stomach. The really young ones are great to play with, but to marry? I think this is an eventual recipe for divorce if you go too young unless you trap her by letting her have a few K*ds.

Lots of mental stuff to consider.

Wilting & Dwayne really good honest info. Dwayne's ideas are right on & the only way to do it other wise evreyone will end up unhappy including yourself!

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I'm going to start proxying all of my posts to Dwayne, ElC and Zippy. No need to add to what is already said.

dapanz1

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Paradise= Sitting outside the Bodega in Panama City about 1 am. Drinking cool Balboas with cool friends and blazin' hot Colombianas. I want to be there..RIGHT NOW!

There are lots of bueatifull women in CR who are looking for a husband. As you have seen in an earlyer post they will want Ch*ldren. Also most of latin america is catholic. Not most of eastern Kentucky. something to think about.