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Reason for turning down a working girl for marriage should be more for mental reasons, not physical (like how many guys she has slept with).

I didn't have time to read the above posts, however just be warned that the minds of these working girls are messed up in a big way from childhood (likely sexual abuse at home from an early age).

These girls will usually use and abuse you, because they think they want a normal relationship however they haven't the self worth to reward themselves with a normal relationship. Usually, no matter what you do for one of these girls, she'll do something to mess up the good situation that you've offered her. She doesn't even know why she messes up good situation, however she'll do it everytime! Bottom line is that most of these girls do not think they are worth much so when they have it "all" they end up screwing it "all" up. They see themselves as low lifes (deep in their minds) so if they have it "all" this doesn't go well with the "low life" image in their brain so they'll do everything they can to get back to "low life." They can't mentally handle the "high life" that you think they want and that they think they want.

I've said the above before - nothing new.



Exactly!!!! I couldn't agree more.

Dwayne....LOVED that last post. Combine your post and Zippys and that says a bunch.

dapanz1

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Just an add on here.

Solamente no way in hell can you marry a puta & have it work rationally. Prolijo wrote once on a thread it is where 2 negatives = a negative or double negative. It never flies long!! You can’t even marry many women at all period because so many are poisoned by illogical irrational thinking & delusions of grandeur of their own making. The smart guys I know target what they know they can control within reason that will make a lasting wife good in the kitchen & have their fun with the ones that are lousy in the kitchen & good in bed.

One other thing I see it is much easier to do a smooth dance for a few hours than for a few months or years. They are excited by our newness the same as we are by theirs, new is new to all! It is easy to turn the tables on the non pros & catch them in your headlights since many of them want to believe their knight has arrived to save them. They catch on as many of us do this only to disappear & this sadly hardens them over time but after all it is the game of life where no promises are guaranteed & I give them no pretense of being a savior but people generally believe what they want to believe.

You always want to keep Mars & Venus in a constant intriguing orbit around the sun so keep some suspense, mystery & intrigue always alive as this keeps the boredom out of our relatively simply lives. Once women feel they have you completely figured out you get into trouble. In the P4P arena all I want to do is make myself interesting enough to get the best performance I can which is pretty easy since we are dealing with very simple Ch*ld like minds in Latin countries & this helps the experience for both parties I believe.

The best is to find the all in one package but good luck on this one since our minds or at least mine does not function so well like this. It seems to be more a dream but turns out for most of us to be a dim reality I believe. We have too many delusions our self too me as we many times have unrealistic expectations of the women in our lives.

Dewayne you are so right about the mental state of sex workers especially workers in HDR. Many psychos & schizoids working there but again be realistic what would one expect! I really feel for those that have phuched up their life with the low self esteem issues but such is life you can not tighten up these loose screws that roll around in their minds. You can hold them & give them some temporary comfort & be nice while we get our fix we need but you have to walk away & let them find a way to fix themselves if it is even possible?

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There's some deep discussions going on around here lately.



Dwayne you are on to something, and it is not limited to just working girls. Most women from any kind of abusive past (including drugs/alcohol) seem to be affected by this "neurosis". If there isn't any chaos and drama going on in their life they will subconsciously create it, as a chaotic life seems only normal to them. (I thought a couple of my old GF's were just totally phucking insane until I figured this out.)

But since all women in general crave drama- don't they all to some extent play this game?

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I should have never let my Babi*s mother go. No drama, no games (except on my end), no chaos. A true saint. I probaby goes without saying but, she was never a working girl. Hell, she would slave at her job at Wal Mart just to satisfy me and my daughter. The straightest shooter I've ever met..all she wanted was some minimal attention that I couldn't give because I was too worried about when and how to get back to CR to bang the leeches. Such is life.

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Dapanz,
I feel for you. You could be walking my walk, talking my talk. I have the same kind of girl, but am always dreaming of heading back to Costa Rica. I do have business down there, so I don't have to lie to bad but..........the double life is hard to lead sometimes. Dumb, risk taker, enjoying the one life I have....I've tried to rationalize, but still come back to..........I'm addicted, or a dick.

Guys, guys, guys.....
This is all hitting too close to home.

Sh*t. Now I'm depressed.........!

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Just food for thought so dont jump on me ...

BUT

Couldnt you also turn the mirror around and also agree that WE may be the reason why marriages with working gals or gals in general fail. We all (self included) like to blame them, but WE are the ones dumping big $$ to fly to CR and all around the world to have sex with women. When a marriage fails it usually isnt only 1 persons problem. Was she sexually abused? Perhaps, but what skeleton is in each of our own closets to make us stray (for those who are or have been married).

The reason I have been thinking this is obviously related to my current situation and looking internally.

Just food for thought

Sorry Mikey-B,
Sometimes when you are reading some things here it seems you are looking in a mirror. I didn't want to leave Dapanz hanging.It hit close to home for me also. I guess a lot of us are alike in many ways. With that said I'll be listening to Pimsluer on the way to my private Spanish lessons tonight after stopping at La Cuezal for a chicken dinner! My next trip to CR will be in March or April. Don't call me a Dick, Ted!

Yes! Think about how women who are physically abused by one guy and then are again physically abused by the next and the next and the next guy. These women do meet normal nice guys between the abusive guys; however the nice guy attitude and demeanor is just too abnormal for them to deal with so they dump the nice guy to look for the abusive guy who makes her feel normal again. What most women view a “comfortable” life, the abused views as “uncomfortable” because a life of no abuse and no major drama is very foreign to them.

Even more strange is that the whole time they are with the abusive guys and after dumping a nice guy for the abusive guy they complain and dream for a nice guy.

What is engraved in the subconscious is very powerful – the self-image one has for ones self isn’t easily escaped.

As for any puta, it will be difficult to escape the many years of “whatever” that caused her to sell herself to the likes of us. Face it – it just isn’t normal for a young beautiful hottie to sell herself to old gringos so something has to be seriously wrong upstairs.

Guys COME ON they are only women!!!! Snap out of it there is always another bus load very month or 2 that are better!! It is always going to be this way. Keep the EMOTIONS in check please for your own good! MIkey-B of all men NEXT_NEXT_NEXT forever!

Dewayne you nailed it with these chicas or working girls to me! This is why normal nice men are so perplexed by these working type behavior!

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Zippy,
Thanks buddy. I needed a slap in the face for a "reality check".
NEXT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OK. I feel better now. I'm going into the other room to kick my own ass now! I owe ya one Zippy!

Mikey-B

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Can't blame the bloodhounds for running after the fox.

Better in this arena P4P to be the fox raiding the hen house!

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sounds like my ex-wife.
phuckin whore.

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