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I'm not longer a RFM virgin!! It feel pretty good, knowing someone out there is thinking about me...

Well it's been three weeks and three days since my return to the states and I get my first RFM. The girl takes the drama out of her request... she's nothing but frank, translated... "How are you? I'm not doing to good. El trabajo hasn't been good to her. She would like to know if I could help her out this week with $100, needs to pay bills and has no money. Do you think you could help? Hope to hear from you soon. Muchos besos. Take care."

The Tica is 20yo, spinner, works one day a week and goes to the university, she has a beautiful smile and great personality. I'm thinking of replying with a request of my own... On my next visit, three weeks, can I have BBBJ? Also go downtown for a while? Two things she wasn't up to on my last visit. I paid her cien for four hours, the first night. She was already suppose to meet me at the Presidente upon my arrival.

So what do you guys think? Pay now and play later? She's a sweet girl. I'm looking at her photo and she exemplifies everything I look for in a girl. She's not my novia, but I wouldn't feel bad about helping her out with the cien she needs, for whatever.

I wait for your replies.

Traylor,

I'm going to give you the absolute best answer you are gonna get on this subject.... DON'T ASK ANYONE FOR THEIR OPINION, JUST DO IT OR JUST DON'T DO IT.

Honestly, you will get answers from both sides of the fence, and chances are you have already made up your mind one way or another and may just need that little nudge of reassurance from the fellow CRT members to go ahead with that pre-determined decision.

Bottom line, whatever way it is that your heart feels is right, DO IT. No one can blame or ridicule you either way you go.

Take care,

Ruffnutz

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I hope you are joking about pay now. I hate to say this but they are a dime a dozen down there & you are paying for these chicas when you are there so why risk it, you pay now & you may never see her later anyway. It is always a no brainer they will ask for $ if you stay in contact with them, what do they have too lose??

Even if you are just crazy about one think it is better not to show it they just use it against you. Once you turn into silly putty you really get abused!!

Many of the ones I know well don't waste their time asking me they already know what the answer is but they seem to like to have me around joking with their friends about how much they got this or that idiot to send as they laugh right in front of me?

If you think you are going to get something special from her by doing this go ahead but I bet you won't like all the rest. I don't mind at all paying for sex but sending money is like trying to buy a girlfriend & for me if that is the only way to have one it is pretty sad & not worth owning. I don't send anything & call when I return & if some foolish guy hasn't taken her off the market she shows up so whats the point of sending money especially in the RFM way unless you have money to burn?

She will be there waiting for you either way & if you don't send money & she is there maybe she does like you a little.
LEE help this guy out please!

Traylor Park:

Absolutely positive without any doubt no disrespect intended. But I must ask you this are you looking for an answer or are you just looking for comments?

[quote]DON'T ASK ANYONE FOR THEIR OPINION, JUST DO IT OR JUST DON'T DO IT. Traylor


I would say Traylor's advice would fit here nicely. If you're interested in different people's opinion on the subject just read about it. Personally: do not send money. My humble little experiences in my life have shown me that if she cares about you money are no money she will go on caring about you. Sending money will only leave you with less money to play with when you're there.

Lee

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To the pessimist in all of you:


The last time I was in San Jose at about 2 A. M. I was walking down the passageway between Key Largo and the restaurant. Along on the left is a small room with computers. Keep in mind that my Spanish is almost nonexistent. There was a group of about 12 girls gathered around one of the computers. As I said I could be wrong but I think it was an impromptu class on how to ask for money. Yes I know my bedtime is 12 and what was an old man like me doing up at 2 AM. I was trying to help all you guys protect your money.


Lee

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listen to LEE DO NOT SEND MONEY a rfm and she did not do bbbj. HAVE A GREAT LAY

I don't get it.

100 $$, if she is smart, and supposedly she is a little smart because supposedly she is a university student so I suppose that she can price her sessions right, say 50 each, and so since she is supposedly cute too then she'll not have a problem putting in say 4 hours at the DR to get 100 $$. 4 hours should be all she has to do - when cute and priced right they'd be lining up to do her.

The math is easy.

Tell her she'll feel much better about herself if she earns the money than steals the money, tell her than her self esteem and self respect is at risk if you were to just 'give' her money. In other words, feed her a load of crap like she has feed you. She's a trained RFB so steer clear my friend, stay the course and you'll be mopping around SJ on the next visit wonder where the hell she is.... since she was suppose to met you. Of course, if you put conditions on your 100, she agree, but can you find her on your next trip?

Why would you consider sending money for just 1 second knowing that 100 is easily obtained - no more than 4 tiny hours out of her whole week. Why would she sit around chewing her nails waiting on you to send money when it is just 4 hours away?

RUFFNUTZ IS RIGHT. JUST DO IT OR DON'T. Please don't respond to any of your responses here - JUST DO IT OR DON'T and be done with it. It is your money, your business. People like me will be negative and others will say "if it makes you feel good.....".

I couldn't do it - I'd walk from the WU station thinking wtf I really am a fool.

If you want to spend a 100 after returning from CR, get a school teacher's email address and send it to her. You'll feel much much better and she probably will meet you on your return trip. Why send a dime to a hooker, just doesn't make sense to consider it for a second.

Had to inject some humor first. But . . .

Been there, done that. Different country/culture - same result. Lessons learned, etc.

Don't send money.

What if she's both a school teacher and a hooker?
(Vegas Bob, Mighty1, et. al. know who I'm referring to).

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The chicas at the computers are the easiest to get for Short Time in my experience.

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Many are both. There is no way out of being poor in these countries.

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Ridiculous to say MANY are BOTH.

You guys know so much so what percentage of school teachers are hookers?

Include in your response just how many school teachers there are in CR - female in the hooker age range.

Someone knows 1 school teacher who hooks and now MANY are BOTH?

Let's let the bullshit for the media to report... keep it real on CRT.

I should have said it differently. Many professionals make shit and if you were to meet up with them, not that we would be interested in most, they surly could use a gringo novio.

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Lee,

Your post is so on target with the meeting at KL with the chicas learning about money extraction from weak gringos. I saw the same thing on several occasions & they asked for my thoughts which I declined to help. These Colombians are an especially strong & sometimes ruthless breed & that is why some fear them as they are smart driven girls & I admire that. They tend to respect strong willed men not the soft hearted kind from what I have seen. They like the soft hearted guys in one way as they know they can bleed them.

Look it is becoming big business there & we are getting more organized with sites like this & believe me they are not sitting still either so soft guys you have been warned & remember what looks so soft & innocent may not be (IT'S A TRAP!). My self I use all this to my advantage & play along with their game too get them to put out more thinking they found a sucker.

In the end I hear them laugh many with amazement saying you look & act like an angel all the while you understand exactly what this is all about & have more devil inside you than anything else & we have a good laugh but in the end it seems to earn their respect which opens even more doors of their life that they show me. YMMV I am nothing special just stating my style that works for me. Most of the ones I have been with are making sure I have their # without me asking before they leave & I hear quite a bit of I know your type you will not call me. I also find in the morning copies of sedulas with phone #s from some of them in my mailbox or key box at the hotel desk. I just wanted to point out that everyone has their own style but earning their respect by being nice and mainly not being so gullible can have it's rewards & it may conserve your money as well. They simply either like you or they don't & they all like money just some food for thought on how to best use it.

I will not be sending money anytime soon...

The Tica emailed me on Tuesday evening with her RFM, said how she wasn't doing that well at work. Here's what I know, she attends the University during the day, babysits her sister/brothers bebes, works at the DL on Friday nights only. Her sister works the DL everyday, brother's a bum. Her sister is the main bread winner in the household, this young Tica said she works the DR to help pay for University and help her sister out a bit. Now, this Tica is 20 and is really cute, but the last time we spoke she talked about how bored she was Friday night at work because no one picked her up, she's cute (my type) but there are hotter girls in the DL working hard at the game. When I first met this Tica she was hanging out with her sister/friends and from what I noticed they were not going out of their way to meet someone, it was more like girls night out. Anyways, when I spoke to her one Friday night before she headed out to work, she sounded triste, so I asked her what was wrong, and she replied that she didn't feel like going to work, doesn't want to hook up with "ugly fat old men, but she has no choice, because she needs to help out her sister." Which I found to be interesting, since she mentioned several times how she has to help her sister, not her mother. Why is that? I wonder. It makes me feel bad when I speak to her and she tells me about her life, from what I can gather she seems pretty sincere during our conversations, whatever that means. And I also taught about her "being cute" and how easy it would be for her to make cien, but I think a lot of times we think these girls can make a lot of quick cash, but if you think about the male/female ratio it can be difficult for some of these girls to compete. I saw so many cute girls hanging back against the wall, the same ones, ever time I was at the DR and no one was stopping to talk to them. On my third night at the DR I stopped to talk to some of these girls and after some time I moved on... nothing wrong with them, it seemed to me that they don't know how to play the game and/or sell themselves. And I think a lot of us guys don't have the time or patience for such a relationship since we want the GFE while visting CR. Hope that makes sense.

Yesterday, Friday, I sent the Tica an email informing her that i couldn't send any money because my car broke down and I needed to get it fixed, because it's my only means of transportation to work, and I've been working really hard so I can pay off my last visit as well as earning/saving enough $$$ for my next trip. We'll wait for response.

Do not send money!!!!!

My ass may be done, but I'm not a dumb ass!!