Berk:
Ultimately, when it is all said and done, they will want financial security and a healthy relationship which is their ultimate dream. They worry about getting older and having to support themselves for the rest of their lives.
They struggle in many ways to pay the bills and raise the K*ds without much help. Quite frankly, most of us just exploit them when they are young and desirable and find another because we have the money to do so when they become expendable.
Most of us here, never have to worry about money and we can't put ourselves in their position.
I would always caution to be very careful how you deal with the money issue. Try to make sure that they like you for who you are, not just what you can do for them. Take it slow and develope the relationship to a high degree before money becomes the issue. If you handle it right, you may just have a great companion and friend.
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