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Here is an interesting topic that was brought to mind after reading several comments from the Back in Gringaland obviously topic. Sorta on the same wavelength but more direct.

I had mongered all over the globe the last 5 years after my second wife took me to the cleaners and cannot comment on the Far East as I skipped that part. When I Found Costa Rica a few years ago, I totally lost interest in dating Gringas Period. I am early 50, in shape, considered attractive, and have had no problem finding dates or companionship of course not in the age bracket of CR. With that in mind, after now four trips to CR this year, I have over a period of time lost my interest in dating gringas and I mean period. Is this healthy?

I have begin to wonder, as I'm so disgusted by the smallest thing they can do to piss me off, that Now I just patiently wait for my next trip to CR, as I know the $$ I will spend down there, is totally justified than buying expensive dinners and wining and dining the Gringas Bitches of the North East. From the Hogs rushing the Buffet table to the dilapidated women with thier wrinkled skin and face lifts, to the mid 30 to mid 40 bitches who still think their >hit does not stink even though they are well on the other side of their best day.

Guess I am sorta in a difficult situation, but I at this point have given up actively pursuing Dates with gringas.

Wonder how everyone else felt?

PS Duardo and Gamlingman Pleasure to meet you both and look forward if I can make it to your SuperBowl Bash... Thanks for the Invite!

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I hear ya Pal I've been a hobbyist only 2 years and traveling hobbyist for one year. I'm 40 and about same situation as you, easily get civilian dates etc.

I worry about it too I haven't had K*ds and would like to someday. YES I am in the same situation as you, I have no patience now, especially with the "Rules" Gringas (must call them by Tuesday for a Saturday date, 5 dates prior to sex, blah blah blah)

I'm traveling to St Petersburg Russia this summer and who knows might end up marrying a foreigner. I've met very light skinned green eyed Columbiana's in CR and I know it's ridiculous to consider marrying one but foreign women are so sweet and feminine.

I watched a show on Britain's Prince William last night and the "experts" were waxing poetic how he should marry an American woman lol! How american women are so independent and sassy, etc.

You can't blame gringas for being stuck up there are so few of them that are healthy and thin they can have their pick here. Half of gringas are overweight or obese I've posted that NHI figure here before.

The most disturbing issue about gringas is they are afraid of EVERYTHING, too much american television I suppose. Overseas it is a breeze to strike up a conversation, even though we are foreigners the girls seem to love us.

NO CapoD2TCapo YOU'RE NOT CRAZY LOL!

Yo Guys;
You are not alone. It's good for me to know there are others who feel the way you do. Same shit here in Las Vegas. 15 days and counting.
tuteman

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Capo,

You captured my sentiments exactly. I have a distaste for gringas and all they stand for.

I happen to be married, but I tell you, when the day comes that I am single again, there is no way in hell that I would ever, and I mean ever marry an American lady. I guess you should never say never, but that is the way that I feel.

Great thread.

Pura vida,

Dman

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Capo – you are right on,

After I stumbled onto the old boards about a year ago, I was pretty sure I was on to something…

When I went to CR shortly thereafter, the minute I stepped into the BM I was overwhelmed by feminine availability like never before in my 49 years, 2 marriages and countless other “relationships”.

By the time I left Costa Rica two weeks later, it was a done deal.


I found myself writing a whole page of dissertation about the gringas and my interactions with same, but I just erased it because it was too redundant. Suffice it to say that there is no going back to old ways for me again, at least until I am at least 80 years old (I didn’t say never!). And yes, I think you are healthy in your perspective and have a LOT of company.

Thanks CapoD2TCapo: for verbalizing what I have been feeling for the last year. I wouldn’t have been able to express it as well as you have here. Pura Vida.
Novice

It has been a few years since I discovered the magic of Latin American women. I have been throught the whole gamut of relationships in the USA. I have been with pros, semi-pros, and one deep relationship since that time. I have spent time in netherlands, hungary, costa rica, panama, nicaragua, brazil, etc...one thing becomes clear to me...

I WILL NEVER AGAIN HAVE SEX WITH A WOMAN WHO SPEAKS ENGLISH AS A FIRST LANGUAGE!!!!

This rule has made me a happier man for the last few years and I have absolutely no plans to deviate from this rule. Perhaps I will continue to flit from flower to flower...perhaps I will relocate to latin america...perhaps I may even marry a latin american woman.

Only one thing is engraved in stone:

I WILL NEVER AGAIN HAVE SEX WITH A WOMAN WHO SPEAKS ENGLISH AS A FIRST LANGUAGE!!!!

EVERYTHING is a political issue with gringas. Perhaps there are reasons that have caused this....BUT I DO NOT HAVE TO BE A VICTIM OF IT!!!

Uh...is my position clear on this issue?

Gentlemen, I concur. I am 32 and just spent two years living in CR, made my first trip when I was 27. I have no problem attracting gringas except for the fact that I want nothing to do with them. The women in the states have to be the least desirable on the planet, and it is the attitude pure and simple. They are so damn spoiled. Hell when I was living in CR I bought a 200cc Enduro Kawasaki kdx model and I would pull up to a bar and the girls thought that was hot shit. I almost laugh, just imagine riding around on a $2000 dirt bike in the states, I would not have been able to pick up a broad from a bus stop but in CR that was considered a "muy bonita moto". Would you like to go for a ride you hot little tica, "si claro". I just love it, I got tired after a while of having no day to day obligations and getting pissed drunk all the time but it sure was fun for a while. My only regret is that I found latin america, had I not found CR I would have not quit my job and moved there and pissed away the majority of money but at least I had fun and when I go back to work I can always remember the good times. American broads are the most worthless annoying cold reptiles we will ever have to deal with, fortunately most of us will just save our money and take as many trips south of the border as the budget will allow.

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pacatelo

Great thread.

i've shared my story many times with people from the board both in person and via email, so if this is old news to you, skip to the next post.

I first went to CR as a college student on part of a study abroad program. First, we had a Spanish Immersion course in Nicaragua for 6 weeks. All we heard prior to our voyage was how dangerous things were and to be careful of Std's, Aids, etc. The last thing on my tainted mind was hooking up with "dirty Latinas" while my cute as a button girlfriend waited for me back home for 6 months.

After 4 days of frustrating spanish class and being sequestered in a school and a host family that lived in the ghetto (no lie) I finally got to venture out on a Thursday night and let loose with my gringo classmates. We went to a club in Granada called "el Dragon Dorado" and my life changed. After noticing HOW HOT, sexy, and innocent these girls were, I pounded cervezas and rum, danced (which I don't do!) and woke up the next day not remembering a thing. I went to my PM class to find out I had hit it off with several Nica's, and had gotten semi-lucky with one while my best friend did the same with her sister. I didn't remember a thing!!!

Needless to say, I forgot all about the novia back home and went on to change my mind forever and have numerous phenomenal experiences in both Nicaragua and Costa Rica. I returned home to the Midwest for my Sr. year in college with the largest chip on my shoulder and highest expectations for flings....needless to say, I was hated on as I loudly claimed "I hate white b*tches." (I was a young cocky punk, I wouldn't be that bold now....well, close!) Btw, there wasn't a Latina within 500 miles of where I went to college, and the ones that were around were Mexican low-wage workers that had fled Mexico to earn a living in the States in different seasons, often living 15 to a two bedroom house and being notoriuosly connected with criminal activities.


The rest is history...I graduated, took a job with a Fortune 500 Company, saved money living with my parents after college, repaid debts, and moved the instant I had enough cash to give Miami a try. Since arriving three years ago I've "had relations" with one American girl here and GMAN can vouch that she looks as Latina as they get and would be a stunner in even the DR. Other than her I've been kicking it with girls from almost every LA country, especially Colombia. I have made numerous trips to CR both for biz and pleasure, and as I fly home today, I'll be looking through many books, magazines, and real estate guides continuing my ongoing quest to find a way I can live, work, and play in CR ASAP.

Great thread, Happy Holidays to all - if I could mail you all a Latin escort that was not Americanized, I would.

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Hey Capo:
Pleausure to meet you last week, hope you can make Super Bowl... AND to answer your question NO you are not crazy. Healthy I do not know, but I am now on the backside of Marriage #2 and have lived in Brazil the last 6 months and now investing and moving her permanetely. I have been to CR 5 times the last 9 months as well, and between CR & Brazil you can forget about me ever going back and dealing with Gringas Again.

I was recently in Miami and after being out and about drinking with a perticular Gringa, we went back to her place where she refused to have Sexo then asked me for Money for Xmas as she was broke... IS SHE OUT OF HER FRIGGIN MIND!. ... I simply refused went home and realized I'm not in Kansas any more toto.....

Gringas are defintely on the low side of my opinion level.. Hate to sound so harsh and I dont mean it towards everyone one of them as there are some quality ladies around. But they are so, few and far between and as they have grown older and jaded it has become apparant we can not win.. SO Dont feel so bad you are in great company, as I think the large portion of single guys on this board who have visited and expirienced Latin Amercia, South America and countries similar feel just like you.......

Great Thread!

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Duardo

I answer this question with a qualified "no." But I will admit that CR has really confused my attraction to gringas.

My first trip to CR was for surf only but I hooked up with one girl at infinito the first weekend, surfed for a week, then came back to the city and hooked up with another girl I met at el coyote. I spent a couple days with both and they were so cute, so feminine and, of course, so horny that I was totally hypnotized.

While in the city on the next surf trip, I stepped unwittingly into the Marlin Bar and my life has never been the same. Now, my whole existence seems to be all about that next trip to Costa Rica....

In the process, I actually still date gringas. I keep thinking that one day I will meet a local girl that will shake me out of it and make me forget about what it feels like to have a girl constantly refer to me as "mi amor," or to hear a girl in ecstasy moan in Spanish. I like to think this is possible.....

Wow! This topic sure ignited a lot of pre-season CHEER! Sadly, I don't disagree. There seems to be a confluence of factors responsible here. One is the Women's Lib movement as well as competition and material cravings by all Americans. Another appears to be the lack of couth on the part of many men living in Latin America. Of course, the strength of the dollar there is a factor. You also can't dismiss the "cuddle" factor, something chicas seem to excel in. For these and other reasons, chicas are happening.

If you throw American working girls into the discussion, forget it. I have adhered to a "friends of friends" way of meeting girls here over the years. I can't stomach agency pimps and the primadonna's who work for them.

I think, however, you have to separate out dating from marrying from mongering. They're really 3 different animals. No question dating and mongering in CR and other foreign countries trumps the States. I don't know, though, about marrying. All I've heard is horror stories, not only because of the language situation but also the deep chasm in the backgrounds between Americans and third-worlders. Of course, I realize there are plenty of horror stories among domestics as well.

I think it really comes down to what men and women want, which leads to that Mars/Venus thing. Some on the other side of the fence might say American women are in a better position to get their needs met, while chicas don't have the luxury. I used to give piano lessons to an Indian doctor's two daughters, 16 and 18, and afterward, they and their beautiful mother would "serve" us homemade Indian food. The doc and I would drink Black on the rocks while the table was exquisitely prepared for our arrival, at which time we would sit for a 4-courser. During dessert Mom and the girls would sit next to us without speaking - just enjoying having served us, based on their demeanors - as we licked our chops. The women never ate, just served.

My wife, far from a Femi-nazi, could never understand this and invoked the "S" word (Slave). I used to rib her it was nice being treated like a king once a week. It's all in the eye of the beholder. It wasn't like these girls were doomed to some limited future, as the older was pre-med at the U. of Miami. It's simply a different culture. The Americana in me hoped the doc did something nice for his wife and daughters occasionally. Somehow I think he regarded the lifestyle he provided enough of a perquisite, something that made me uncomfortable as time went on.

One thing is indisputable; girls in CR know what men like and are not resentful of them receiving pleasure and enjoyment. And you have to ask yourself, "Who's really seeing the big picture?" Is it the stuck-up American women or the sweet accommodating chicas? Maybe chicas are disadvantaged in some respects, but they certainly get a lot from us in return and not just in the form of money. Their behavior is similar to other cultures, including Indian. It's a sense of selflessness when with their men, which comes full circle back to them in the form of money, gifts, respect and gentle handling - and a few orgasms thrown in - save for when they're with Ticos. Perhaps these "backward" women could teach American women a thing or two?

To a gringa that kind of treatment is making a woman a slave. Truth is that eastern culture which includes countries like India, China, Japan and many other eastern countries have very old cultures where the woman serves the man. In Indian culture the woman does serve the man in the way you described Jazz but what you don't see is that behind closed doors she voices her opinions to her husband. The main difference between a gringa and these eastern women is that gringas will do it in front of everybody in a manner to ridicule you or put you "in your place" whereas the asian women have more respect for you since the man's integrity will directly reflect hers. Many indian women become "Americanized" and take on these gringa characteristics but the ones that are brought up in their mother countries still have those old traits.

My friend brought over this girl from India he had married. Sweet, lovely girl and only spoke when spoken to. She used to cook for him, everything and even was a virgin. Well once he got her here and she wanted to work - in 1 year all that changed. The gringas she worked with changed her personality so much that now she is one of them.

Sorry for rambling but a slave is only in the eye of the beholder. Many asian women serve their husband/man because they are taught to do so but in return their husband/man gives them comfort,security and love and yes respect. Gringas don't like that shit because they want their independence as well as want to depend on men for material things.
I do know a little about these asian cultures so I speak from experience.

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I like things that are built for speed!!!

i would never trust andything that bleeds for 5 days and still lives.

The best thing about having been to CR is now I find myself laughing in the faces of the most beautiful gringas when they start going on their rants about how unfair it is they can't get everything exactly as they want it 24 hours a day.

Marriage No. 1 was to a German girl who grew up in New Hampshire. She came over here at 8 and was the youngest - therefore the most Americanized of her siblings. Met her in California where she worked as a secretary in a high energy business. first 5 years were great. Two young lovers exporing everything. She treated me good and I was good to her.
Something happened. The wine drinker became a teatoteler, the meat eater became a vegetarian. The love to party girl became a stay at home.
All of a sudden, I was pretty much the drinker, the initiator for sex, the party boy. My company asked me to travel and, at the time, we had a facility in Puerto Rico and it was there that I had my first latin encounter and I was blown away. No experience I had enjoyed in the past prepared me for that. I felt like a king and was (for the first time in my life) put on a pedelstol (spelling?). My God, she even gave me gifts for my performance in bed! Yeah, thats right I cheated and I felt bad about it but I swear it was worth it. No I didn't go right home and divorce her but I did find every reason I could to go to Puerto rico. We stayed togeather for 5 more years then, because we both felt we were drifting appart, we divorced.

Now here's the dumb part. Instead of going back to Puerto Rico, I meet someone on the rebound who seems to know exactly what I like. She gives it to me and what do I do? After I got her pregnent, I asked her to marry. Keep in mind, I'm only 6 months out of the first. but she's a party girl, loves to dance, drink and travel. So, we marry, have K*ds and all of a sudden, the party girl is a mommy and I'm the breadwinner. I go to work, she's a mother. I love my K*ds but all of a sudden, I'm second class. She's got a plan. After I get a viasectomy (spelling, what the Phuck). She decides she wants another young one. We go round and round. What I don't know, she's playing around and before you know it, we're at a marriage counsler and even the counsler is suggesting we separate. Its like my ex and the counsler were in co-hoots. I continue working my butt off, support the K*ds, house and her and next thing you know, I'm slapped with divorce papers. Next couple of years are pure hell and she takes me to the cleaners. Sold everything to pay her off plus agreed to outragous spousal payments (all the while, she's shacking up with a guy in my house, my bed and in front of my K*ds).

Sounds bad? It was. Then a buddy and I go down to Costa Rica to celebrate the final divorce papers and I find the Blue Marlin, Eros and Key Largo. then I find a Novia, then I find another. Go down as much as I can now. Want to move as soon as possible.

Like someone else said above: I WILL NEVER HAVE SEX WITH A WOMAN WHO'S RAISED UP IN THE U.S. PERIOD!!!!

American woman are coneiving, selfish, manipulating, dirty bitches. While the other cultures respect (yes, I have a Chineese gf here in the states) men, American woman just spit on them.

God I hope my daughters don't turn out that way but as long as their being raised by a bitch, I better delay my move to CR so I can a least offer a fair and balanced raising.

Sorry this went on so long but DON'T GET ME STARTED WHEN IT COMES TO GRINGAS.

TUTEMAN

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