WakingUp wrote:
In SL, Taormina, Castillo, Cocal or some other bar environment, what do you discuss before going back to your room?….
Long story short, phucking was not on the menu….
Do you actually have to check that phucking is on the menu or did I just get a really bad apple?
Wow does that suck. But I think that type of experience is as rare and unusual as it gets, even if you don’t negotiate a single thing beforehand. I don’t agree with the prior poster who said if you go to a pizzeria and say give me a pie that you’ll get some weird combination of toppings. What you’ll get most likely every time is a plain cheese pizza. They’re not going to just throw on whatever toppings they feel like.
The monger equivalent to a plain pizza would be a covered straight phuck. It might not be very good and you might not get anything else but that’s the bare bones service. I couldn’t imagine any chica that works in the gulch would think that sex is not on the table. I have never heard or read of anyone having a similar experience. Ever. If anyone has please chime in.
I think you just got about the worst apple imaginable. Maybe she was on her period or had some other issue and figured she would try to get over on someone just to get some money. But in my experience that’s more of a one off than something that should be expected.
Having said that, you are always better off to negotiate up front. But I think the take home point of the whole story is to never pay up front. It would have been obvious to you almost immediately that something was really wrong and you just give her taxi fare, get her the hell out of the room, and go down and find another.
Thanks for sharing and don’t feel bad. We’ve all had bad experiences along the way. It comes with the territory. You live and you learn. Don’t let it stop you from continuing to explore. I saw your other post about another bad experience you recently had, I believe on that same trip. The only other suggestion I would give you is to fly another hour further south for your next trip. You will find a whole other world with higher quality experiences at much better price points. It will rock your world. Most of us that have done that never look back.