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How many girls have you pissed off in the last week/month/year? I seem to be doing it more and more, which I'm not proud of, by the way. So many things piss off women. At the top of the list, of course, is the other woman. But there's also not calling enough, writing enough, making enough of an effort in various, assorted (sordid) ways. We all know the triggers.
It seems like most of my favs in CR, Rio and even at home are pissed off with me. But it's not all me. Case in point; this Cali girl I've been hanging out with at home seems to have an agenda for me and is rather critical. She's been talkin' shit about my hair, clothes, body hair - this on a good day when I've gone shopping with her and made her dinner. Next thing I know her bird is at my crib and I'm taking care of it while she's servicing her sugar daddy.
I know, I know, she has her responsibilities. After all, he pays her $1300/mo Brickle Key apartment (overlooking Biscayne Bay) and gave her the 5 G's she went furniture shopping with, and he's only in town a couple times a month, etc. But you've got to draw the line somewhere.
I took her bird to her apartment and told her I didn't have the kind of time she was demanding of me. Like, I have a job, travel plans to lay out, etc. Now she's pissed off, but shit, we're friends, not lovers. We p4p'd 5 years ago when she was 20 (and so phuckin' fine - still is), but now we're just amigos.
Meanwhile, with another chica, I inferred I might come to Toronto to visit this married Colombiana (34) while her husband is in Colombia for a month, and then changed my mind. She's pissed at me. Then there are the two non-pros in Rio, with whom I had romantic interests, who don't even write me anymore. Long stories, but bottom line, I didn't jump through hoops when visiting Rio and wasn't solely with them. Another freebie in Rio (19) is a sweet girl, but yes, she knocked on my door at the wrong time last visit. After patching that over, another garota rang my doorbell at the wrong time. The one who rang is also a freebie, but 23 and more experienced with such things. Anyway, both girls - the 19 y.o. more than the 23 y.o. - are pissed.
The cousin of the girl I went to Cali with last month is about the only freebie girl who's not pissed. She's getting a divorce and while we didn't do the wild thing, she's hot to trot, wants me to come again and this time stay with her in a hotel. She's 42, a trifle out of my age range although a really nice girl, an attorney and a smokin' bod. I almost pissed her off suggesting I might try to come in August, then said I couldn't. But I forgot she knew I was going to Rio, as I mentioned it only once in passing on my first day in Cali. "You have money to go to Rio, but not to come back to Cali...." etc.
The p4p girls don't get pissed, but they can still get mildly disturbed, epecially those who cut you a break and have gotten to know you. It's funny, the p4p'ers offer something the freebies don't, namely, peace of mind, yet there's something about screwing a girl who's really into you that you miss. Problem is, the "really into you" part is not free. It costs bigtime.
I keep justifying my mongering ways, saying when I stumble across that special girl who's a knockout, smart and not demanding, I'll marry her. But of course, that's if I don't piss her off first. Seems that's a big "if" these days.
Jazz
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