I trust the info knowing who it's coming from but I can't believe it about Erica because from what I know, or thought I knew, this doesn't make sense. She was a favorite and someone that I considered a friend, as much as somebody could be in this "game".
She asked me to not tell anybody when she told me and I didn't say a peep to anyone, but I can tell this story now. So here's the thing... in February 2015, I was in SJ and Erica came over and we did our thing and afterwards we were talking (she always hung out for a while, no hit and run) and she mentioned that she had a lot of pain in her right breast. There was a dark spot like a bruise on the bottom which she said was there a while. I advised that she see a doctor because regular bruises don't hang around that long. She went to the doctor.
A couple months later, I was planning my next trip and I reached out and told her that I was coming soon, and she said "I'll see you" like usual. Then the next day, she whatsapped me that she won't be able to see me when I come to CR. That's when she told me about the breast cancer. She had surgery, they removed the cancer, and she was in chemo and when I got there in August 2015, she was finished with chemo and said there is no trace of cancer. And she was preparing for surgery in early September to remove her right breast. When I was there, I visited her at her house. She looked good but you could tell that it had taken a toll on her. She had gained like 40 lbs and lost most of her hair. But she said that she was healthy. She, her mother, and her daughter all seemed pretty optimistic. She had the surgery in early September to remove her breast.
When I was in CR in January, I visited her again. She looked better, lost some of the weight and her hair was growing back in. She looked happy and thankful and said that she's ready to move on with her life and was waiting a few more months to begin her reconstructive surgery. And I haven't spoken to her since. I was planning to reach out to see if she had her reconstruction yet, but just didn't get around to it.
This is a shock because all seemed to be going well for her. I'm guessing that the cancer moved to her lungs. Her Whatsapp shows last activity yesterday afternoon, so I just messaged her and whoever answered said that she died in peace and without pain on March 30th. RIP.
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