Jackietrehorn wrote:
This topic just wears me out ..... But if y'all are saying he does not deserve a prison sentence then what? A warning? That won't stop him. A fine? Maybe. But face it, this guy isn't too bright and if the legal system wants him to stop promoting CR as a sex destination, per the law, then he has to face the consequences. He was warned by friends and followers and his hubris overruled his better judgement, if such exists.
I agree, the topic is growing wearisome but nevertheless... I don't agree with what CD did and I'm not trashing him or defending him, but do any of us have the morale high ground here? If they don't want their country known for sex tourism, then why not outlaw it and be done with it? If prostitution is "destroying" so many lives, why is it legal? If it is such a small part of the economy why have it at all? And if it's so horrible then why are we participating in it? Believe me, I'm not advocating making it illegal, but just pointing out the fallacy in the entire premise of the law. If this is the case are we all not equally guilty for participating in "exploiting" these vulnerable women?
To me I see nothing wrong with paying a service to a provider for a reasonable fee when both parties are consenting adults. Apparently that is okay to the powers in CR too. But CD destroyed lives because BF's and parents found out about what their adult Ch*ld was doing? I'm sure that didn't go over well, but is the problem, not the business itself? Or is it people finding out the business exists? I'm confused

My bigger point is that I see a lot of piling on the guy when we could all be, in theory, equally to blame for the business to exist and for lives to be "destroyed". Some could argue if CD got a girl in trouble and she left the business, he actually "saved" her from the wretches of this "terrible"lifestyle. I'm just playing devil's advocate here...the man is facing 4 years in prison, does anyone here think CD would last that long in prison? It essentially would be a death sentence. Hey I'm sure the guy has his faults maybe more than most, I'm pointing out we all do. I'm just surprised at the level of hostility toward the man given his situation and thought I would add a different perspective. As a fellow American and man who has similar proclivities for ladies, I do find sympathy for the man. Whoever can look in the mirror and find no fault in themselves, start casting those stones.. If any other guy was in trouble on this board I'd feel the same about them (given they're not doing something with minors or something similar. Then they should rot in hell). I'm not trying to stir the pot here and I know I'm in the minority opinion but thought I had to say something. No disrespect intended to my fellow travelers, just one newbie's opinion. My buck and a quarter's worth.