Orange wrote:
I'm not sure why anybody who would want to establish a life in the US with a foreigner would ever choose the illegal way. Yes, it may be more difficult, cost more, and require some effort to emigrate legally, but the immigrant can work legally, travel as they wish, and be eligible for citizenship after the required length of stay.
Also, I'm not sure where the idea that an illegal can't/won't be deported comes from. Illegals are deported daily. Will ICE go looking for illegals? NO, so in that sense, if an illegal alien can keep a low profile, stay out of trouble, they can presumably live in the US indefinitely. My next door neighbor came on a tourist visa in 1991, and been living here ever since, and has never had any issues. However, if they get caught working illegally in a raid or come in contact with law enforcement for any reason, then there is a high probability that they would be deported. If keeping your head down is the way you'd want to live, TEHO.
I would never choose the illegal way because after 1 year of illegal stay in the US, a 10 year ban from the US attaches, so if this is somebody you want to be with, this is something to consider.
I agree. I can't live my life looking over my shoulder wondering if every shifty-eyed stranger or late-night wrong number is the gov't coming to take away my wife. The only way is to use the proper visa channels, no matter how stupid and phucked up they are.