It doesn't matter if you are 21 or 81, if you bring American dollars the girls will have interest in you.
It doesn't matter if you stay a weekend as some guys do or a couple weeks, poonage is always available, a little less on Sunday's so it might be a good idea if you find one you really like b4 then, arrange for a follow up on Sunday, plus many girls deliver more the second time around and you now know each other better and you and she feel more comfortable with each other, the awkwardness is over and she generally appreciates the compliment of a request for second visit.
Many girls speak enough English to communicate and understand your requests, many speak good English. If you choose one who speaks no English you are at a greater risk of misunderstanding and not getting what you want.
I don't know what you mean by "bargain", most of the top looking girls at HDR in the evening are pretty strict about $80 to $100, if that's acceptable to you, you will be shown a good time if you take a while to talk to her and get to know her, feel a good vibe from her. Is she enjoying your conversation? Is she laughing and friendly and fun? If she's cool and rushing you and all business, beware, I would move on.
Don't be hesitant to state what you want, this isn't your first date for the senior prom, these are professionals and have heard it all, be polite about it, you can say "I really like XXX, are you ok with or good at that? Some guys are hesitant to ask because they feel it voids the "romance" and spoils the moment. Nonsense, if you don't make things clear upfront what you want you have a greater risk of disappointment.
At HDR avoid the ones who are parading around, giant fake tatas, loud, hanging with lots of friends, looking like the pros that they are. I find gems sitting in the back bar by the side street by themselves or playing the slots alone or with one friend. I generally avoid the ones who approach me aggressively and pick my own, don't be afraid to stroll around the place and see if one really interests you and then make your move.
If a girl is really aggressive with you, and you want to get rid of her, you can say "I just had one and not interested now, or I am waiting for someone, she is on her way. don't be afraid to walk away, it's your vacation, your money.
I find for whatever reason girls working at HDR in the mornings and afternoons will generally accept less, many really hot ones will take $50 to $70. I don't know why, that's been my experience.
Most guys you will meet are friendly, we're all happy and excited to be there, I see and talk to young guys all the time. I've been coming to HDR over 10 years and always make new friends and we hit other restaurants, bars and MP's together. There's safety in numbers walking around and you can share cab expenses in the evening. If anything, some of the older guys will be willing to give you advice and show you around, but you'll see guys around your age too.
Before you come down, announce your arrival time a few days before your arrival date here and request meet ups, lot's of guys will react and many will be experienced and can give great advice and/or show you the ropes.
Don't restrict yourself to HDR, get over to Scores and Zona II, they are great MP's, favorites of members here, American owned. Prices are about $50 plus tip, the rooms are clean and nice for 1 hour plus they both serve food and drinks. Another great meeting and hangout place is Sportsman's lodge, a smaller more friendly hotel a lot of members here really like, food is great and a smaller selection of girls, but gems to be found, a little more laid back atmosphere.
Between now and June...THE SOONER THE BETTER !!!!! Easter and Xmas are to be avoided, and if you're going to travel outside San Jose to enjoy nature, the dry season is best, if you're going to just hang around and monger, who cares if it's raining???
Don't be getting drunk and wandering around at night, spend a few bucks more and take cabs at night, don't invite a mugging, this is a poor country and muggers know you have cash and credit cards. Daytime walking around is generally safe but there are areas to avoid. There's a map in here, find it and print it out.
Have a great time, welcome to the club !!!
