www.CostaRicaTicas.com

Don't worry about it. Not getting it means you aren't part of that particular group.

mh

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Good post net gems. I'm on the same page. Similar age and situation. I'm making my move there this year.

Great for you !!! I'll look you up when I get there ! I hope to have several monger buddies living there when I arrive, we're a different breed who fell in love with the Costa Rica lifestyle as opposed to the guys who merely visit sporadically and can't or won't leave the USA.

I did it for two years and made a choice to return to the USA for several reasons, mostly because of a financial opportunity with a friend of mine's company, but the memory of the laid back lifestyle coupled with the constant availability of hot sweet things at my fingertips whenever I wanted them never left my memory.

When you get there, you will be embarking on an exciting adventure that you will never tire of. There are some disadvantages to living in Costa Rica over the USA, but in my opinion, they are easy to adjust to and pale in comparison to the non stop fun and excitement, the low stress and the constant delightful availability of delicious fresh poon tang...

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Don't try to understand 'em, just rope 'em down and brand 'em...

Have you heard people who refer to the ladies as whores, sluts, and other derogatory names, and make derogatory remarks about them because of their choice of work? Also, they describe their interaction with the ladies in a superior manner, such as pounding them. I think those are the ones Pops is talking about.

I think it goes far beyond the words they use. "Whore", "slut" and "puta" mean specific things, and it is not inappropriate to use them in the proper context. If the general consensus of the addressed community agrees upon a certain designation applying to an individual (or group), then it should not cause offense in the community (with exception to the P.C. police).

In essence, there's a difference between asking "your novia used to be a puta?" versus "your novia used to be a cum-burping, whorebag, worthless piece of shit human being?". On this site there are both points of view. There are also those that feel using the word "puta" is insensitive. So far, the interaction of these different points of view have led to some entertaining threads.

As for the superior manner of how we talk about this stuff, it's just a 'guy thing'. It's how men talk in closed quarters. TEHO on the whole subject. It's a big enough world for all of us to play in.

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bypassin' kinky, and usin' the whole chicken!!!

Really? That's like saying it's OK and polite to call you a "john", a "whoremonger", a "punter", a "trick", or a "dirty old man who solicits whores". These are all technically correct terms to refer to men who patronize prostitutes. But does that make their use appropriate?

We'll have to disagree on this one. I am firmly with the PC police on this topic. I believe there is NEVER a proper context to be rude, and "puta" is a very disrespectful term. That's how Latin men insult women, and other men as well, as evidenced by insults such as "eres una PUTA" and "hijo de la gran PUTA".

mh

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Perhaps the guys who need/desire to call young females derogatory names indicates some disturbing "Mommie" issues. I've never quite understood it. To me it's like verbally abusing your employees and simultaneously being upset when they are not loyal to you or willing to take chances in their work.

If a young chica called me a fat, old gringo and said get your old, fat ass over here and show me your little white dick, I might laugh, but I would no longer be interested in sex with her. Too much honesty that conflicts with my fantasy! I suspect the guys who belittle the chicas typically encounter a less than interested sex partner.

However, that being said, I hear that some dudes enjoy being dominated and verbally abused by women, so I suppose there are some women who enjoy the same thing from men. I've heard about it, but I can't quite understand it, nor am I interested in being educated about it.

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Slut Puppy in Training

Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)

You are correct sir! It took less than a day before the usual gang of PW's chimed in and decided to derail a good thread.

Now back to the original question. Like some of the others have mentioned I go to CR and the DR because I can be with much younger hotter woman than I could be with back home. I also like to travel so the hobby scratches that itch. In addition I am a firm believer in the "Dont shit where you sleep or eat" philosophy. Going to another country and partying my ass off is a great way to relieve stress without casting myself in a negative light.

The use of guy talk (saying something behind someones back that you would not say to their face) to describe others is bigotry, sexism, racism. If it makes you feel good to use it then go for it. It does however reflect on your personal character. As I said, there are more than one reason to Monger. As Mike pointed out it most definitetly reduces stress.
Another reason I monger besides fantasy fullfillment and liking sex with beautiful young women , (My ex-wife defines this as I am sick, a sex addict; I am also addicted to breathing and eating) is that I keep searching for the perfect session.

would love to write something pithy and all knowing but in the end i'll just quote the infamous steely dan
"well i should know by now that it just a spasm , like a sunday in TJ that its cheap but its not free. And im not what i used to be. And that loves not a game for three... Babylon sisters SHAKE IT
my friends say no don't go for that cotton candy, son you're playing with fire
the K*D will live and learn
as his watches his bridges burn
to the point of no return..."

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im way deep into nothing special
riding the crest of a wave breaking just west of hollywood

Haha,

I use the term "pounding" but I respect these girls and treat them like ladies, I don't look down on them as many guys do, my sainted mother used to say "There by the grace of G*d go I", meaning we were fortunate to live in middle class America, get an education and have opportunity. Most of these girls are from poor uneducated families and have a Ch*ld or two to raise by themselves, they could not do it on a low wage workers pay in Costa Rica so they use what they have, their sexiness to make ends meet and to raise their K*ds. In many ways, I find that honorable.

Nonetheless, I still love to "pound" them...

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Don't try to understand 'em, just rope 'em down and brand 'em...

LaDiablo changed the end of his post. He originally ended the post by saying I wasn't holding it at the right angle. to this I replied


Usually I'm not the one holding it. Hopefully she is. Manuella is pretty good. In fact the only 65 year old that I would dream of having relations with. It is her I see on my visits to the states. Beats!!!! any Gringa I know.

moved the 'terminology topic' to a new thread out of respect to the OP. That is an interesting topic to discuss but I put it in the proper forum.

viewtopic.php?f=16&t=46933

My reasons to monger match SinCity's almost to a tee (so much so that I'll owe him a beer for beating me to the punch with it ).

And YES! Heller, I am a whoremonger. And so are you. Now, if you prefer to sip the Koolaid and consider yourself a gentleman performing charity work to the less fortunate, then by all means. Heck, let me buy you the first round.

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bypassin' kinky, and usin' the whole chicken!!!

But you sure as shit ain't bashful about dicksquat. Give it a rest, please?

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"Actual happiness always looks pretty squalid in comparison with the over-compensations for misery. And, of course, stability isn't nearly so spectacular as instability. And being contented has none of the glamour of a good fight against misfortune, none of the picturesqueness of a struggle with temptation, or a fatal overthrow by passion or doubt. Happiness is never grand."
- Aldous Huxley, Brave New World, Ch. 16

I prefer the term "Ho Dawg" since it sounds so much more sophisticated.

No Bidness like Ho Bidness, there's no bidness I know!!

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Slut Puppy in Training

Is low self esteem a prerequisite for being a good Ho or is it a result? ;-)