BashfulDwarf wrote:
BangBang57 wrote:
...With MPs (here in San Jose) the most important misconception to NOT let into your head is the idea of "POINT AND SHOT"--never, ever go to the room with a chica (ANYWHERE) without talking to her first!!!!!!!
I have a question about this statement (not that I disagree at all). In most of the Tico MPs (Relax/360/etc) there is very little room to stand, let alone a space to have a {somewhat} private discussion about expectations.
Since chicas seem very sensitive to what the others 'hear', how do you handle this 'talking'?
BD, I have found that in almost every case if you spend just a few minutes in "casual chit-chat" with the one you are interested in 2 things will occur! 1, she will become more at ease and you can get a good feel for how she really feels about sessioning with you and what her personality is like. 2, after a short time (usually just a minute or two) the other chicas will loose interest in you and the chica you have picked since you are showing no interest in them. At that point you can "quietly" ask her the more pertinent questions, even whispering in her ear if necessary. This has the added benefit of giving you an idea of how she will react when very close to you in the room. Hell I have even been known to kiss their ear and or neck while whispering to them.
I have even been able to talk to a chica quietly while another chica was setting on the other side of me with her hand on my crotch!! Main thing thou is very seldom will the other chicas maintain ANY interest in you or what you are saying to the chica of your choice once they see you have chosen her.
And, yes, I know this requires a certain level of Spanish on your part or her having some English ability. But then without at least a basic ability to communicate, no matter where you are, it is going to be basically "point and shoot"!!! In my opinion no matter where you choose to "hunt" if you cannot communicate with her, you have lost a major part of the fun of being with her from the very beginning!!!!
Though it sometimes has not been easy, I do not remember a single time in any MP here where I have not been able to discretely and quietly ask the pertinent questions!! As an example of how they do not pay much attention to you when you are talking to just one chica, just yesterday I asked a new chica in a MP about her coming to see me at my house, and I did this with a favorita less then 3 feet away!!! I then went to the room with the favorita!! If she had heard or been aware of what was going on, I am sure I would have heard about it in the room!!!!
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