Greybeard wrote:
For you married guys, does your wife know about your hobby? If yes, how did she find out, and what does she think about it? If no, how do you keep it secret? How do you think she will react if/when she finds out?
Grey, I am guessing that you are a "newbie" to this hobby, since you posted in the newbie section.
The blanket answer about the hobby and marriage is that it doesn't mix.
I know you will read many posts about marriages that allow this, they join in, they are open to it, etc.
In the "real" world, just doesn't happen. I guess you and your wife's age may be a factor, but most gringas want no part of their man getting taken care of by someone else. ESPECIALLY, when you can have "all" the sex you "want" from her.
IF, IF, you can get your wife interested in a 3way from someone local, you MAY want to tell her about SJO. If not, NEVER tell her about SJO.
I was 33 the first time I walked into HDR, I was married. Figured I could play this the way I was going to play it. 6 months later....divorced. Place (Costa Rica) gets ahold of you, and normal life just doesn't exist.
I truly think I could do CR married, IF I didn't have a loving marriage, and basically she and I didn't give a shit. But if she is a good person, you are much better off telling her you are gay, and move on banging everyone puta in San Jose:lol: .
Best of luck which ever path you choose. Just make damn sure, the juice is worth the squeeze. Because after 40-50 trips to SJO, you will find, it just ain't the same as it was "last year". I thought Disney World was heaven at 10 yrs old. Hate it now. I thought Vegas was great, now its just mehhh, whatever. That being said, SJO IS a great place! I have NEVER had a bad trip, even those that I said afterwards "I'm done"
