So I took advice given by one poster and joined Plenty of Fish .
Gringa profile below from POF website . Enjoy .....=====================================
Attractive educated ambitious talented female looking for a nice person for dating or a serious relationship. not looking for flakes, losers, jerks or people who only want sex... not looking for a jerk or a weirdo but someone genuine and a good person. there are many fake people on this site, so looking for someone who is real ...i am not just a 'hot woman', i am an intellectual, analyst a deep thinker, and a spiritualist. I am not into liars losers game players idiots shallow pathetic people, super picky rude anal immature people...I do not believe that if someone does something bad to me I brought it on and somehow 'projected it onto me through some deep subconscious thoughts"...i do not believe that victims are responsible for people doing bad to them nor do they bring it on themselves. i do not believe in the lame ignorant philosophies spewed by the ignorant idiots of our time and society. i believe this society is full of many idiots and clueless ignoramuses who really have no clue what is going on and live by the beliefs and philosophies of their fellow idiots of our time and society. i will NOT tell you my name or personal details about myself. I hate facebook, youtube, twitter and every other retarded social networking media type bullsh*t site out there and hope they all disintegrate into small particles of nothingness so the ignorant mindless sheep/drones of today can stop worshipping and being slaves to this lame cheesy pointless bs. also im an attractive woman who is confident and secure..i normally dont dress the way im dressed in my picture however if you are some insecure male who can't handle being around a pretty woman then DONT msg me or try to get to know me- seriously....its like an epidemic...there are a lot of insecure rude ugly men on POF or anywhere and just because you're attracted to my picture or are dying to meet me, doesn't mean you are secure with being around me-im into travelling, and doing fun activities or water type activities...
most of the 'losers' on these dating websites... are typically about the same kind of person- some single low life idiot who is high strung high maintenance with tons of baggage, super picky, anal etc, and of course quick to judge others on any non-flaw that exists. there are the recently divorced males who are usually bordering on almost broke to completely bankrupt looking to begin their 'new life' with some unsuspecting desperate female who they're hoping to use or who knows what with, or take their anger out on due to their ex taking most of their money, there are the jerks players sex addicts just looking for sex, the angry bitter weirdo types looking to control women, the insecure immature males who are the way they are, the happily single immature males who really arent interested in finding anyone but are on this website just for the hell of it so they can pretend they're normal males who really want to have something to do with the opposite sex but don't, the jobaholics who also fit into this category, who are single into their jobs and could care less about finding someone and who have no clue how to interact date or talk to women or how to treat them, and well the list goes on and on. Most or many of the males here are immature, narcissistic, self centered and absorbed mostly in themselves, lack compassion caring and keep saying they want a relationship but really have no clue what they want or want strange things other than anything normal. most just message any female hoping for a response for no real reason except to go on some sub par date where they won't contact the person again or really care to or really have no clue again what is going on. the only reason most males end up contacting a female again is the idiots who are hoping to get some kind of immediate sex off her- which is ridiculous. males will claim incessantly how they want a relationship and a kind caring person and someone who is into this, and that and all these amazing things but really, they don't wany of those things- who knows what they want... most males here are idiotic insecure weird pathetic and when encountering a good or decent female will find any flaw in her put her down or find reasons to belittle or insult her and then take off, or get super picky anal arrogant and weird. most males will complain about how women don't want to meet them, women are this or that, but when they find good or normal women they play games, are rude pathetic immature weird and treat that female with extreme disrespect and disdain. Again, not sure what is going on but the dating pool here despite there being so many people, is pretty empty, and full of empty shallow idiots who seem to not really want anything except to sit on the internet wishing for something and not really wanting it and writing bs and nonsense for no real reason. this website should be renamed plenty of fuking idiots plenty of fools, freaks, etc...and the list goes on and on....
(I will now receive a barrage of emails from the idiots here talking about how amazing and funny my profile is or how negative and awful my profile is and what a loser I am for writing this stuff..I will receive unlimited advice on how to change my profile so that i can attract great people instead of 'losers' (from losers and idiots themselves of course) and I will receive emails from tons of predators and idiots hoping to fulfill the criteria of idiocy I listed in my profile and be psycho weird stupid or crazy just so the cycle can continue)...I will receive lots of psychoanalysis on my profile on what it really means and what im trying to accomplish by writing such outlandishness and by being so bold, by again, idiots on this website and losers who seem to lack social skills in speaking to women or dealing with women or dating etc... so let the circus begin...
First Date
mcdonalds and a redbox at my place (keep it under 10.00)
getting drunk at my place
scuba diving
skydiving
strip club
dinner in vegas
camping, parasailing,
caribbean cruise, trip to europe, hawaii...
hunting
smoking ****
hiking in a secluded area in the woods
No first date…because really…theres no point since all the males here are freaks…who either lie or play games about a first date or have a first date then don’t contact you unless they’re trying to get laid in some form. Then when they realize they won’t get laid, they won’t contact you anymore… (idiots)?? Are there any normal males left on this planet….or at least on these horrible dating sites full of freaks…