Icantstayaway wrote:
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....................... I'll pretty much stick to my belief that if you get taken in Costa Rica you pretty much deserve it. Not all, but most people that fall for cons are either stupid, greedy or not keeping an eye on things that they should be paying attention to.
I would add naive to this description.
Greed is a con mans #1 tool.
"If it sounds too good to be true,..."
"One born every minute, and two to take him"
"If it looks like a duck, quacks, like a duck,..."
"When you make deals with thieves and scum, you find yourself dealing with thieves and scum"
One of the people that lost money with the "brothers" told me he was smuggling cash down to CR taped to his legs. They acted like drug runners and the result they got was appropriate.
While they were 'living the big life', I was putting in time building sweat equity painting, rebuilding, and cleaning rental properties in the USA. My properties are still with me and doing better than ever.
The USA provides so much opportunity that I never feel sorry for an able bodied person who is a broke dick.
I tend to agree with you, as well as TW; all very good points - however, while it always takes 2 to tango, I hate the con man/women more - I think the "victim" is often greedy, and while I was going to say stupid, lets go with "unsophisticated"

- still, just b/c you can cheat someone does not mean you should. Common sense says that if someone (Like the "Brothers") is promising out of sight returns, its either BS, a ponzi scheme, or a con - no middle ground - especially for the guys who stay in - I have no doubt some made good money in that deal and if they got out before the thing blew up, and came out OK.
I spent 35 years in sales and I met a lot of guys I would not trust as far as I could throw them - I never say never; you just don't know for certain <sales taught me that

>, but I'd put my BS detector needle in the "pretty good" category.
I find many of the suspects talk way too much, or are drunks, and I can't stand either - in my life I've been approached, I always ask a lot of questions - a very good friend of one of my best friends had a deal whereby he promised/almost guaranteed 5% per month returns (
that's 60% a year) - when i told him few mutual fund managers ever even approached that number and if he really could get those results, he could write his own ticket on Wall Street, he backed off - plus the guy was a deadbeat; if you are making all these fablous returns. why the hell don't you pay your bills
Oh, final comment on Boyd - while his former partners may think otherwise, Boyd never (to my knowledge) "cheated or conned" his guests or guys in the bar, or other patrons - he was apparantly not a model manager (and you want to ask him, "man, how the Phuck do you manage to screw up this gig..." and being your own best customer owning a bar is a receipe for disaster) but I would not term him a con man.