RollTide wrote:
Scuba brother you preach on your soap box, wonder if you've ever been rolled? I would expect yes. All of us have in one way or another. Either way I was a young K*D basically. A dumbazz with a little money. Talking about that one guy with the $15k wow... but believe me over the long run I have him way beat in my stupidity. The tit job alone was $3500 lol. Food, rent, toys for the K*ds... etc... way over $15k. You can always make more money. I did have a lot of fun though. Saw the world. Crazy threeways with her and all of her friends. Helped raise her K*ds, became independent of my family. Grew up... Say what you will. Honestly I would do it all over again just for the experience and the lesson that was learned.
So how much did that first/second/third divorce cost??? lol Many of you guys have been in the same situation with the "love of your life" The only difference is that all the cards were on the table. I knew she was a puta. I knew in the end I wouldn't win. About 6 months into it I started to realize what it was all about. I played along, I could afford to. I did love the girl, but my love was more on the lust side. I still care for her K*ds. Their great little men. I spend a little time with them when I go down. Zoo, beach, soccer games... I'm very proud to be someone those boys can look up to. I have my moments, but all in all im a decent guy. I work hard, educated, business minded.
I just think with my penis a little too much.
Look, I have no wish to get into a pissing contest with you, and I think I made my feelings known when I responded to your post.
Since you asked, no, I've never been personally "rolled", nor have many to the extent you have -
My issue with you and your saga was when you first posted what you were considering, you received great advice from many, and you choose to ignore it; and sorry, while I don't normally kick a guy when he's down, for ignoring the good advice given, well, maybe listening to the preaching might have saved you some money and heartache - you can justify bad or stupid behavior (and even if others have acted like fools, why be the next to jump on that band wagon) but few have done what you did - and as I read all your posts, sorry if you don't like being called on being a fool, but face it, pal - you were. And if you did indeed realize it, ansd still choose to "stay in" welll...... And to have any contact especially with her K*ds just boggles my mind - cut the phucking relationship off for christ sakes!
The other thing that stayed with me to this day is one final post in the saga you made when after all the bullshit happend, you saw her and she wanted you to pay her for sex - I thought to myself, well, the whole story has come full circle (no I did not go back and reread it, it just stayed with me) - in the future, instead of taking "shots" at those with more sense in their feet than you have in your whole body, try to listen to advice given by those with your best interests at heart, and avoid touching the red hot stove.
I have no personal animosity (although I have little tolerence for fools) for you, and if you have grown up, matured a little, and have vowed not to be so god blessed dumb in the future, great - but stop trying to justify what by any definition was way over the top really stupid behavior, and realize it could have been prevented by listening to those who sometimes seem to post "from the soapbox".