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Just adding my 2 cents, if it is even worth it ...

40 year old, from NY here. Like Jett, never married and not really considering it. Wouldn't mind a long term relationship, but history has shown me that one side or the other gets fed-up sooner or later and compromise is only viable up to a limit. So, ya all split ways.

Been mongering past 5 years, minus a 9 month stint with some Russian chick who I was chasing after for a while.

Currently trying to get a relationship going with a Colombiana here in NY. Is she sexy? Is she good in the sack? Yes, to both, its in the genetics, we know that. However, that being said ... she has lived here for 10+ years ... gringa-mentality is somewhat prevalent at times and the work I must put forth to get a piece is just ridiculous. The inquisition I go through every so often and the "please chase me" attitude is almost laughable.

It may develop, to what? ... I have no idea. Truth be told *it doesn't matter* in the respect that the 2 trips I have planned to CR are happening regardless - there is no way I'm throwing away those trips, those days and nights in the SL are unforgettable and I always leave wanting more.

So, Jett - yeah, I have those friends also locked-up in their situations. I used to look at them with jealousy, I mean really jealous and I wondered what was wrong with me. But I really think that the opportunities us mongers have (and that we take advantage of) for hedonistic times are very valuable to me and I just can't see giving it up. Simple as that. It is not a slight against the girl I'm seeing (past, present, or future) but ... as we all know ... its freakin' great screwing lots of chicks for small price and no drama. F'n fantastic.

Moral: Don't let yourself fall into a trap and give this up. If someone *EXCEPTIONAL* comes around, maybe consider it ... but I'm talking *EXCEPTIONAL* and we all know that isn't found too often if at all.

Again, just my 2 cents. Enjoy it all, man.

I am in a similar situation, I'm almost 40, never been married and I've be mongering since my early 20's. Sure I like to date broads here and there but I will always choose to monger, whether in CR, DR, Colombia or wherever I travel.

A part of me wants to look for "love" but after taking the "red pill" for so many years, love just isn't as much fun. You only live once and I don't have time to deal with any nonsense. Nowadays, I always look forward to my trips but I date gringas in between if I am bored.

One thing for sure, I will never get married.

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Can't wait to go back!

I am 65, a widower of 3 years. when wife died I had had sex with 2 women in my life, wow! After 1 st trip to CR it was 3, 2nd trip it went to 7, Karen twice, I was hooked. Just returned from 3rd trip (12 days) and have lost count, upper 20's, and am planning next trip. When that final day comes and we look back at our life, it will be the things we didn't do we regret, not what we did. So I plan to face that day with very few regrets,if any. Do likewise.

I may die broke, but I'll die smiling.

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Bigal211---Well said.

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There's a prettier girl every day...

My friend there are many many men here without a consense they just lie , most men don't care they feel it's there right and natural desire to spread there seed in as many vaginas as possible .we all try to not hurt the woman we like or love . Here is the way I handle it I hope it helps : my regularita here I told her when I meet her why I broke up with my last it was because she tried to take away my passion for exploring the world and travel adventures . (seed planted and true ) she said that's bad I'm not like that baby yeah right ,so when the time came for my next trip she was dreading it ,keep asking if I'm going and what I'm doing ,I told her a million times she keeps asking . Still dosent believe anything I did ..whatever ..when I'm here I am loyal 100% I get all I need from her and she isn't a gringa.

Now I want to go again every six months like I've been doing for 6 yrs and she says she just dosent like it and she dosent like my wingman ,fact is no matter where I go she isn't gonna like it or accept it ,I'm willing to lose her over it because it's my loss of freedom ,every woman I have ever had a relationship has stolen my freedom due to her character defects and insecurity's ,never again ,even if my motive is unpure, woman have great instincts so watch out . JG

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