Cujo'S wrote:
I'm not sure I've ever agreed with some of these concepts. Saying not to give ur email addy out (if u wish to do so) but not doing it because of an rfm is like saying u can prevent stds with abstenence

RFM's aren't automatic... If a chica see's you as a straight up monger who might be into her, she may take a poke and see what you say. Especially is she don't give a shit..
A chica in any capacity who "really likes" you would be too embarrassed to send you one....its really that simple..
Cujo
I don't totally disagree w/ you Cuj'

(but if you don't Phuck or otherwise engage in sexual contact with a partner - your right hand does not count - tough to get any STD's

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But you can't argue with my central points:
*If she does not have your contact info, you will not receive an RFM
*Many guys are seen as "marks" by the girls - frankly, I doubt you - or even me, or many of the guys with a little experience - but we get newbi's all the time - plus the level of sophistication of many on the board is not super high - but as you can probably guess, I give out zero info
*Little percentage in giving out your contact info as in the vast majority of cases, these girls are not "friends" - plus many guys don't speak spanish nor girls english, so again malice towards none

plus have very little in common - what's the point?
*When a guy gets one - he often feels used, or like a tool - we can debate endlessly whether he should feel that way or not, but in many cases he does -- so why set yourself up to be disappointed
Frankly, guys can do what they wish but should not be surprised when they do receive an RFM - and if you don't want one - its easy to prevent
