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OK, I have reconsidered the idea. Im not getting married again. PERIOD!! I WILL leave it all for my K*ds. Much better idea. I guess I was caught thinking with my wrong head again!!!!!!

I've been divorced from a 12 year marriage for about three years now and have never been happier. Nothing against my ex either because she is actually a pretty cool broad and was a great wife and mother. Had a "good divorce" if there is such a thing, but one could say I was lucky because she is VERY independent in her actions and thinking and I got off easy on the $$$ end of it. Sure, I pay Ch*ld support (as I should), but that doesn't bother me because I would spend it on them anyway if they were living with me.

Now, back to this "lucky" thing. I do not think I was “lucky” at all because I chose my wife based on attributes besides just looks (and she was pretty hot too). This all goes back to what I said on the first page about men screening women that meet their standards vice trying so hard to meet women's standards. Seldom happens. Dudes are so happy to be getting some steady pu*sy that they overlook glaring personality flaws too often and live in the fear that they will never bag another broad that hot. Phuck that noise. Outside of my mongering stuff I have had 4 actual relationships with Gringas in the last three years, all of which I ended because I didn't like the way things were going and I was AWARE that the simple nagging, jealousy, clinginess, neediness or just general attributes I saw that I didn't like would NOT get better with time, so I cut them loose. No hard feelings, no anger, no name calling, just break it off early if needed.

Again, not that I am some master of relationships or perfect with women, but I swear less than 10% of the men I know live their lives this way and that is why shit gets all phucked up.

I mean in no way to insult anyone that was taken for a ride or to the cleaners on their divorce, but c'mon guys. Take SOME responsibility for not choosing more carefully. I must caveat that with the fact that we all do change quite a bit over the years and a sweet girl can turn into a bitch, but seldom vice versa. But normally we overlook these things early on for reasons unknown to mankind.

I have a friend going through the shit right now and he has a total victim mentality about it. Drives me nuts because I remember when he met her and she was pretty hot, but he saw glaring warning signs and convinced himself they were “normal” behavior from women. So, he married her. The rest is history, happens thousands of times a day and until men take control of THEMSELVES the shit will repeat over and over. Again, not flaming anyone that got phucked over because I know it does happen beyond a man’s control at times, but I estimate that AT LEAST 50% of these could be avoided if us menfolk learned how to screen more logically instead of with our dicks.

The marriage again thing is funny. Most of my friends and family ask me “when do you (or do you) think you will get married again?”

My answer – “At this moment in my life I have NOTHING to gain from marrying someone.”

Sure, may change later, but like Yosh said “a stadium full” first. Haha!

It's phucked up how the system is "setup" in America. Men DO NOT stand a chance in this sexist environment. More men are jumping the fence and running into the arms of foreign brides. However, to their surprise foreign women are still the typical woman. They are just better at being a woman. I have NEVER been attracted to American women. I think American women try so hard to be a man but they will never be a man. I also find American women to be unattractive. They have lost track of their feline characteristics in their quest to show men they are just as "strong as a man." I personally think American women are nasty. Just the way they carry themselves. I swear every woman in America has a stuck up attitude of some rich bitch in Hollywood. They all think they are these little divas or Hollywood movie stars or these sweet little princesses.

Hell, even the fat ones. The fat women appear to have the nastiest attitudes than the hotter women. Simply because the fat Ameriskanks know they are first in line to get phucked. I see so many men put up with attitudes from fat pathetic no good for nothing loser ass women with no goals and/or ambition in life other than to pop out Babi*s, get on welfare, collect Ch*ld support, and bitch about her man being behind on Ch*ld support. I honestly don't believe men or women should have to pay Ch*ld support. I think when a couple splits that should be the end of it. Other than the father or mother having rights to see their Ch*ldren. Men get buried alive with unfair Ch*ld support laws.

My friend, who is currently active duty military, pays $900 PER MONTH IN Ch*ld SUPPORT. That is COMPLETE bullshit. I suspect that is Ch*ld support + vaginamony payments. It appears women can not do it all after all. It seems like the father has ALL financial responsibility in raising the Ch*ld while the mother still gets to live her "regular life." I bet most women regret the fact of having K*ds because they didn't expect it to be so "tough." Generally speaking, the mother gets primary custody of the K*ds unless she is a drug addict/alcoholic. Anyway, the mother will get the Ch*ld during the weekdays. Then, the father may get to see them on the weekend depending upon what the mother says. He's like a weekend baby sitter to the mother while she goes out on the weekends with her friends because she is "doing it big" looking for another sucker to get her pregnant. I swear women could make a living off of popping Babi*s out and collecting Ch*ld support; that's if she plays her cards right. Most women are too stupid to know how to think though. Luckily, that's to a man's benefit. Anyway, It's like the father doesn't even have ANY say so in the matter. Men have no rights in this country when it comes to divorcing, Ch*ld custody, Ch*ld support payments, etc. I found that out when I went through my divorce. LUCKILY, knock on wood, I didn't have a vindictive wife like most Ameriskanks are. My ex is from Japan. I do not have to pay Ch*ld support, knock on wood again, because of an agreement we established. American women put Ch*ld support ahead of a father actually being a father to his K*ds.

Oh yeah, let him miss a payment. Holy Shit! She is QUICK to throw the K*ds in his face. Typical comments are "If you don't pay your Ch*ld support I'm not going to let you see your K*ds." Or "If you don't pay your Ch*ld support I will contact the Ch*ld support agency, then we will see what you do" and etc. It's a phucking shame what women do to men. To be honest, I think for a woman to even want Ch*ld support, she is an evil cold hearted bitch to begin with. For a woman to use her Ch*ldren to get what she wants is pure evil. I know men that have full custody of their K*ds and don't ask a penny for support, still lets the mother see the K*ds, and lets her take the K*ds places-my uncle for example. Now, do you think if the tables were turned around that she would be so generous? HELL NO!

Most men are phucking idiots when it comes to selecting a woman. If he gets a piece of pu*sy he is ecstatic just by this fact alone. What normally starts off as a booty call turns into a full fledge relationship. Not because they planned on it but because they were just phucking and she became pregnant. Here is a perfect example of women and how they operate. Women ALWAYS blame the men for getting HER pregnant. It always appears to be the man's fault for getting her pregnant too because he didn't use a condom or he lied to her and said he couldn't get pregnant. Ok that is kind of phucked up I will admit. However, why is it ALWAYS the man's fault? Why doesn't the woman take birth control pills, use a female condom, the morning after pill and son on? Why dont they take precautions? This goes back to what I said earlier. Women don't know how to accept responsibility in their lives. Women lie to men and say they are on the pill, women will take the condom u threw in the trash can and scoop your C*m out of it and shove it in her vagina to purposely get pregnant, they will put holes in the condoms so semen can come out of it and impregnate her, i mean the list can go on and on and on. Why does our society permit women to lie about these kind of things? Why does our society permit women to be the ONLY deciding factor in having an abortion or not? If women want to have a baby, then that's fine. However, it should be a mutual agreement. If consent is not met on both sides of the parties then men SHOULD NOT have to pay Ch*ld support. That sounds like a fair trade off to me. Instead, these women, Specifically American women grab men by the balls and will not turn loose. They are not these sweet picture perfect angels that TV shows, Disney-God I hate disney that is one of the most corrupt organizations out here-, Mom, Dad, and etc make them out to be. Women CAN NOT be trusted. I picture pretty much anything a woman says as a lie. If you can learn to think like this then you can tell when a woman is lying and when she is not lying. I'd say 90-95% of the time she is lying. There are good women out there but that population has dwindled down to about .1%. That's why I am NOT trying to find one but yet I stay open to the idea. Except, women change when they get married and THAT is what's really scary about women. She could be an angel but as soon as you put that ring on her finger and she has a baby, it is a wrap. I see so many couples stay together simply because it's cheaper to keep her or because of the Ch*ldren.

If its not Ch*ld support you have to worry about then it's vaginamony. If it's not vaginamony you have to worry about then it's your assets you have to worry about. I could probably write a book about why not to get married and how it has become a financial disaster for most men given the wealth of knowledge I have on the subject matter. Women can roam the globe and do what the hell they want to do and not have to accept any legal or moral responsibilities in the process. Until women start to accept responsibility for their actions I refuse to get married. Women will also label men such as myself a woman hater, oppressive, old fashioned, etc because they know that I am of no use to her since I know how the system works and how the system is opposes men. Women have it made in this god damn country. They live in the best country in the world, if you're a woman, but if you are a man it is the worst country in the world. Yet, women still find shit to bitch about. They rightful earned their pet name of bitches for a specific reason. Not because it's derogatory toward them but because it is the honest to god's truth about them. They are bitches and will forever be bitches; we all know that bitches are not shit and will never be shit.

I do not condemn marriage but I am opposed to it because marriage IS a contract. It's all about the money to them. Women know if they can get married then you are finito and you do not stand a chance in divorce court. I choose to opt out of the matter all together. WOMEN ARE ALL THE SAME. THEY ALL WANT MONEY. They are only good for booty calls and I will give them what they want upfront. Phuck that I love you bullshit fairy-tale love story. Everything isn't what it looks like; nor does everything appear to be what its made out to be. Have fun living in that fantasy world. I dont know which is the bigger fantasy banging fine ass brawds overseas or living the marriage life. For the few women that are good and loyal to their nature's calling I take my hat off to them but I still don't trust them. People change with time. I'll stay unmarried and stick to my hobbies in the meantime.

Walltime hit it right on the head there. TAKE RESPONSIBILITY for stupid moves! I couldn't even see being attracted in the first place to a female that has nothing going on in her life. Talking as long term, of course she is ok for casual. Guys marry some chick, give her a life and are the sole supporters of the family. The courts aren't GENERALLY screwing guys out of money that are married to females that are their equals. Now down here, so many variables to deal with, yet guys still don't take responsibility. When we are talking about females in Costa Rica, do you know the biggest reason they date and settle down with gringos? Big reason besides the money and lifestyle factor. They know that they can get over on gringos in a way Latinos won't put up with. Gringos are generally so happy to be there or smitten that they are afraid to lay down the law. For them being with a Latino guy is like a K*D with his parents. They are on point all the time to make sure she doesn't stray. Being with a gringo is like a K*D being with the grandparents. They know that the gringo is soft and they can get over on him.

I didn't mean for my last post to be as long as it was. I just started typing. Anyway, I think if a man could learn to do without a woman, then the possibilities are endless. Think about how women really hold back our society. Women say men are stupid. I can honestly see a man sitting at home, looking at his wife struggling to wash dishes, to cook, and clean. So what's the man do? He makes her life easier. Designs her a dishwasher, or pre-cooked food so all she has to do is throw it in the microwave or manufactures a vaccum cleaner for her. In man's quest to please his woman, I dont think the man took consideration of perhaps that is her "level of happines." I really think, of course its my opinion, that women reach their highest level of maturity perhaps late middle school or early high school.

Now try to imagine how much further "advanced" we would be if we didn't have to cater to these god damn women who have subjected us with their lies ever since we were born. Women want a man to respect her, women want a man to lover her, blah blah blah just a couple of examples I can think of. Fact of the matter is women are delusional. They have no phucking clue what they want but because they are materialistic, money will be more than enough for now.Until a new currency is developed or whatever. I am PROUD to be a man. Now, our attraction to women is based on curiousity. I think we find women curious because women, simply put, are stupid. On the contrary, I think MOST men are too stupid to realize this one simple yet powerful characteristic women exhibit. Once again, they trick us! I'll get a dog or a cat or go fishing before I will ever consider marrying a woman again.

Before I get too lengthy I think this should summarize EVERYTHING about women up quite nicely: Men hold the keys to the future. Instead, he ignores them waisting his time dealing with some hateful dreaded bitch that has no ambition or goals toward life. No I dont hate women but SOMETIMES, like the OP said, I hate them too.

Yes, walltime and Jett both had valid points too.

Having had a few divorces under my belt I can identify with you all. There is no accountability or responsibility for women.
They do pretty much what they want then Bitch (a female dog). Look carefully at that word and it's definition. Just the actions of most females puts you right on que. However we most times use the word to express their constant complaining.

Just a wild thought in my head! They all have the same number of holes, that being four. Three of which are useable.

The mouth which is usually non stop vile lying crap. The only way to shut it is to fill it with something usually with food and even then they still keep talking or complaining. You know my favorite filler. But Gringas now have reminded me of the great Jewish wine "SUCK WHAT".

The urethra, which can't take but usually only pisses all over you. Unless you have learned the art of making them squirt. Most of them to self centered and stupid to let you even teach them how. Now is that not the epidemy self depreciation. To deny yourself the ability to have knock the house down multiple orgasms.

The anus which by most women talk out of is only to be used to take a dump. This being far from what actually is true. Most women that have learned to use their anus have found that with practice and patients can have some of the deepest orgasms. Sure it is rough the first couple of times but so was the V.

The big V which all of them bleed at least five of every 28 day cycle. That's not to mention the occasional discharge. Now that brings us to the universal thought, held around the globe by these women. That they are all a princes or Queen and sitting on a gold mine.

Well I think we have seen the stupidity of US (you and me). We have fallen in to in the past to their miss guided beliefs. If you look at it we pay the price of gold and our dignity and self respect for something that for the most part spues venom from the moth, piss from urethra, blood from the V and crap from the anus.

I guess what I am saying is wake up and realize that we need to value ourselves as much or more as these crazy Bitches do themselves.

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May the force be with you my CRT Jedi.

Good discussions my brothers!

All this talk I have done about "screening" I think can be better said as such and is in line with what our general theme is here:

"Stop Supplicating Women!"

Woman are irrational and generally have no logic in their thoughts or actions. And yes, especially in a divorce women blame the man for their lives "not turning out the way they planned.". Read as: zero accountability!

Now, this non-supplication thing must be part of WHO A MAN IS in order to be effective. Women complain, bitch and generally shit test men. They nag, whine and do things to try to see if a guy will falter from what HE wants or desires. Sometimes intentional, but it is more of a hard-wired, DNA thing. I mean for fucks sake, look at the Adam and Eve deal with the apple and the snake (if you believe in that). While somewhat humorous, it is totally phucking true. The man (Adam) knew better but he folded like a cheap lawn chair.

I am totally cool with saying NO to women and running the risk of losing them and/or them leaving or whatever. THIS is natural selection and screening them out in my opinion. If she leaves or breaks it off SO WHAT! Think of the long-term misery and grief that is saved.

They other key to this is a man MUST be this way from the very first interaction and all the way throughout the relationship in order for it to work in our favor. No back and forth and acting like a pu*sy half of the time either. I was in the military (Marines) for my entire adult life and retired in a senior enlisted leadership position and my philosophy on leadership was this. You basically have to be a dick and be firm when going somewhere new or to a new unit right out of the gate. The reason for this is you can't go from being "nice" to being a dick. However, you can go from being a dick to mixing in periods of reward (when deserved) and being "nice" from time to time.

The same concept applies to dealing with women - not saying that being a total dick is what the highly confident and effective man does but he is firm from the get go and when the woman EARNS his respect, she is rewarded. I know it sounds sexist and like I am saying woman are like dogs but that is not what I am trying to convey. What I am saying is the man has the responsibility to LEAD in the relationship (not to be confused with being controlling either).

THIS is the facet that most of us totally Phuck up in our dealings with women and the exact reason why shit gets all phucked up.

Again, I have had my successes and failures with women and expect to experience many more of both, but since I live my life this way (for about 3 years now…I’m 39 BTW) I NEVER have issues with women, period!

Never let a woman and her actions make you or your emotional state falter. In other words, no matter what she says or does and how she acts the key is to be non-reactive to the BS. Think about the guys that you may know that are the best with women. Do they argue with them or stay totally cool when a woman acts out? They stay cool as Phuck but call her on her bullshit in a way that DEMANDS respect. Women these days are not accustomed to men being assertive and standing up to her shit. They key is to be so relaxed when you do so that no matter what she says her does you do not go down to her level.

I find the Adam and Eve story hard to believe. In fact, I find the Bible hard to believe. It contradicts itself in a wide variety of ways. Is what I can see is a woman getting a man to write a story for her. Basically saying that she came from his rib, which would make her less than he is or weaker. Sounds like a manipulative story to me that was wrote by a man that a woman coerced into writing it for her.

Women blame men for their oppression. I wonder what their excuse will be this time around? The "shackles" are off bitches. The ones that you manufactured since "men kept you oppressed." I think it is very important to remember that men ONLY judge women from our standards. What may look like an emotional creature on the outside is far from what's on the inside. I think women are callous in nature with cold hearted calculating moves. I think on the inside women are the furthest thing from emotional. If their was ever a "god" and ever a "devil" then men would be the "god" and women would be the "devil". Of course their are exceptions to the rules.

Also, why is it the man is always unmasked? What about the woman? WHere does she get unmasked in all of this commotion? I think a woman reveals her true colors during court proceedings or in a large group of people that she can manipulate later in her life if need be because "the man was such a terrible person." Boo hoo hoo! Very few men think like I think. I think women are cold hearted bitches that are not these emotional creatures, that's just her front, that most men make them out to be. I also think women can't be unmasked simply because she is too stupid to unmask herself. She doesn't know what the hell she is doing in her life. She's just there in mere existence. I've come to realize, from experience, women are callous in nature. Meaning, they lack feelings. Hopefully, that puts things into perspective when she starts to cry because the vacation has been ruined. You're thinking by you're own standards of why she may be crying. I honestly have no phucking clue what goes on in a woman's mind. That is a world which is kept private. I suspect probably not much of anything. Of course all speculation. However, to be honest, I dont really want to know.

Sometimes I can understand why guys go gay.
Now, if I could just get past that c*cksucking thing.
Red

Every post in this thread touches on some key points regarding the differences between men and women. I've already stated my position here in great detail but I'd also like to add one more point to the discussion:

Our challenge is to accept the female, not to change her.

Many women are prickly human beings, to be sure. The challenge for us as men is to be in a place where we accept that and act accordingly. Honesty, can you blame a woman for taking advantage of a weak, insecure man with no resolve? Guys are reading my words and getting hustled RIGHT NOW by women in their personal or monger lives. She takes advantage of you, spends your money, acts indifferent toward your needs and doesn't want to please you sexually in any way. No matter what you say or do you're always wrong. I ask you, who's to blame for this? Who should know better, her or you? Sure, we can agree all day that women are this and that. However, until you as a man stand up for yourself what's the point?

The fact is I've been following what goes on with our misandrist(look it up) culture for many years now. I would consider myself very well informed regarding the divorce/marriage/relationship dynamic in our culture. in the beginning I was angry at women, their ways and behavior. I later came to understand that you can't on one hand believe women are inferior to you and on the other hand act as though they are the authority on all things social/personal.

There are legions of men that can't come up with a single independent thought without passing it by the "little lady." Dudes have no clue how to even dress themselves, fix a meal, or what to buy without their Wife/GF/SO input. Legions of men who were raised in a certain generation CANNOT and WILL NOT ever believe that women CAN be responsible for any negative behavior they commit. I ask you, is it any wonder why so many women take these guys and turn them into mush? Mongers transfer their erroneous views of women onto putas. Who wins? The putas! Dudes get into relationships with these girls knowing full well they're being taken for a ride. They don't care either. "I'm having the time of my life," they say. "She's MY special girl." Strange isn't it? If I meet his "special" girl and call her a puta or say she gave me great BBBJ last night, he's ready to break a beer bottle and try to kick my ass! All this over a women that belongs to neither of us, no less! He'll fight over some pu*sy he doesn't own. Who is protecting who's honor?

How angry should we be? Women are women. They have pea-brain biological/evolutionary thinking. They take advantage of all they can get. Men are the ones that are supposed to adapt to the hunt, and move on if the prey ain't there. Again I ask, if you get taken for a ride in divorce court/from a puta or from a girlfriend who's supposed to know better that women suck? Her or YOU?

Two failed marriages. A bevy of personal debt. Broken promises. Broken dreams. I don't blame women, I blame myself for not being the man that I should have been. I've grown up, finally. I now see the "man behind the curtain." I'm better now. I'm not mad anymore. I've come to accept. No acceptance, no peace.

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Yo, I'm off on a Jett/relaxed to the monger set/
Got the chica pro-flo headed out the doe/
Got cien dollar bills-n-bags for my Del Rey shags/
Scoping out Tica heels wit the flaca feels/
No novia para me cause its extra fee, not "free"/
Gonna get a Pura Vida meeta not a gringa skeeza/
Dis is how it goes wit hoes in Santa Joe's/
No need for the true player/just a true payer
Ya dig?

Um...Red. You do know that plenty of gay guys don't necessarily suck C*ck, right?

I mean...some guys are "bottoms", others are "tops."

Oh and another thing...if the ONLY thing that would prevent you from switching teams is having to suck a dude's schlong, you might want to investigate where you stand on this side of things.

I mean...a hairy ass doesn't bother you?

I mean...touching a dude in ANY sexual way doesn't bother you?

I mean...the whole naked dude standing in front of you wanting to have his way doesn't repulse you?

I mean...the whole naked dude standing in front of you while you're aware that your own dick is at full mast?

NOT that if you're down with any of this it'd be wrong...

I'm just saying...






All in good fun, my friend.

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Yo, I'm off on a Jett/relaxed to the monger set/
Got the chica pro-flo headed out the doe/
Got cien dollar bills-n-bags for my Del Rey shags/
Scoping out Tica heels wit the flaca feels/
No novia para me cause its extra fee, not "free"/
Gonna get a Pura Vida meeta not a gringa skeeza/
Dis is how it goes wit hoes in Santa Joe's/
No need for the true player/just a true payer
Ya dig?

So I guess taking C*ck up the ass and kissing another man was fairly easy for you to get over. LOL

Also, I refuse to categorize women as human. Not because I am stubborn, ok maybe I am, but its just the facts. Women don't care about men. Women ONLY care about themselves and how they can use their current environment to their advantage. I like to go out in public and look at people. Study their behaviors. Especially families. Not because I am some sicko but in majority of the families women look ecstatic. Then, I look at the man. He appears to be in a state of a lombotic function. Just there in the moment. He was tricked and he seems to be lost and not able to find a way out. The woman, who are forever controlling, put just enough slack in the line to let men go and then tighten it up when she feels her man is headed in a positive direction in his life. I find the "spirit" or the way a woman thinks to be very oppressive. I dont hold it against them. It's their nature. I just know that I will avoid them, especially the American women, like a plague. I do find international women to be more fun-Asia & Latin America. If you meet a woman OVERSEAS just keep her in her mother land. I made the mistake of bringing mine back to America. I honestly contribute American feminism to being part of my marriage's failure.

I am GLAD to be un-married. I was married at a young age. Now, Im divorced. It's literally the difference between night and day with a woman not being around me 24/7/365. COMPLETELY less stressful too. I also have different goals and visions for my life that I used to let my ex stop me from. She's my "equal" you know. BULLSHIT she is. Not in the eyes of the law. Anyway, I would let her talk me out of stuff. Now that their is nobody her to talk me out of things I once again have plans in my life. Greater plans then I had when I was with her. Phuck I dont think I had any plans when I was with her other than wake up, go to work, and come back home. One of the most powerful forces nature can offer is an un-married male determined to achieve his destiny in life. Women will NEVER be able to achieve such charisma in their life combined. Women lack the forsight into the future. HER ONLY GOAL IS NOW! WHAT CAN I GET NOW? I will worry about tomorrow come tomorrow.

Also, you wanna talk about some scary shit....Violence Against Women Act is some SCARY SCARY SHIT. Basically, this Act was signed into law. I believe in the early 90's or 2000's something like that. This Act gives the woman the power to have a man thrown in jail simple based upon what she thinks. If she "thinks" she was sexually assaulted then she certainly was. If she "thinks" she was physically assaulted then she certainly was. Tell it to the judge. That's if the judge is willing to put his career on the line and believe your side of the story.

Anyway, enough of me and my "Mr. Knowitall attitude." Im like Jett. I know how women operate. I am not worried about them. I just focus on what I need to do in my life. You'd be surprised by how dramatically things will improve on an inner level if you just focused on yourself. However, the first step is learning to accept responsibility in your life. "MAN-UP" as the feminist say. Another saying they have is "Think like a man but act like a woman." LMAO Ok i'll stop.

The bottom line is this, people (especially women) treat you and behave the way the you EXPECT and ALLOW them to. Or the "sexist" version is - women treat you and behave the way we train them to. Yeah, I said it. Call her on the little bullshit right off the bat and there will be no issues. Granted, this may mean she leaves because she knows she can't "get over" on you or you cut her loose because you identify the shit out of the gate. Either way, the good ones will stick around because they don't pull that shit and if they do they quickly realize they are dealing with a MAN.

Pretty much in line with what thirdworld said. In dealing with Ticas do you think for one second that their Tico boyfriends put up with 1/10th of the BS that most gringos do? To make matters worse, in most cases we are directly PAYING them, yet how many times have you seen a dude sitting around waiting for hours for some cooze to show up and two hours passes and she finally shows up or worse completely no shows the guy? I know, I know, older guy with a younger and hotter girl (That he is PAYING). She is a phucking employee for Christ's sake! But, I know these are the same guys that get juiced in the states so being a sucker is bi-lingual I guess. I have never tolerated that from a woman I do not pay so why would I from one that I do pay?

I agree with most everything that is being said on here in general terms, but harbor zero hate and resentment for women. In fact, I love women. I love pretty much everything about them to include the bat shit crazy and devious shit they are capable of. Why? Because even though I love and respect them I love and respect myself more so it is not possible for one to get over on me on any grand scale.

One of the biggest overlooked things here men earning their standards. What I mean is not doing things to impress some broad, but how often are men super critical of women, specifically the way they look, and the dude is not even remotely close to being physically attractive himself, but more importantly is putting ZERO effort into that area of his life (fitness, the way he dresses, the way he carries himself). Even a guy that is not “handsome” in the traditional sense can make himself rather attractive to females if he is willing to put some effort into it. When we do so it affects the way we BEHAVE and carry ourselves, so it is for us and not for them. The positive dealings with them are just one of the MANY bi-products of doing shit like this. Needless to say being healthy is the biggest and most important one.

Yeah, I know most of us on here are middle aged and up and more than not have completely given up on that aspect of their lives. For fuck’s sake I’m not trying to sound like a woman’s lib supporter but does a man that has done this (“given up”) convey attractive male behavior? I sure as Phuck know this, while I love younger women, not many things turn me on more than seeing a women in her 40’s or even her 50’s that puts effort into taking care of herself and looking good for men (assuming she’s not a total high maintenance and stuck up bitch).

We can tell ourselves all the lies we want to, but I have seen too many guys that range from mid 30’s all the way up to their 70’s that have their game so tight that they NEVER have issues with women. Enough for me to know that there are a TON of great women available but you must be a great man to get them. Bottom line - if we lead, the ones that are worth a shit will follow. The ones that are trouble will not and will keep on being a problem for some sucker - PROBLEM SOLVED.

WE (men) created a society where money IS the great equalizer and allows men that posses very few redeeming qualities that are readily apparent to be overlooked in order for him to get laid by some hot and generally younger woman. While the money is what gets him in the door his sense of self-worth is so severely lacking that he tolerates bullshit in the fear that she will not like him or leave him or some bullshit of the like.

Needless to say this is glaringly evident in CR where the money thing is right at the forefront and not masked behind layers of bullshit as it often is in the US.

I'm not so diplomatic. I am not attracted to most gringas but I'm just not physically attracted to caucasian women in general, but I LMFAO when they rants begin about their "evil". Really? Sorry if this one hurts but I'm sure there is solid boyfriend/ husband material on this board. Catches that any woman would be proud to call hers. Gotta ask yourself this: "If p4p didn't exist how many would never stick there dick in anything other than their hand again?"

true indeed....but also they "behave" based on our behavior (setting the tone)...at least in my experience...p4p or otherwise.