Pacifica55 wrote:
Warning: If you start to do multiple nights per trip or multiple nights consecutively with the same girl, she will immediately see you as her property. If you don't take her she will be hurt and will take some measure of vengeance. Mix it up and try to spread it around evenly or pay the price. When you find one that really trips your trigger, immediately start looking for another with the same pull. Otherwise you will gravitate to her and she will start placing territorial markers.
This has me worried. I have one Tica I see every trip. The reason I always see her is because she is of known quality. So if I go for 5 days, I make sure I see her one night because that way I know I will have at least one great night on that trip. We email on occaision and she never RFMs me, it is always a "how are you email.".
I wrote her that I was coming down and she wrote, in English, "I want to stay with you." She isn't fluent, so I took it to mean she wants to spend some time together like we always do, which is an hour or two of fun, dinner and goodbye. Then I asked her which day is best for her so I could save the date. She wrote back, in Spanish, she could spend all the days I mentioned. Now I am thinking this has somehow turned into a relationship thing. I hope I am wrong, but I thought we had an understanding. In the past when I said something like "I will see you Wednesday when I arrive and again on Monday before I go back," she knew I was doing other chicks the other days. I don't want to spend all my days with her, so I am not sure what to tell her, especially if she shows up with extra clothes in an over night bag. Not to mention I am not a TLN guy! I like when they leave and I can do whatever I want.