Hank Daman wrote:
Money is your ticket on the ride only, but the base price factors little in the overall quality of the experience. To think that all mongers get equal expereince from each chica all the time is just foolish and naive, and frankly a defense against taking responsiblity for what makes one desirable (or undesirable). Here are the factors, fro my experience.
1) Perception of safety- A chica can not let go if you thinks your a creep who might harm her. If you think the girls don't think about this, your wrong.
2) Physical attracctivness
3) Age and health
4) Hygene
5) Language skills
6) Personality- Being fun, having a way of people, turning it into a playful expeirnce.
7) Skills with women and as a lover-
Your ability to be a BFE
9) Incentives- Why the hell tip of you are not going to use it as leverage. I always say, right before the session, that if it is one of the best experience I have had I till tip well. I then describe what I like (playfully), and then she has a monetary reason for being a rock star. Think about if, if you do believe it is ONLY about the money (or mostly), make it work for you. A ten buck tip for an off the chart session (or twenty, whatever), adds up to very little in the end..
If you want a mediocre half hour of sex, than of course it is easy as hell to pay no attention to the above stated attributes. And of course, there are providers who are rock stars with just about everyone. They are the rare exceptions; most chicas are YMMY. Of course they are only phucking us because of the money, but phucking like the MEAN it is about a host of other factors.
Yeah, that's one opinion.....
The other side of that coin is that if you are going to do all that, why waste it on a hooker?
OK, rather than just doing a "drive by", I will actually present a counter argument; Most guys don't bother doing all that stuff because they know that they don't have to because they are involving themselves in a P4P relationship that basically ends when he shoots his load and drops some coin on the dresser. It is the same thing for me as getting all gussied up to go to Pure Platinum in the U.S. Is the fact that I am dressed like Tony Montana and smell like a french cathouse going to get me a better lapdance?
Mediocre sex results anytime I don't feel comfortable eating possy, have to use a condom, have to hide the mini-bar, etc.; so mediocre, is where its going to stay, regardless of how attractive or unattractive I am or how much sweet talking I do and belive me I can talk some BS in English and in Spanish, it just ain't worth my time.
I mean I have to do all that sheet with every gringa I go out with in Gringalandia, so why the heck am I going to do it on vacation, with a Sex Worker? Because it might get me a few more "Ai Papis"?
Because she might invite me to the family shack?
Because she will take my email address and send me RFM at Christmas time?
I could literally go on all day.....
If you want to do more with a hooker, have at it, but literally it has nothing at all to do with "taking responsibility for what makes one desirable" Its more like putting on a tuxedo to eat at McDonald. Of course YMMV
I am not sure what the level of Spanish is among those that wish to pursue this mystic GFE experience with every hooker they meet or place same on the proverbial pedestal,, but in my experience, its the guys who don't speak a lot of Spanish, and don't have the confidence to look elsewhere for a real experience; i.e. one where you don't leave colonies on the dresser in the morning. If you are a fluent Spanish speaker, most of the time you are going to find the average level of dialog of your average Del Rey Deb to be on a very rudimentary level i.e. where to go shopping for stuff, what the stars of their fav telenovelas are up to, etc.
And if you live in CR, do speak Spanish and even if you resemble Brad Pitt only in the sense that you are both male, there is no reason whatsoever to "shoot fish in the barrel" by hanging out in the gulch and to try and elevate a P4P relationship to some type of mystic experience. My advice is that if you want a real relationship, then look for it outside the gulch and save 1-7 for those efforts; with the exception of Hygiene; good hygiene should go w/o saying.
And a third side of the coin is that some guys are just attracted to those type of "drama filled relationships" that burn very hot and burn out very fast. I see it all the time in the states; big domestic scene; cops called; fists flying, you name it; pick a episode of COPS
And as always, this is just my opinion, and although I do secretly long for that GFE with a Del Rey Deb,
I will satisfy myself with just nailing them.
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