PacoLoco wrote:
If your novia was a prostitute you wouldn't have to worry with such silly things.

But you
would have to wake up and smell the coffee (very long, very famous thread on CRT)
Re the original question - for what the OP describes, its a casual meeting - meet somewhere else if you don't want to meet at Sportsmans (I hear the Hotel Del Rey is centrally located and has a nice bar - try there

) - seriously, plenty of places in SJ - wanna get out of the gulch entirely - try the Jazz Cafe, not too far from the University in San Pedro - cabs know the place - nice, great music, and not far - problem solved

PS In all likelihood, no one else is going to give a shit what someone else does, who someone else brings in, sits with, talks with, etc - no one will even know - the OP's question was about the reputation of the Sportsmans.