I call them "Chicas con Dicas".
I could really care less, but by calling them "special girls", instead of "special guys" it would seem that one is trying to make it "right" in their own mind. These are not females (girls), but males who for whatever reason "feel" that they are female. That does not make it a truth.
I do know that my brother never could be quite right with being bi-sexual. The stigma of society weighed heavily on him, and IMO it was much worse then. I saw a lot of unhappiness, and grief, from he and his male partners, and a shitload of excessive drinking. Of course, that is not true for every gay person, especially now that it is accepted more easily. I honestly hope that it is better now for those who choose traveling on the Hershey Highway. If it is not change that thought to a positive thought about self, and what others say won't matter.
IMO, if I am truly at peace from within my heart and soul, there is no need to justify who I am, and what I believe to anyone (as long as my actions are not harming another). I am the only person that can decide to "take-in" negativity being given by another. When I choose to do that I am not in a good place in my soul. It usually happens when the negativity reminds me of a time prior in my life that I was small, or weak, and could not stand up for myself. When I find my mind in a place that does not serve my highest thought for self, it is my duty, to my happiness and well being, and change that thought immediately.
Others cannot make me unhappy, only I can choose to be unhappy, or not. I am just one thought away from believing whatever I choose.
Health & happiness to all..................