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Indicate which option best applies to the majority of girls...
Enjoy the work and are glad to be doing it 7%  7%  [ 6 ]
Grudgingly accept it as the best option to provide for themselves and their families 79%  79%  [ 64 ]
Despise it and would jump at the first realistic opportunity to escape it 14%  14%  [ 11 ]
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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 8:20 am 
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I really don't believe the " have to do it" mentality. There are always choices. There are a lot more girls working in regular jobs in Cr than there are at the BM/KL....so how do they do it ??
How do they live on $10 a day instead of $100


I've asked myself this question many times. I still wonder. I remember a post by Jazz Musician stating that "working girls" are just wired differently. I have always found that interesting and have wanted to persue that avenue. What makes them different? Why will some young women who have families and Ch*ldren struggle to make ends meet...working menial jobs? While others have no problem strutting into the DR/KL and pulling out $200+ dollars a night.

I think partly it is their family structure. Someone else wrote that mom and dad are lazy, the other sister is "vaca." Therefore, sweet cheeks has to go out and sell pu*sy. It boils down to family structure. If these girls came from good homes, where everyone was pitching in for the cause, would they spend their lives in the DR/KL? I don't know. I'm just asking. I have known my chica for almost a year and I've had many questions. I've told her to her face that she is being used and abused by her own family. She tries to deny it but she knows the truth. The truth is that if the family WANTED to change the situation the could figure it out.

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 9:13 am 
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I have been getting into the heads of some TICAS recently.
Yeah, literally and figuratively, but pun was unintentional.

One I know really does not like sex with strangers.
Hence her ready grasping of the GFE role. (pride, self image)
Completed 4th grade, cannot get a real job without diploma.
Has never worked, does not understand concept of hard work and sacrifice.
A true victim in the beginning, but absolutely no understanding of the fact that she can be in control of her life.
Her planning and thought processes remind me of a goldfish.
(cannot remember more than the last 6 seconds)

In this process she learns how to get more money and stay reliant on others.


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 11:34 am 
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I don't think any of these girls wake up in the morning and rejoice the fact that they are prositututes. I would say most of them are uneducated & have families to support, and this is by far and away the most lucrative thing they can do financially. Some of these girls do very, very well by Costa Rica standards.

I spent the night with one of the girls at her home. She has 4 K*ds ranging from 6-18. The house was in a decent neighborhood over in Moravia, four bedrooms with a TV in each of them. She is very business like in her approach, knowing how much her "nut" is for the month. She is even in the process of paying for a piece of land that she will build a house on.

Having said that, she has a great attitude about it, and knows that in her "business" she needs to please the customers for bigger tips and repeat business. She doesn't drink at all, but loves to smoke la mota. Maybe that helps her chill out w/ her life and make things a little more tolerable. She's definately a happy stoner.

She was the ultimate GFE with me. Clearly, I was a client, but she also saw me as a potential boyfriend type that might be interested in developing a LTR, and send money to help her not have to work in the Del Rey. She actually found a gringo to do this with her, but as is customary, the gringo got tired of the same snatch after a few mos., and she was back in the Del Rey hawking her wares. After she realized I was not a serious prospect for a boyfriend, she reverted back to an all business relationship with me, at which point I politely moved on to the next set of opportunities.

I also think that even though they are not necessarily overjoyed with their profession, I do think alot of them take pride in being "high-class" putas. Alot of them are very concerned about their image with the other Del Rey girls. Alot of them equate the price that they get for their salidas to their value as a person I think. Hence some of the girls never leaving for less than $100, even if it means earning less total money in an evening.

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There are a few of these working girls that do leave and come back again to the "biz", i know one that returned because of the old "catch22"....work self employed legit, in a hard, physical manner for little money & no guarantees plus the mental stress of "will i earn enough today?"..OR go back to the dreaded "biz", that takes an emotional & mental toll on you, to better provide for yourself & your family........either choice has its PROS & its CONS........for some, its "how long can i TOLERATE DOING THIS" :( ........thoughts from the briar patch :idea: .........the rabbit

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I'm going to revisit a point I made in the intro to this thread. That being - which girls are likliest to enjoy what they're doing - the MP girls, the strip club girls, or the free agents.

To me, it's amazing that any the MP girls maintain any sort of good attitude, or stay with it for very long. Perhaps it's the relative security and the camraderie with the other girls. But the fact that 1) there's very little variation in the sessions, 2) popular girls often have to do repeated sessions with very little in the way of a break in between, and 3) they have no discretion as to who they service, makes it almost miraculous when you find those special girls who really put out session after session.

I can see the work experience for strip club girls - especially if they are basically extroverted - being a lot more rewarding. There's security, they usually have at least some degree of discretion concerning who they service (they usually choose who to make overtures to), can make decent money just on drink commissions and lap dances, and rarely are called upon to do private sesssions more than once per shift, if that.

Free agents take the biggest chances in terms of risk, but also have the greatest degree of discretion, and potentially the highest return in terms of income for time invested. As customers, this is where we take the biggest chances as well, with price negotiation always involved, and nothing in the way of a guarantee for at least a minimum level of service. I think here is where there's probably the widest variation in terms of the girls actually enjoying their work.


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I know it goes back to the fact that a lot of these girls are not as educated and don't have think long term also. A hot girl with a brain and some discipline could do this business for two years, save, make the right investments and live like a queen for life. Think about what kind of money some of these free agents are making as compared to the average Costa Rican. I honestly think there are a number of girls making over a $1000 per week. If typical Costa Ricans can live on less than $500 per month, then one of these girls should be able to bank $400-$500 per week after expenses. Of course, I'm being ridiculous. They aren't able to think like that.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 09, 2005 11:02 pm 
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Hey, this is a question I've wondered about, too, especially since most folks on this board seem so focused on BBBJs at the MPs, and given that, if I remember correctly, the management at ZB sez that BBBJs are their policy. What if one of the chicas at a MP gets into the room with a guy who has, for example, some sort of blister or wart or just a big ol' red spot on his tool? Or what if he just smells bad or has obvious bad hygiene? Can the chicas say "no, gracias", not only to having the offensive bugger in their mouths, but to giving them any kind of service?
If not, then I'd say the chicas at the MPs must be on the bottom of the provider totem pole, so to speak, and most likely to be in the poll #3 category.
That would be true regardless of their relative brain power or lack of "puritan" work ethic, etc.
This is a very interesting thread.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 1:54 pm 
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Or imagine that you're one of the hot chicas at "Joe's Oasis Zone of Fantasy Massage And Discount Mufflers" and a guy walks in who has the face of Godzilla, the body of The Blob, and the demeanor of John Ashcroft. He sneers at you and sez, "Come on baby, let's go!"
You've got K*ds at home and some debt, and maybe a sick parent.
If you don't do it, one of the girls next to you will have to go.
So...
Quit?
Start your period this second?
Walk real, real, slow?
And how do you deal with the memory?

This subject is stuck in my mind, because I really kind of liked a couple of the massage girls.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 2:15 pm 
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Of course, most of the actual chicas in a situation like I just described somehow "suck it up" so to speak and do what they're asked to do.

Financial need coupled with masochism, denial, and a vacuum of self-esteem?

WTF
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Yes, when I saw who Vanessa walked out with just before my session with her at Zona Blue, I kind of felt sorry for her. These girls are really troopers!


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 10:54 pm 
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when I see some of the big, sweaty, chain-smoking, wildebeests taking some of these hotties up in the elevator, I can't help but think that if I was her, you couldn't pay me enough money...

#3, definitely #3


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PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 11:45 pm 
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Honestly, looks don't count for sh*t with these chicas. They're hard and the ones that aren't fake it well. I see girls with guys that are disgusting. The rest don't get any special treatment. The guys that think they are special are just deluding thereselves. The chicks are about money. They might appreciate good hygeine, of course. Yeah, she thinks I'm hot. What, are you smoking crack.. Keep the game simple.


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 12:13 am 
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I plan to keep looking for that 10 percent who enjoy their work according to the poll.Those are the repeats.rbc100


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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2005 1:06 am 
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Thirdworld,

I respectfully disagree with your post.

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