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I definetly appreciate the input from everyone so far. I realize everyone has their own style during their travels and escapades and I definetly like to hear how different folks operate so I can compare the differences and similarities that they have with me.

I would like to add A few things that have stuck out too me while reading others input that fit into my style when in CR and I feel these are good ways too have better experiences under better terms.

I've noticed A few folks touch on bonding with the chica and putting in a little time up front. I couldn't agree more. My approach is that I really look too have a good time with a chica before, during, and after the session. I know that some others operate faster, and some guys like to emphasize more quantity, or more quality and I definetly respect each guys style. But I am just one of those guys who likes to bond with the chica during the whole thing....from my experiences and for guys out there who have similar styles too me, I would like to reinforce what Buzz said:

"...Laughter & being relaxed help all situations. They get the sense you are a gentleman & don't get mad easy. Once you start to get them on your side prices start heading south..."

Too me the key word is "Laughter" or having a sense of humor. I believe this brings value to the table and in some cases helps keep the price low. I have also seen some chicas laugh their buts off but not go lower on the price. But remember there is always a front end to a deal and a back end...and REALLY EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN IS PART OF THE DEAL TOO!!!

Once I see I can't get price any lower I am still trying to keep things fun and get the chica back to the room for an extended stay. Get more bang for your buck kind of stuff!!! I am working the whole thing to be enjoyable, (it doesn't cost me any extra!!) hoping to keep the girl happy and maybe laughing with the hopes to get more action in the mornings and really for as long as I can for the same initial dollar amount.

I don't mind this at all because when I leave a bar with a chica my approach is not the wham bam thank you ma'am approach. ( There is absolutely nothing wrong with the WBTYM approach and certainly use it when needed, it's just not my preference). I already know there is a certain bond or thing I have for her that I wouldn't mind the possibility for extended sessions. By knowing up front you have chemistry, it greatly reduces the chances of bad experiences and you don't end having the girl bail on you or you have to renegotiate things or tell the girl to get the hell out. I have had to renogiate after the girl got to the room and it's a pain in the ass. It pisses me off and these typically aren't the best sessions.

...Oh yeah kudos too the brothers who reinforced THE POWER TO WALK AWAY...or better yet TELLING THE GIRL TOO WALK if need be..

I honestly can't say I get 10's too often (hardly ever) but with patience (sometimes tons of patience) and sometines shuffling between a few different bars I am pretty steady with getting the 7-8.5 occasional 9 range for the all nighters. I also have a general idea who the hardcore chicas are, so as far as I can tell the chicas I get tend to not have great amounts of mileage on them..of course, it's all relative.


Couple other notes that have caught my interest. I think you guys that are building up your chica network have got it FIGURED OUT! When you find something you like, STICK WITH IT!! I have been going to CR for about 3 years and have only recently started keeping numbers for future visits. I have gotten freebies this way...imagine that(lol)!!! The guy who originally turned me on to CR used to talk over and over about how he only went into The Del Rey or most other bars to hang with gringos and drink a few. He refferred to all the chicas there as "Lesbian Vulture whores" and rarely if ever game them the time of day. His approach was to meet girls he liked down there (he was a 20 year CR vet) and then meet their sisters, cousins, friends etc to hook up with. He was constantly scouting out local places for hidden gems to add to his list. He totally worked off his network in his little black book. I heard him, but never really listened too him.I think I have been a fool up to just recently in not getting my black book going earlier.



Last thing I noticed someone bring up and I thought the same thing after my intial post which I think can only add value when negotiating which is appearance. I am not talking gigolo type appearance either. I am no Mel Gibson, and am actually a very slight slob. But the truth is, if a desirable chica is debating between 2 guys on who to go with and one guy showered and the other didn't then we know what the answer is going to be. It's easy to let your guard down in the gulch and start taking things for granted because you know all you have to do is flip out the greenbacks and get what you want. But at what price?

For example, I dress as plainly as the next guy in the gringo bars down there and am not loooking to make going out a big formal event, but one little trick that really has done well for me is that I wear cologne down there. Chicas love things that smell good too them!!! I don't even normally wear the stuff in the states. Now I only bring a couple tiny little sample bottles for when I go out ...one of them is 20 year stetson cheapo 80's crap!!! I put it around my neck all the time and there have been a few chicas that can't keep their noses out of my neck area!!! They nuzzled up like puppy dogs!! I'm telling you little things like this add value when negotiating!!!

Can't help the ramblin sometimes...

Buzz:
yes-- barefooting in that elevator would not be a good thing.
lee


Buzz:
Your second idea about forming a standard e-mail reply. If I may suggest when they ask for money use this.
Dear ( insert name ):
I am embarrassed to tell you that I will be unable to help. Upon returning from my last trip to Costa Rica I discovered that someone stole my bank card and cleaned out my banging account. My car had been stolen from the airport and my home had burned down while I was gone. In my rush to get to Costa Rica and you I left the insurance payment for my house in the front seat of the car. Returning to work Monday morning I discovered that the company I worked for no longer exist. The owner (and my boss) was caught with his secretary by his wife. The wife ran off with the company accountant who cleaned out not only the company's bank account but all the savings accounts of the employees. So you see my love I have no place to live, no car to drive no money and no job. I was hoping you could do one more guy each night and send me some money for the next few months till I get a new job.
Lee

Lee,I know I am rambling, but that is just too good.rbc100

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lol... great form letter!!

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Buzz,
I've noticed this the last few trips and wondered if it was just me..
The first time I met Hand-Solo and Latinoheat my face hurt the next day from laughing so hard at those fools (now the reason I try to go when they're in SJO) But laughing 'til it hurts is the next best thing to the chicas IMO. Hope to meet you for a few laughs in between chicas one day.
Great reply letter Lee, (and Lee is serious about his interview technique- I've seen him in action, he does tap them on the shoulder and point to the elevator)

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