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Please help me with these 2 questions:

1. We all know that falling for hookers = bad. But it's kinda tough because when you find one you like you naturally want to spend more time with her instead of going back to the pond. Then the time gets better and better as you get to know one another more, and the relationship becomes more dimensional. All of a sudden real feelings develop. Is it better to spend time with chicas you're less attracted to? Or have less chemistry with?!

Any practical advice here to somehow suppress these feelings would be great.

2. Is there a single latina alive that gives great head? I lived in CR for a year, and am in CTG, Colombia now and i haven't found a single one. Sure the sex, romance, etc is awesome.. but i'm talking specifically about oral sex. I LOVE gringa bashing, and probably would never date/marry a gringa ever again.. but when it comes to blowjobs all my best memories are from gringas, not latinas.

Thanks guys.

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The following is just the warped opinions of an old fart:

1: Will never understand the American male mind!! We bash Gringas for being cold, controling, prudish, dominating, sexless, demanding, and many other things we see as negative. Do we ever ask ourselves why they are that way?? NO, because we would not like the answer!! WE PERMITTED (AND INCOURAGED) THEM TO BECOME THAT WAY We see Latinas as being different--kind, loving, giving, sexual, romantic, submissive--all the things we think we want in a mate. That is till we have a relationship with one, then "BAM" we find out that they are just like the Gringa!! DID they change? Maybe!! Or were they always that way, we just did not see it?? Maybe!! My opinion is that the American male has been so dominated and controlled since birth, first by the Mother, then girlfriends, then wives that no matter how much we say we want something different, we really want the same familiar thing!! And we permit (and incourage) the Latina to become just like the Gringa!!!

The problem arrises from this desire to find a female that is "different" and the fact that almost "all" Latin "putas" are very good at making a gringo think they are different and everything he wants her to be! Why? to extract every penny they can from the poor sucker!!! ENTREAPMENT OF THE FIRST DEGREE!!!! I meet and talk to hundreds of guy when they are here and I can tell you, close to 90% have a favorita, a GF, a novia, or, or looking for that experience! Sadly 90% of those guys end up wishing they had never found "her"! Yes, for some, a relationship makes for better "sex" for a while. For most, after a few times in bed with the same chica, it starts to get old (the rutine sex) and the guy begins to realize she is no different from her gringa counterpart; just more adapt at getting what she wants more covertly.

All this is just a long way around not answering your first question!! It all depends on what the guy wants, what he needs, his maturity level (Yes, many of the guys who come here are extremely immature when it comes to relationships and understanding women) SORRY, but they are!! Going with chicas you are less attracted to and have little or no chemistry with?? WHAT FOR??? You came here to have a great time and to experience what you feel you cannot experience in the STATES!! If you "settle" for what you can get in the States, why spend the money coming here?? GO FOR THE GUSTO! LOOK FOR THE CHICA THAT BLOWS YOUR MIND! GRAB THE CHICA THAT MAKES YOU MELT WITH DESIRE!, BUT ALWAYS THINK WITH THE BIG HEAD! AND KEEP YOUR HEART LOCKED UP IN YOUR ROOM SAFE!!!!!! Long distance relationships do not work, and taking a Latina to the USA turns into a desaster much more often than not! Hey, maybe I did answer the question!!!

2:Is there a single Latina that gives good head?? Is this a serious question??? If so,hell, YES!! Seriously, just as with anything else, and as I have said many times before: WE ARE ALL INDIVIDUALS AND HAVE DIFFERENT LIKES AND DISLIKES IN EVERYTHING !!; and YMWV (Your milage WILL vary!! I can only remember ONE gringa that I thought gave good "head", but then my negative feelings for gringas probably is distorting my opinion! I have know several Asians (including a wife) who gave great "head"!! I have known many Latinas who gave lousy "head" BUT, I have known many who gave fantastic "head"!!!! . I have known latinas who I thought gave great "head" but friends disagreed ! There is one long time favorita of mine who I concider to be the best anywhere; most guys agree with me on this, but there have been a few who do not agree! WHY?? because we ALL like different things,-- techniques, methods, enthusiasm, slow, fast, mixed, lots of tongue, hard sucking, solf and gentle, deepthroat, much attention to the head, etc. etc!! And NO chica is going to give exactly the same "head" every time (well maybe Jenny and/or Fabiola, jeje)! If you have never found a Latina that you thought gave good 'head', my friend you have either been very unlucky in your choises, or, you must have some really strange likes !!! But I will say that in my experience overall, the Indys tend to be less enthusiatic and more mechanical than the MP chicas when it comes to giving head!! BEST OF BOTH WORLDS: Find a MP chica now working as an Indy!!!!!

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YMMV-

Wow. Where to start. You put up a very honest post so please don't think I'm rippin into you. I'm talking to you like you're a buddy of mine.

1. I don't know about most guys that go to CR, but I can't imagine falling for a working girl. IMHO, its the equivalent of falling for a stripper here in the US. What are the 5 words you never want to hear from your buddy at a strip club? "I think she likes me!" I hear it so often. I almost have to smack the guy to make him snap out of it. Usually, not all the time, but usually the guy recognizes how silly he was the next day. Same with CR. Take in the fantasy, Have fun and accept it for what it is. Shoot, treat a girl like your girlfriend if you want (personally I would rather taste many flavors while in CR but have gone back to the same well on occasion). But never think you are extremely special because that's what they want you to believe and that's when they get even more money out of you.

Have you ever noticed who a stripper dates??? Its the guy that many times is a jerk. Its never a good guy. Of course it happens on occasion. My point is, women like a challenge. They don't like the guy that falls in love.

2. No good head in CR??!!!! Follow BB57's advice. I think the best head I ever got was with 2 girls looking up at me. It was in CR of course. But they both knew exactly what they were doing and worked well with each other. I hadn't seen teamwork like that since the gold medal US hockey team. I wake up in a cold sweath sometimes having dreams about it wanting to get back...But don't worry, I'm back in April !!!!!!!!!!

Have fun and don't take life too seriously....

BB

Any practical advice here to somehow suppress these feelings would be great.

it's all about perspective: you're paying her to make you feel desirable and wanted. Enjoy it but don't believe it. If you're beginning to believe it she's doing a good job. Congratulation on finding such a good performer just remember it's a performance. I always like to think of it as going to a movie. You buy your ticket you take your seat you enjoy the performance then you go home. Remember there's some other guy buying a ticket sitting in the same seat and getting the same performance.

Fortunately I've not had the same experience concerning oral sex. Had the very good fortune on my last trip in January to run across a very good performance in that category. Purchased several tickets for that Show.

Lee

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I hope you, BANG BANG, don't mind me responding to your above post since I am a non-paying member...but

I agree with you 100% percent...good response

The only class of Gringa missing from Brother BB57's list who shape and control us is school teachers. Schools are in business to control if not outright suppress all natural male instincts. Some of this is a good thing (testosterone can be powerfully destructive especially in the permanently-adolescent) but there has to be something of a balance lest we get totally feminized--our society seems well on the way to this--this is doubtless a perennial complaint, but it's truer now than ever before.

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"Amen, brother"-ED