Father Figure

Phoenix Rising · **Posted:** Wed Dec 23, 2009 10:05 pm

Isra123 wrote:

I think that you learn better ways to make them like you as you grow older and also many women begin to see you as a father figure and respond favorably to that. They get gentler loving too and that is why many women prefer men over 40. In fact in the good old USA many openly say they will not go with young men.

Thought this was an intriguing post in the Chubby SL chicas thread and thought I would open this up for discussion.

Any comments?

TexasNVegas · **Posted:** Wed Dec 23, 2009 10:41 pm

Phoenix Rising wrote:

Isra123 wrote:

In fact in the good old USA many openly say they will not go with young men.

Perhaps they want older men because of less sexual demands?

Bilko · **Posted:** Thu Dec 24, 2009 5:31 am

Generational warfare...

The girls prefer young because:

Physically more attractive (or less disgusting)
Finish faster
Have lots of 'enthusiasm'

The girls prefer old because:

Have (generally) more money to spend
Come slower (for those who can actually have an orgasm)
Take a more relaxed attitude to the process

Different girls have different priorities. Just like we do.

Cariden · **Joined:** Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:35 pm **Posts:** 740

i can come just as fast in my 50's as i could in my 20's so some of us don't lose what is important. :lol:

BangBang57 · **Posted:** Sat Dec 26, 2009 9:25 am

Cariden wrote:

i can come just as fast in my 50's as i could in my 20's so some of us don't lose what is important. :lol:

The 50's (Hell 50's are still young :wink:

) are NOT when the problem(?) starts for most of us!! Wait till you hit mid 60's; then see if you have still not slowed down!! :twisted:

Hell for me, I would not be bragging about cuming as fast as I did in my 20's (way toooo fast :oops:

) And lasting longer is, in my book, certainly not a bad thing!! It is great to be able to pluck like a pron star time wise (even if the old body does not want to cooperate physically) :oops:

. As for the other half, AND MORE IMPORTANT, part of the problem; "getting it up"-- thank God for modern science

And most importantly; WE ARE PAYING these chicas to be "in love" with us for an hour or so irregardless of whether we are 25 or 65. And anyone that thinks a "pro" cares one ounce whether you are 25 or 65 is being illusional--it is ALL about the money and nothing more. And this is something that guys (all of us) need to learn. Accept it for what it is and quit looking for a "love of my life" in a "working chica". AGE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT other than as has been mentioned -- older frequently equates into "having more money" in the minds of many of these chicas.

Next time you are convienced that "she" is in love with you and wants you strickly for "you', think about seeing some old old, fat, very ugly, and cruddy, (missing some teeth, scarred up and pitted skin, un shaven, smelly, etc.) that you saw setting in the bar with some young, hot, sexi chica rubbing and kissing all over him!!!!

Remember wondering how she could do "that"??? MONEY!!! The most important requirement for sucess in the prostitution business is "BEING A GOOD ACTRESS :!:

Rainman3 · **Posted:** Sat Dec 26, 2009 9:59 am

Quote:

i can come just as fast in my 50's as i could in my 20's so some of us don't lose what is important. Laughing

Phrase of the day: "polvos de gallo" =premature ejaculation.

Or

The opposite of "couldn't nut."

FWIW.................which isn't much!

Santas Bro · **Posted:** Sat Dec 26, 2009 11:24 am

They definitely like the older men, the dead presidents!!!

Pacifica55 · **Posted:** Sun Dec 27, 2009 12:11 pm

My girl and I are 28 years apart. She tells me she likes me best because I teach her new things and she doesn't like teaching younger know-nothing guys. Old dog, many tricks! :shock:

Phoenix Rising · **Posted:** Sun Dec 27, 2009 3:44 pm

For the guys here that have daughters, as I do, very close to the age of "consent" ....this may be something of an issue. If you find a young lady that has a little more to offer than a wet hole, as i do on occaision, and care to delve a little deeper on a personal level, you may find yourself offering "fatherly advice" ....and may find it appreciated. I would think that many of these honeys do not have many fond memories, if any at all, of their fathers, and may be quite curious to explore this emotional realm denied them...maybe with you!

One of my favoritas is 19 and I admit I find myself engaging in conversation with her about her future....like I would with a daughter.. . :?:

Lennydo · **Posted:** Mon Dec 28, 2009 10:40 pm

I agree PR. Most of the time, I've felt like I was raising a teenager daughter - many of the same issues. She had no father figure growing up and her mother was a drunk.

SnapperTrapper · **Posted:** Tue Dec 29, 2009 12:59 am

Pacifica55 wrote:

My girl and I are 28 years apart. She tells me she likes me best because I teach her new things and she doesn't like teaching younger know-nothing guys. Old dog, many tricks! :shock:

Yeah that is a shock, I would have guessed she would have known it all. lol :lol:

J0sie · **Posted:** Tue Dec 29, 2009 9:22 am

I have been following this thread because of the interesting subject matter. Not personally for me but at something that I might have to deal with in the future. First for some of you here are some links, you really need them;

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/mental-emo ... 69411.html

http://www.getmentalhelp.com/

http://web4health.info/

If you are still adamant that young 20-something chica is in love with you and would choose you as a mate instead of somebody closer to her age, have her show you her social network links like Hi5, Sonico or Tagged and if is fill up with 50â€™s and 60â€™s gentleman, then you have a shot. Otherwise, the only area in which you, the 50â€™s-60â€™s young stud in you have a shot at the chica is on the P4P area. I think that is where we have to make a big distinction between a non-P4P and a P4P relationship.

Would a chica choose an older gentleman as a mate? Yes, it could happen, but some of the reasons given on some of the previous posts are coming across like from a bunch of delirious winos. Some of you guys have been doing this for a while. To even entertain the notion that if all was fair, money and security, and the chica had a choice between a 20-something stud versus your 50â€™s-60â€™s wrinkle butt, and she will choose you is a bit of a stretch even on this board.

Now if we are exclusively speaking about P4P, then I can see that an argument can be made for a chica to choose an older gentleman. Then some of the previous post will make sense. We all like our fantasies but to be honest with oneself is knowing thyself.

"An honest man speaks the truth, though it may give offense; a vain man, in order that it may." -- William Hazlitt

Cariden · **Joined:** Thu Apr 05, 2007 4:35 pm **Posts:** 740

if we wanted a downer we all could call our exwives and speak to them..... :lol:

Most exwives are our age so it would be appropriate....

Redman69 · **Posted:** Tue Dec 29, 2009 1:28 pm

PR, I have daughters and you hit the nail on the head. Great, the way you layed that out.

Phoenix Rising · **Posted:** Mon Jan 04, 2010 1:14 am

Well i just completed an intense 4 day wife up with my 19 year old colombiana amigovia and she was great...she took care of her "viejito" muy bien. When i got wasted at Mangoes on New Year's Eve she put me in the cab and got me back to the hotel safely... When it happened again on the chiva tour and I got a little "hot" about something she was able to calm me down so i didnt lose it... Who's the adult here any way?

Gonna miss her

www.CostaRicaTicas.com

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