My sensibilities are a bit different than most guys. I am as hetrosexual as a guy can be, but I have some things that are in common with many females, and gay guys ( of which I am not). I like to shop, interior decorate and love flowers. The way I look at things have made it easier for me to relate to my female partner on their level.
My DATY begins in the face of all places, with patient, soft, gentle kissing, then I work my way down, ever so slow, in ever decreasing circles. I spend a great deal of time at the nipples, as well as the armpits, and both places I have found prepare most females, relaxes them, and gets them ready, sort of like 'setting the table'.
As I work my way down, I spend a great deal of time at the navel, another very sensitive place indeed. By the time I get to the area I am shooting for, they are usually 'wet'.
I have found American women ( Gringas ), do not truly appreciate this until they reach their mid to late twenties. The ladies in the countries I have mongered in appreciate this at a much younger age.
When I get to the promised land, again, I take my time. The last thing I do is start the dining pleasure. Depending on the lady's reaction at this point governs my digital activity, and their response dictates this part of it.
I have found that the vast majority of ladies have two 'G' spots. One a Quiver zone ( The Q Spot ), the other a Seizure zone ( The S Spot ). Both are usually in a predictable, specified area.
Most of the time, I use my tongue to very, very gently explore to find these spots. The amount of pressure I use with my tongue at times is so light, that I am almost not touching her, that light. I have been told over the years that most males just ram their tongue right on in, and that's about it.
As this is taking place, I am still touching and kissing and paying attention to actions and reactions away from this most glorious place of human anatomy.
I have found the underside of the hood and the top side of the clitoris ( for those of you who do not know, my handle, ManintheBoat on another board I am associated with is a name for it ) to be very sensitive. This is usually the place that is the quiver spot, and by finding the right combination of lingual pressure and touch, the response is predictable. I usually continue to get them to the brink, then back off. I have had my hair pulled at this point many times for me to continue, but I usually do not.
At this point I start with gentle digital exploration. I use the very tip of my right index finger for this, ever so light in touch, utilizing my thumb and middle finger to gently distract the vaginal opening, all the while gently stroking other parts of the body with the edges of my finger tips and back side of my finger nails of my left hand. I am also preparing this wonderful place with ever so light stimulation with the tip of my tongue, gently tracing the outline of the inner and outer vulva, or lips. This is when I hunt for the Seizure spot, and usually find it. It is usually located on the undersurface of the opening to the vagina, right at the top, 12 o'clock, just inside about a centimeter or two. Once this is found with light touch, I resume my lingual activities to confirm this. The reaction I usually get is arching of the back, deeper moaning, and at times, the knees come in to the side of my head, and this can be a dangerous manuver. I alternate soft and firm lingual pressure to this spot and work them back up to the proper level, all the while, very gently touching the quiver spot.
Once I get the lady to the level that I like, then I will alternate between the two spots to meld the quiver with the seizure, and I have actually had my nose bloodied by a Romanian chick, Natalia, as well as a couple of Russian ladies.
While they are in the frenzy, digital play starts, many times in the back door. I continue this activity just to the 'brink' then back off and start over. When the lady had climaxed, I come upstairs, kiss, and stroke and hold her. There is usually a very sweaty lady, and a pool in the sheets by this time.
I give them a few minutes to recover, then I know that what I have in store for me will be very nice.
_________________ I'm a heterosexual, but I love lesbians.
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