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If the girl is your favorita and she is hanging out with you, you were pretty sure she wasn't going to go with the guy. The only way she might go with him is if she likes him more and he spends more money on her. Even then, if the girl has some tact she isn't going to just get up and leave you.

If the girl is a P4P or a new civilian g/f, what I do is ignore the guy and let the girl stand her ground first. If the guy persists, after the 2nd or 3rd attempt I would say something along the lines of "don't you see she doesn't want to (talk with you/dance with you/have a drink with you), leave her alone brother." In a firm, matter of fact way, not aggressive. After that, it's up in the air how it goes.

First trip to CR, at HDR, several times I saw guys trying to call away girls who were talking to me from a distance. Usually ignoring them worked.
Once, while sitting with my friend and two chics, a guy was trying to get the girl's attention. When he couldn't, he started flashing a laser beam in our direction. I just gave the guy a dirty look and he stopped.
I was buzzing, the guy was obviously drunk also. So I just remember to be firm but try to avoid escalating the situation. With so much action over there, no need to have a chip on our shoulder.

This is a very good topic. I sympathize with the monger , however I also sympathise with the working girl. The asshole gets no props!

Now my take: I have seen the girls flirt with their next prospect before they close the deal with the present prospect (Trick). I have seen mongers flirting with chicas that the avergae man would presume to be busy or taken.

As with any sport or game there should be some written and unwritten rules so that noone's ego, pride, or business is adversly affected.

A certain amount of decorum should always be in effect and practiced when encountering these types of akward situations. The location should not matter. The people involved is what should matter and how they behave.

A good example of how this should have gone is: The girl should have informed the interloper that she was happy to see him however she was busy at the time with her client and would entertain him possibly later. A veteran chica would know how to have handled this situation without either monger's feathers being ruffled so to speak.

There is more than enough poon (last estimate 20 to 1 ratio) to go around for guys not to interfere with ongoing negotiations between a monger and his or her prospect.

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If said monger was at a table with multiple chicas, as he stated, there could possibly be room for misinterpetation on the interlopers part. If our CRT brother was sitting alone with her with his hand down her pants maybe a different story.

Was sitting in the SL a couple weeks ago, I was pretty sure I had neither the energy nor inclination to seek out a short term romance so I started buying drinks for the girls I knew.

as it turns out while the waitress was asking the girls what they wanted, a girl I knew from a previous trip (no sex) recognizes me and waves so despite her sitting with a guy at the time, I bought her a drink. The guy she was sitting with hadn't.

Drink comes and she comes over and hugs me to say thanks, we chat less then 1 minute before she returns to her table all the time, the guy is staring daggers at me.

So, sometimes the situation isn't black or white. My options were:

Ignore the girl while buying drinks for her friends
Or buy her the drink and send her back to what was an ongoing negotiation.

I'm sure if said guy was a CRT'er (the kind that actually post) he'd be here complaining that some guy tried to poach his chica when the reality was not even close, the girls does nothing for me sexually but she's always been sweet. He hadn't bought her a drink despite sitting with her for a while, so was I wrong?

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Only in that you didn't immediately leap at him and stab him in the eye with a fork, key or any other convenient sharp pointy implement.

mh

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Next time...

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In a pay for play situation this would not phase me in the least. It simply does not matter. There is no need to be defensive or territorial in a mongering situation because you have many options, the upperhand and you WILL get laid. Sure the other guy is practicing douchbaggery by doing what he did but really......does it matter in the grand scheme of things? Relax, have fun and oh yeah....you will still be getting laid that evening. Its a non-issue and by remaining cool she will come back 90 percent of time and even if she doesn't.....so what?

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Maybe the dude was lucky you weren't in a fighting mood that day, but if I have to put money on it, I'd say he was bigger than you.

Personally, if the guy is smaller than me, I beat his ass, if he's about the same, I suggest to flip a coin, but if he's bigger, he can take her, I might even throw in a "do you want me to pay for your session sir?

Of course what the dude did was wrong, but you're at fault too. Why did you take "your special" girl to a mongers' bar?

Never mind, do as you please. I don't give a damn about what mongers do anymore. I'm on my way out anyway.

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The problem with a place like SL is that there are quite a few bf/gfs there on any given night. It takes a few minutes to sort out who is who and who is with whom if you haven't spent much time there.

One time an old friend was down visiting. He had the good sense to ask me about a chica before he made a move on her. She was the novia of one of the embedded regulars. He saved himself a little embarrassment with a quick "what's up with her?"

I really don't think most guys are trying to be rude. It's more of an 'unconscious of what's up' type thing.

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IMHO just say to the guy ,she is on my dime now. You can talk to her when she is alone. No need to get in a fight over a P4P girl. Even if she is your special friend.

I had a similar problem at the DR a few years back. I had a regular that I liked alot. I know this is STUPID, but I told her to meet me at the DR at 10pm and then we would hook up (I KNOW A PLAY ON WORDS). When I got there she came up to me with tears in her eyes. She told me she really likes me but a guy had just offered her $500 US for a all nighter. I looked her in the eye and told her ,Hell for $500 I might go with him. So she left with him. Dude it is her job. So I shook off the moment and took her best friend and railed her good. The next night she came back up to me and said you took my friend you Ahole. I said so what. Then she said lets go back to your room. My friend said you make her C*m 3 times. Nows my turn. I cant make this kinda crap up. Only at the DR.

Why is Miamiheller the only one speaking any sense around here?

I happened to be younger and bigger than the guy. I guess its a matter of I would NEVER approach a situation like that out of respect for all parties involved even if it WAS my favo sitting there (she said he's a semi-regular). And I would expect someone (I know, I know...) to pay the same respect ESPECIALLY with all the other chicas who were NOT talking to a guy.

She handled it very well, telling him she couldn't and he moved on (in a huff - I think... maybe I'm making that part up). I just thought "if you're dumb enough to try it the first time, you're probably dumb enough to try it a second."

I'll have to agree with Gypsy on one thing here. Why would you take your special chica/ favorita or whatever the hell you are calling it these days to basically a whorehouse? Once you've roped them don't you want to get the hell out of the DR, KL, SL etc. To each his own. I don't tend to take my chickens to a foxhole...

We've all agreed the guy was a douche for butting in, where we differ is how much do you risk by trying to instigate the guy over a p4p which can be replaced 2 mins later by maybe someone even better

Obviously you have in your mind what you would do if it happens again, it your not getting validation from the posters here it might simply be a case of different strokes for different folks.

Personally I'm not chucking the knuckles over a whore nor am I using utensils as a weapon, simply not worth it.

One day the guy will get his, why does it have to be you that gives it to him?

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make love not war...

This is why I try to sit near the bathroom. I wait for the guys to buy the chicas drinks and as soon as they go to the bano, I pounce on them and rush them to my room. This is a very economical approach!

Michael Styles