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I don't think it hurts to exchange info, as long as you are strong enough to say no. If you have been sent an RFM, somehow, someway a chica has perceived weakness. Plain and simple....They know who and who not to send to.

Why is it always "weakness"? Maybe it's that they perceive you as generous, kind-hearted, etc. so they send you an RFM. And if they don't send you one, that doesn't necessarily mean that you're "strong" and they respect you. Maybe they know you're a cheap Phucker and they won't waste their time.

I fall somewhere in between on my opinion on this. I don't think they percieve weakness as much as they view you as business. Otherwise they know asking for money is busch league..

Just like with everything, there might be exceptions.


Cujo

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Whatever,, doesn't really matter to me either way. Not gonna get into another one of these. Let's just say the chicas generally know what they are doing in all situations.

Or she just went to secretarial school and is practicing her Mail merge skills.

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Pattaya, Angeles City, SJO. Doesn't matter. We are looked at as walking ATM machines.

I gave out an email address to a couple of chicas so that i could contact them before I came down. Never heard from them until I did this, then I got the RFM.

should have said in the previous post that I did contact them by email, then got the RFM...

Not only is that opinion jaded, it's simply not true. Other than the hard core regulars we see year after year, the chicas change jobs, get out of the biz, whatever, all the time. Moreover, the really good ones have a stable of favoritos that rent them for days on end effectively taking them out of the game at the most inopportune times (i.e., when you're in town and want to hit that). If a particular chica rocks your world and you want to see her on your next trip I strongly recommend getting her contact info and confirming her availability before you leave the states. If you can't manage the "complications" associated with doing that, well, don't do it and risk losing out on a good thing. It's not that hard to communicate and maintain control on your terms.

And if you get an RFM, so what!?! You can blow her off and move on to favorita numero dos, or you can blow off the RFM and hook up with her anyway understanding that she's just playing the game like she's been conditioned to do. Again, you can play the game on your terms and she will respect that - or at least understand it. This is not complicated stuff here.

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Just for the record.I get there phone#s and contact them shortly before i arrive.It works for me.Gypsy thanks for your response.Cujo-you have never agreed with anything i posted so i dont expect you to start now.I"m amazed that myself and others can go to CR and not do things your way and still have a great time.

Slow down hero..

I'm not saying to do anything "my way" potna....

I just thought it might be worth it to not be afraid of getting an rfm and perhaps get some banter back and fourth going so that you can have a session that was worth the money.

There's certainly nothing wrong with "your way" of not giving out info, to each his own. So I wasn't disagreeing as much as I was mentioning that chicas don't automatically send rfm's.

Yeah, I don't need anyone trying to do it my way...

Cujo

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Cujo, even if your intentions have been to flame me, I wouldn't mind it at all, when things starts to heat up, I just let it slide and laugh it off. I'm a happy man and nothing will change that.

First of all, I speak Spanish fluently. I'm a Latino and understand what's going on in Latinamerica better than you gringos. In Latinamerica, the gringos always get either the "hypocrite" or more convenient version of things. Sometimes both!

And yes, it's been my experience that once the communication starts, so does the BS. In the past I recommended not to get on the plane with her contact information, but after thinking about it (well, the true is that I broke my own rules), so now I say that you can bring her contact information with you if you intend to use it only when you go back or not at all. Of course, never give out yours.

If you live there, it's a different ball game. Let's say one day you decide to hit an MP and of course, in order to get a hard-on you need the V pill, so you take one...or two, but before you leave it starts to rain. Holly shit, the blue pill kicks in and you can't to get wet. What should you do? Well, the logic thing to do would be to get on the phone and call Maria:
- honey, I have a hard dick, if you take care of this problem good, there's 25k colones here waiting for you. Hurry up or I will call Belinda (a girl she hates). I'm sure she will take very good care of my little, hard dick.
- Oh no, no that bitch. I'll be there right away".

In this case, having her contact information handy is good!

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No AP, it's true. Yours is just an excuse. One thing is to get her digits and call her while in town, and another is to exchange emails and phone calls in a bi-lingual Tarzan's lingo with a semi-literate puta. I've seen it and it's plain and simple pathetic.


A puta rocking an old man's world!? That's macho talk, there's no such a thing. We all get the same kind of service from those ladies, exaggeration is what makes it great.

Things go like this: monger # 1 goes with puta Maria, then comes here and tells us she was the best phuck he ever had (of course, he doesn't mention that the other woman he had been with before was a crack whore he did a couple of times in an alleyway back home).

Now monger # 2 search for puta Maria expecting the greatest thing since sliced bread but instead gets the sex monger number # 1 got but didn't tell us. Do you think monger # 2 would come here and tell us that puta Maria is a lousy phuck? That's a tough one. Let's say that the ego took over and he won't.

Now monger # 3 hooks up with puta Maria and of course, gets the usual shitty sex then comes here and tells it like it is. Mongers # 1 and 2 will tell monger # 3 "you got her in a bad day".

Only once I went with a star puta and spite of all the "sex to die for" talk, I found out that the sex was just like what you get from any other puta, a little bit different but nothing to write home about it.

She rocks your world, compare to what?

...or call her and risk losing a better thing.

About all that "communication on your terms" is just part of the macho talk. We control nothing, the one with the pus*y controls us with the help of our egos.

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That has got to be the biggest load of crap I have ever read on CRT. Gypsy, if it was that way for me I would gladly jump off a bridge. Glad you're a happy guy!

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It must suck to be you. I know that I don't get your kind of service. If I did, I would not go back.

I agree with Angry Pirate completely. The best chicas tend to be busy more often and so it's a good idea to get in touch ahead of time to make sure you can hook up with somebody you really want to. That's what exchanging email addresses accomplishes. Nobody is saying you should give them your home phone number or address.

The phobia of RFM's that some possess is hilarious. Could it be that these same guys just want to hold on to some sub-conscious belief that the chica really likes them and is not with them just for the money? And an RFM would burst that bubble...

An RFM is just a fishing expedition. You can respond or ignore it, the chica won't care one way or the other. The next time she sees you, she won't even mention it.

slow down hero... sorry i dont get it.But then again myself and others will obviously never have the knowledge that you and the other experts have.On another note to everyone knocking gypsy-when i joined crt(6-2006) there were many posts about rfms and the need to say no to them.Now all of a sudden we should welcome them but still say no. I think that some of you over analyze.