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B*I*N*G*O We have winner. Thanks MH. I couldn't have said it better. Although I'll try. LOL
Jose,
Since you asked me, I think it is only fair that I give you an answer but in the end you have to answer a question for me.
First of all I'd like to say........ I am NOT a stud. NOT a stud. I don't see myself like that and I don't walk around with a big chip on my shoulder pretending that I'm anything special... I'm not. But the thing is we all have different styles and approaches to not only mongering but our lives in general. Not only does that make life interesting it also keeps the line for that ONE particular chick that we all would NEED to hook up with, manageable. There is no wrong way or right way. We all should be doing what we do OUR way. There was once a post I read and I can't remember who wrote it but it brilliant. The guy explained that all his life he never had success with the ladies. He just does not have the skills or the confidence to make it happen.. That post opened my eyes and made me think, I never really thought about it like that but now I see exactly where he was coming from. So, what I'm saying is that it does not matter what your approach is as long as you are happy and the actions you take adds to your quality of life.
Second. The reason I like going to CR is...It's fun, it's exciting. The quality is there. I didn't say I didn't go there to hook up, I just said that it isn't my primary concern. It's icing on the cake. For me I don't want (again this just for me what ever you do is fine too) feeling like I have to hit something. I'd rather make sure I have a good time first and foremost, when I can do that and hit sumpin too that's a bonus. They guy's I've met are all stand up, good guys who like to party and that just has my name all over it. That's who I, at least, think, I am.
You apparently haven't read all my post. So I'll give you a brief synapses of where I come from and who I am. I'm not a K*D. I'm basically an old man that never grew up. I've been around. There are things I've done in my life that I could have done better but, if you ask me would I change it? The honest answer to that is...I don't know. If I changed something in the past it may not bring me to where I am now and I kind of like where I am. I was heavily involved in the swinger's scene here in SF for about 10- 12 years but now that I'm older... the chicks that I'm most interested in aren't particularly interested in me and the ones that are interested in me...for the most part I'm not into. There are other reasons some of which weren't my decision or choice but rather my better half's and I won't go into those. I can't tell you the number of women I've been with for a couple of reasons. #1 I'd have to actually try and count them up and would surely forget this on or that one along the way. #2 Is no matter what the count someone would have a problem with what I say. Either, "He's full of chit", "He's a liar", "He's bragging" or "That ain't chit, I've been with 10 times that many." I can, though much more easily estimate the times I've P4P and that number would range, even with the two trips to CR this year, some where in between 20 - 30 times .If I just want to get a nut though...... I promise you I can. Even if it's a date with Rosie. I've found that most things in life are never black and white, right or wrong.. So, you see we all come from different places and experiences. We all have our own preferences. Just because I say it isn't my primary focus doesn't mean I'M not looking at all. But when I do the goal is always GFE and if it isn't I count that as a loss.
Now, I'd like to talk about money. In that regard we all come from different places too. What some us consider ridiculously expensive others my find reasonable or even a bargain. It kind of amazes me how concerned a lot of people are with how other people spend their money. I'll never own a Villa in Monte Carlo but I have a very comfortable life. I'm lucky. But since you asked about money. It really isn't that much even with airfare. The airfare for my last trip I was able to use some AA miles so it cost me a whopping $35 total. My hotel another $300 something. So you see it wasn't that much money. When I go out here in SF. I like to hit the clubs on South Beach. I may get a hotel so I don't have to drive home the 60 some odd miles. I like nice places. I can not even begin to tell you how many times I've paid the hotel cost for myself and another couple. It's part of the cost of the party. I've stayed at the De Delano, the Shore Club, Loew's and some of the smaller lesser known places. Some of these places will hit you hard in the wallet. It isn't uncommon for the Delano for example to hit you with a 3 night minimum. Dinner for 2 in a hot spot in South Beach with a bottle of wine can EASILY cost you another $150 - $200 with tip. A table in VIP in a South Beach club can easily hit you up for $300 - $400. So, what's the difference? What I have a harder time understanding is if all you want is to get a nut........ Then why would you go to CR? There are MPs all over the place here and they specialize in just that kind of service. Yeah, okay...it's illegal. So? Many of us do things that are illegal every day. Ever speed?
We're all different my man and we all have different goals. If someone wants to just go nut, nut, nut, nut....... and in the case of QBF nut, nut, nut, nut nut, nut, nut, nut nut, nut, nut, nut. LOL Go for it I don't have a problem with it. I wish I had the stamina. To each his own. My first trip I considered it to be rather commando-ish. I'd have to go back to get an actual count ( 9 or 10 in 3 days 4 nights) but for me it was a lot. Maybe you ask why? I'm not sure but part of the answer is that it was new and I didn't know anyone so why not? If you don't agree with someone's approach then let it go........There are others here that do. The only time I have a problem with someone is when they fail to recognize the human side of this past time. The girls and the mongers are all in the end different but still people. What works for some won't work for others. That's life. But treating people as people with feelings is a responsibility we all share regardless of style.
Now it's my turn. Why is it that if someone looks at something just a little different than you, you think it is your job to call them out? If you don't agree move the f' on. Let it be. There is someone on the board that will gain something from the post because it fits their style.
KenLee and that's my dos centos! (Is Centos a Spanish word?) LOL PEACE!
Last edited by KenLee on Fri Sep 25, 2009 1:34 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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