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Welcome aboard, Lilrube55. Great first post and it sounds like a good method to me!

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thanks, that was my 1st ever post but i have already made 4 trips to CR in my first year!! i am hooked. i like a regular nooner and i try and book my favorites to come over and play but usually never more than every other day. you don't want to get too locked in or they can start taking you for granted. always good for them to know you have a roving eye for great new talent. as long as their performance level stays high i will repeat. they generally seem to appreciate the repeat business and reward me with excellent service. and i like to reward them with inexpensive little gifts and sweets that they really seem to love. i will brake this pattern by venturing to panama city for the first time in april. i look forward to making many new friends there and returning to san jose in early june, late october and again in late january for my birthday and the super bowl.

[quote="Pacifica55"] The only reason I am with her is because I want to be and vice versa. She is free to do whatever she wants and I am free as well.

Pac. I learned this lesson many many years ago and wish more people realized it. You can never, ever MAKE someone WANT to be with you and the more you try, the more they push away. The one piece of advice I can give is... People will ALWAYS do what they perceive as being in their best interest. Will people make sacrifices? Yes, when they believe it to be in their own best interest.

I used to have a strict "no-repeat" rule that I abandoned maybe four trips ago. What is my motivation? Well, I like the certainty that comes with repeats. But I like it at different levels. For example, at this time I have four primary repeats. The first is actually two girls at HLH. They are very skilled in the sack, easy to talk to, and have bodies (pussies, asses, and faces) that suit my tastes perfectly. I buy an hour with them every time and always use every minute of it.

My second favorita is a young chica that works sporadically at the SL. She's not the greatest looker in the place, but we have good chemistry in and out of the sack. She's always good for a solid 2-3 hours of true GFE. I've never kept her longer than that, but she would gladly give me more if I asked.

The third is thirty-something hottie from Idem. She has the best body of them all - built like a Playboy bunny. She's very much a GFE outside if Idem, yet all business and very service-oriented. She doesn't speak a word of English, but I really enjoy my time with her practicing my Spanish and telling each other sweet lies. Her oral and acting skills are second to none. I session with her every trip and will continue to do so. She rocks my world.

The fourth I met on my last trip. What started as a sleazy 10 minutes on a vinyl strip club couch evolved into three days of true romance. I have never sought that kind of experience from a working girl, but those were the best three days I've ever had mongering. If it was my first trip to CR rather than trip number twenty-something I would have fallen in love. I can't wait to repeat that fantasy again for as long as it's still fun. With her the sex is great, but she's the type I can take into the civilian world and have a great time with. Although I do enjoy sharing with her things I generally would not share with most workin girls, at the end of the day we both understand it's all business.

I really don't care much about their personal lives beyond small talk. I do open up a bit more with number four, but there is a limit to how much I want to know or share. I can't say that the sex has gotten significantly better each time, but my expectations have always been met. But even though I think my mongering preferences have shifted more towards repeats, I still enjoy chasing new conquests, and I intend to maintain about an even split between repeats and unknowns until that no longer works for me. I can't wait to get back to CR to see what still works for me.

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I must warn you that Panama City sucks for mongering. Do yourself a favor and go to Colombia, Nicaragua, or El Salvador instead.

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I've read this thread several times and thought I'd like to add something but never did. Then I decided what the hell... Say it. I may come across like a girl but what the f. LOL

I, except on occasion, find that I have better sessions with someone I've been with in the past. That's not to say that some of those first time experiences can't be filled with explosive passion and off the hook sexually because they can. However, for me any how, repeats are the way to go. First there is a level of familiarity, like was mentioned before. I won't really repeat if it isn't crazy hot, any how so you at least have that going in. The level of expectation is already established. It to some extent is building on to something you have already started.

I will tell you what the part timer girl I'm now calling my favorita told me because I think there is a level of wisdom in her words. She told me it is trust. Well you can take that any way you want. Trust has many levels. What she meant though is there is no apprehension as to is something going to go wrong or is this person a freak or nut job? I think then part of the reason why it is better for me is that....... It is better for them. She is more relaxed and more comfortable. I know that a lot of you guys don't agree with this but I'll say it any how. When you can get the girl to just let down her guard, just a little and you can remove at least some of the element of p4p then you change the situation. It isn't JUST about the money... I know... I know many of you are going to say it is always about the money and to a degree it is. What I'm saying is it isn't ALL about the money. We spent many hours together and talked a lot. She knows I'm here on the board and she knows I have friends around. I asked her if she wanted me to introduce her or share her number with some of the cooler guys I know and this is what she said. She prefers to just show up and see what happens. She would rather be able to choose guys she relates to. She told Cujo and I in his room one night that she never approaches a guy and she never goes to the DR. Never. So with her at least, I don't think it is just ALL about the money. She does have a full time job so this isn't her only income but I can't help but believe there are many girls out there that feel the way she does. Especially the part timers.

Flame me if you want but, for me anyhow, I want to feel something. Not just have sex. If I just want to bust a nut I don't need to spend hundreds of dollars in travel and hotels to get there. I have Trapeze in Fort Lauderdale and South Florida is loaded with MPs and they'll more than will to get you off and get you out for a whole lot less than the CR experience. Besides I have my own thing going on so it isn't like I'm sex starved. I want quality over quantity. I want to be able to talk, laugh, enjoy the times outside the cama (heyyyy a Spanish word... good for me! LOL). For me anyhow I am usually able to do this more with someone I already know than it is someone new and just as importantly or more so even is that I think the ladies are too. On my last trip my favorita and I spent one evening at Club Vertigo. I'd guess that there were two hundred people maybe more and I saw no one or no group that I would have identified as being mongers up from the gulch. The majority of the people there were local Ticas and Ticos. It was a different element and our evening was far more like a date than anything I've experienced in the p4p scene and I LIKED it and unless I'm being played by a master, she did too.

KenL

Ken,, always common ground. One thing I see in your post that I like is Vertigo. Anytime I made a date for the night, even p4p, I wanted to go to a normal environment. I never understood taking a date to places in the gulch for a gfe.

Ken, I still have a question;



So, why do you come to CR?

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Yea Ken,

Why do you come to CR? Don't you know we all go specifically just to bust a nut?


Cujo

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I hope so, unless one is being busted on you!

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Hit them fast, Hit them hard and NEXT!
A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!

I don't want to speak for KenLee, but given he's a fellow South Floridian I'll chime in: for me, the CR mongering experience is loads better than South Florida in both quantity and quality (so far).

Why? Even when I factor in airfare and and hotel, I get a lot more for my money in Costa Rica. And I get to meet mongers who are into the same hobby I am. It's like going to a Trekkie convention.

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Miami – and that is my whole point. Proclaim it, Phuck, just shout it out and be proud. I GO TO CR TO Phuck! No shame to it. It is legal in CR. All this “I do not need to go to CR and got all the pu*sy I want at home”, it raises some question at their motivation to spend thousands of dollars to get to CR. Especially from a guy that just clocked 4 trips on 5 months. I will say he is in for monger of the year award material, but from this last comment, he just lost my vote.

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Hit them fast, Hit them hard and NEXT!
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I don't want to get this thread off track but just FYI, it doesn't cost thousands of dollars for anybody who lives in SoFlo...


Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

But I do go to CR to frak/fock/phuck Isn't that what I said?

How did I lose your vote? After all, I have been down 4 times in the last 5 months, with trip #5 coming up, so I assume you're talking about... gasp!... MOI??!?

P.S. Cujo's right -- R/T airfare + hotel for a weekend runs me between 600 and 1000 bucks (depending on which room at the SL and how much I drink)...

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mh

Dude, you slipping….

Hotel, airfare, etc…


Even taking an average of $800 a trip which I will said, BS but I will play along. 800 * 4 = $3200 in five months and I will said, you better have some pu*sy scalps to show for it.

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Hit them fast, Hit them hard and NEXT!
A good chica is like a good carpenter - No wood gets wasted!!!