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No your story is the 100% the opposite. You met a girl and have a relationship with her. I don't see anything "in-human" about that.


The guy came to this board to tell us about a "human side of hooking".
As if the side we are one is "in human". I guess he believes he can teach us about humanity and the first lessen is to run off the nice girls to keep them away from CRT guys.

He thinks it is more "human" to have paid that girl you met NOT go with you or him or anyone else.

His purpose was to give her money to leave and told her to never come back. Why?

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* These are the "Good Ole Days". Enjoy Them.

* RENT but, "Don't Buy a Home in Costa Rica" until you have lived here for THREE years.

Yea, please don't. But if you do, you can't charge cien, only fitty. I can see it now. I am at the Pirates Club enjoying the lady show, bongos start playing, and 50 comes galloping out with a cowboy hat on and red, white and blue spandex overhauls with stars on the side. . Next stop would be the Dominican, Brazil, or even Utah.

Well, if some ladies like to do it, I'm down with that.

Dean

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my first wingman sent me this, how true

" most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."

The argument is why did he come to this board to tell us that he knows the "humane side" ? That statement implies there is a 'in-humane' side. Did he think everyone was going to say, "Wow, thanks Sonny !" Your a really great person with more humanity than I could imagine."

"I wanna be like you, You've inspired a movement. I'm going to march right down the the HDR and save all the new girls. I already feel great just thinking about it."

is that "real"

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* These are the "Good Ole Days". Enjoy Them.

* RENT but, "Don't Buy a Home in Costa Rica" until you have lived here for THREE years.

I'm just confused as to why it "obviously" struck a chord with you.....

Not flamming, just asking...


Cujo

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"Pain is the fuel that fans the flames of my pyre. A battle plan is only as good as the general carrying it out on the field. This is my war son, and I have the biggest bombs and the smallest conscience"...

Fair Question. I call bullshitt when I see it. The men in the USA have givin their ballsacks away to the women.

I'll try to keep it as simple as possible.

It is my understanding that we, CRT are a group of guys that are interested in Costa Rica Ticas. We meet them . We date them. For some of us, we get love that we couldn't get in our home country. Some guys develop lifelong relationships . Others start families. Some adopt families. Some guys guys tear it up , and will back at bar in 50 minutes smiling. Everyone rolls differently.

This is what we do. So when someone calls it "in-human", I wonder why they are here. If someone's conflicted about a CRT guy meeting a new girl and wants to "save" her and come here to preach about what a saint he is, I say bullshit.

I have seen new girls like this and bought them a beer even if I have no intention of taking them. If I buy her a beer and a few minutes later some friends may show up and one of them might have interest.

I am not conflicted. I see guys come here and now have a new leash on life. They now have a reason to live. All the sudden they are back home exercising, eating better getting ready for trip 2,3 ....68.

I don't think there is anything wrong with what we do. So someone bragging about stopping a girl from meeting us guys, I ask. Why are you here?

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* These are the "Good Ole Days". Enjoy Them.

* RENT but, "Don't Buy a Home in Costa Rica" until you have lived here for THREE years.

Man, I still can't figure out what this entire thread is about.

Is it about semantics? About philosophy? Ethics? Morality?

Is calling an act an example of the "human side of mongering" an automatic characterization of all other monger acts as "inhuman"?

Are Berk and Icanstayaway really the same poster?

Are mongers who send chicas home c0ck-blocking other mongers, are they acting out of the kindness of their hearts, or are they just playing a deeper game we just don't get?

Are Elvis, JFK and Michael Jackson really dead, or are they all hiding out on a remote South Pacific atoll?

Inquiring minds would like to kn.... ah, heck no, I really don't care at this point.

mh

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mh

I get what you are saying,but I think maybe you are reacting to an ambiguous choice of title...

I think maybe the title "The deeper feelings and emotions behind mongering" or "Internal conflict in the monger/hooker relationship" might have been more accurate..

I am just guessing though.Why am I debating hitting send on this?Maybe because the flaming on this board is way too prominent?

You know,I think the people that hypothesis that more sex in the world would result in less war are just underestimating the tenacity of the warmonger vs the whoremonger...

I don't like the emoticons on this board...they are not very expressive IMO

So when am I supposed to send her money?

Why ? Is there something wrong with the HDR . If something is wrong with the HDR, then what was he doing there to begin with?

Would he have done the same thing if she was sitting in a local Night Club ? NO ? Yes ? Why or Why not ?

If she was such a nice girl, then why wouldn't he call one of his friends to meet her . Doesn't he have freinds-wingman ? Or is she too good for them ?

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* These are the "Good Ole Days". Enjoy Them.

* RENT but, "Don't Buy a Home in Costa Rica" until you have lived here for THREE years.

I think this one has run its course.

We have had several of these threads over the years and they always follow the same pattern.

If someone wants to make a nice gesture, so be it. If they think that paying a chica for sex is bad for the girls life then they should not do it.

The guys that do not think about it one way or the other should continue on.

BKTUNA
I am never going home

i second what bktuna posted.

Which was the "Soprano discount" moment???

Anyone home ?

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* These are the "Good Ole Days". Enjoy Them.

* RENT but, "Don't Buy a Home in Costa Rica" until you have lived here for THREE years.

Myso.........

The Soprano Discount????
That gave birth to CRT
I have been told the story first hand I do not wish to to tell it second hand
Ask the boss

Confession time from E.C.

prepare the flames. I'm a big boy; I can handle it. Before anyone writes "You're ruining it for all of us by your largesse" or something like it, I'll pre-empt your flames by stating the following:

* Every gringo that calls a girl a "puta" to her face "ruins it for all of us."

* Every guy who is physically abusive in bed (it doesn't have to involve a punch or a slap) "ruins it for all of us."

* Every monger who goes into a session drunk, dirty, smelly, too high to function..."ruins it for all of us."

* Any monger who brags of his exploits to another monger in the presence of the chica "ruins it for all of us."

Whew. Now that I've hopefully spread some flame retardant:

1. I gave a chica nearly $500.00 to try to ease her (verified) financial crisis. She subsequently fell of the wagon, got very drunk for a week, and ended up in the hospital.

. Have paid for sessions during which I didn't even have sex, but enjoyed the company/touch/caress/affection of the girl.

3. Ansered a $250.00 RFM from a well-knowwn massage therapis...

4. Have given coins and cigarettes to beggars.

5. Have left tips/propinas that were a bit too large, simply because I likedthe waiter/waitress/bartender.

6. Hav gifted hotel empleadas with perfume and extra cash, candy and lingerie.

7. Given Christmas gifts to my Mom, brothers, their offspring, my wife and her relatives.

8. Donated to charities.

9. Spent hours of my time counseling/hand-holding/listening to my CRT pals.

Why did I do all these things? Ken Lee nailed it: I did these things (and still do), because they feel good to _me_. Do I expect that my largesse will have any lasting effect on the world at large? Nope.

Here's what I have done, still do and (I pray) wil always do with those dirty, filthy, skanky, c*m-guzzling, lying f*cking subhuman p*tas:

1. Treat them with the rspect and love I want for myself. (See "Golden Rule" - Check Wikipedia if you need a quotation)

2. Pay fair-market value for service.

3. Recognize the good in everyone I spend time with.

4. Listen with my heart but filter what I hear through reason and experience.

Guess what? Even though I don't always get back everything I've given from the original recipient, my "kindness" seems to come back around to me with amazing regularity.

Point: I got a reputation, good or bad depending on your machismo and perspective): I earned the reputation around the SL of being something less than a sexual dynamo but loving, relaxed, "normal," and generous. It's amazing how many free hours, extra love, good laughter and great times I received from the girls. Now, make of that what you will, but I know that my generosity (of spirit, not necessarily of money) earned me the reputation of being a desireable client. Yes, it also opened me to "queen-for-a-day" stories, hard-luck tales and requests for "donations," but my rep also got me a bit of "real love" from the girls.

You hardcore mongers go ahead. Think of these women as being basically undesirable fore their evil ways, useful for only their c*nts, asses and mouths. Go ahead and dehumanize, if it makes your dicks work better. It's not the way I roll. Am I a sucker? Time will tell; I may never have a novia, but I am certain I have friends among the working girls. That reputation to me is more valuable than any reputation I might earn among you all.

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