I would say we all do things we would not have done, or are doing. But to digress to how a lady feels, I honestly do not know. I am sure about 90% would just like to take care of a home and one man. Unfortunately. life has dealt them a bad card. I, personally, can not be responsible for their actions, nor their situations. Nor, can I afford to deal with all their stuff, not financially, but emotionally. There is nothing wrong with a guy trying to help out. Maybe for him, or true, just for her, at that moment. But, we always look out for ourselves. And, so do they. To answer Berk's question, there is an absolute human side to certain ladies. I have very simple rules in life, which apply to all. Common decency, self respect, and open the freakin door for her, the same way you would want her to pull down your zipper. Come on, let's face it. Do you really think this is what she dreamed of as a young lady?
The converse, JOsie and Orange are 100% correct. The innocent games they play. But, it could not last forever, and they would have to put out. Somewhere within this monger web we weave, there is a lady, a person. Now, I am not stupid enough to get involved. I think that was their point. But. we all cherish a lady. Otherwise we would not be out like the outside lion upon the hill, looking down at lionesses. Somewhere in life, there is a balance. It differs for all of us guys.
Let's put fantasyland into reality. Does anybody really think that a little senorita is going with us for financial gain without emotional pain. They have a tough road. But, I am not in charge of Streets & Sanitations, so I say it is what it is. And, I always agree with cutting the strings, whether it hurts or not.
My peace of mind,
Dean
_________________ my first wingman sent me this, how true " most of the girls down here, lie as a self defense mechanism and to not have to face the truth, thinking most men couldn't accept them knowing the whole truth. Simpler, they may just want men to think they are as perfect as they want to appear to them, trying to hide what they consider to be the ugly truth about themselves. And I may be reading more into it than is there, but I do believe they consider the basis of the lies to be justified."
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