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You're a man in need of a hobby. Get one that does not involve a keyboard.
Why do you have to be so negative, Lee. You opened this thread called "Dear Astro." You knew what it would be about. If you feel uncomfortable discussing your feelings, then go start a nice LAL thread. Some guys like to talk about this stuff. It is what some guys find so fascinating about Costa Rica. You obviously just want to go down there and Phuck as many as you can with NO emotional attachment and come home. GREAT. You don't see GFE guys attacking you for that.
JaggedEdge writes:
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You know how believable some of these girls can be.
I've been e-mailing a girl I met there last time; it was her 3rd day in CR and first in the DR. I got to break her in so to speak. She seems to have a little bit of a bond with me (or is it my perception).
It is always safe to assume the worst. While it is great fun to communicate with them via e-mail or phone when you are back home, never believe much of what they say. Remember the lifestyle they come from. They are taught to lie from an early age. Really lying is more normal than telling the truth. They are taught to manipulate men to get what they want. It could be real, but chances are it is an act. Be wary all the time!
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Although she has been telling me how she’s not making much money she has not asked me for a dime. Only for me to return soon. She also wants me to stay at her apartment when I come down. She tells me I am her only boyfriend and how much she cares about me .
Warning: THIS IS A SETUP. No matter how much money she is making she will always tell you she is not making much money. Is she a hottie? Does she go to the Del Rey? Do bears shit in the WOODS??? She is making money. Some chicas are smart enough to start their setup weeks in advance. What she wants is YOU exclusively next time. She wants all your dinero. I am not saying to NOT play along. The game can be FUN. Go ahead and stay at her apartmento. It is a fascinating experience. Just a word to the wise: check for bed bugs first!
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To be sure , I will never send money, or purchase expensive gifts, but it’s easy to wonder If you actually could have a special relationship with a working girl. especialy one that may not be so hardened yet.
It is easy to wonder, isn't it. It is the ultimate fantasy. Just remember it IS a fantasy. If she is working at the Del Rey....it is NOT gonna happen! I am telling you, as Paco also said....she will be ruined in 3-6 months. There is no phucking way a hot chica can go there and bang 2-5 of us gringos a night and not get jaded. Trust me on this. But that does not mean you can't have a lot of fun with her. Play it out, just guard your heart and never believe them.