KenLee wrote:
I've taken the advice from the board and I have taken all of the items mentioned in this thread and given them out. The girls do like them but then again...They like cash too.
At any rate recently I started thinking more about the practice of gifting. I think it is also possible that in giving stuff like this away we re-enforce the notion that we are to be used for what they can get out of us. There are as many views on this as there are mongers. To each his own. I suspect I'll continue to give things to the girls I really like or the ones that are outstanding in the way of performance. That's just the kind of guy I am.
Having said that though I think we need to think about how we want the girls to view us...As someone to be manipulated for gain or as guys that are cool to hang out with and party with when we are in town. I think it is a delicate balancing act. Just my 2 cents.
KenLee
I think you spend way to much time with Cujo. On your next trip, do this experiment. Show up to the HDR, what the heck, any MP also included. Announce that you are there to have sex without paying for it. Let me know how that goes. How they see us? Can you spell ATM?
OK…just busting your chops but this is P4P. We pay they spread. Anything in between is just for our fantasy. Never forget that.
Exactly, JOsie. If you have a favorite regular then bringing her a little something is nice, but to freely give out gifts to every one-time-only chica is taking the fantasy a little too far. Cash is what they want and what they get.